Do you feel awkward giving your guy a lap dance?

Or is it just me?

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  • Definitely NOT just you. I would feel awkward as heck trying to attempt that. I don't even consider myself a bad dancer. I think it is that trying (or overly trying) to be sensual and seductive that would likely result in me laughing so hard it would have the opposite effect.

    I'm so awkward about it, never done it. My dear SO is sitting here with me right now and I asked him if he would want a lap dance. He just looked at me and laughed. I agree with his assessment.

    I have no problem being seductive if I want "you know what" to get myself and him in the mood. Combine it with dance? Pfff, that is a recipe for disaster. There wouldn't be a serious bone in my body trying to accomplish a lap dance.

    I think, if anything, it would be a fun game as to which one of us could keep a straight face the longest. 🤣

    • @prettypriya I almost always feel like an idiot, but my husband enjoys it.

    • @KatherineJ Since you asked this and I responded, we have been sitting here joking with each other about how awful it would be. I might actually have to do it now. If he can survive without laughing, he gets some. If not, down boy!

    • @prettypriya if he’s anything like mine, you are both in for a really good time. 😉

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  • Well I’m sure it’s not JUST you, but I know that I wouldn’t feel awkward. I mean, especially if you are having a sexual relationship with someone, why would you feel awkward dancing in/on his lap? I don’t think there is anything inherently sexual about a lap-dance, but it is obviously something that’s quite intimate. I think the only thing I would “feel” would be honored that I get to do something for him that would turn him on. There are a lot of women in relationships where their s/o is never turned on by anything they do.

    • @crazygirl2 you have a point.

Most Helpful Guys

  • You know I’m so glad you asked this @KatherineJ this is such a fun and sexy thing that I know most guys wish their girl was willing to do. But like a lot have expressed is just goofy lol and I think like you said it really boils down to a girl setting herself in the guys point of view and trying to guys what looks good to him. Because it does look so hot when she is feeling sexy and having fun with it.

    • Thanks for the MHO!!

  • This is a weird one. Considering the intimacy involved in a sexual relationship, I've never been with a woman who is comfortable dancing in front of me or doing a lap dance. They always feel awkward or start giggling and feel silly.

    They'll dance the night away on a dance floor and grind against you in public. Close those doors for a one on one performance and they go all shy lol

    • Yep, this is me you just described. Do we know each other in a former life?

    • @PrettyPriya Haha! Who knows? Maybe. So many unknowns. Like how did I know exactly what apartment block to go to when I was in London despite not having any directions or asking for them, map on my phone or GPS but somehow felt like I'd been there before, when I hadn't. Spooky! :-)

    • @peteby because it’s TOTALLY different! It’s one thing to grind on him when we are dancing, and another thing to have him to myself and want to seduce him.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • So my boobs would be in his lap instead of my own🤔🤣🤣

    • @brainsbeforebeauty thanks for that visual! 😂🤣🤣🤣

    • Welcome😘🤣

    • @brainsbeforebeauty damned gravity! 🤭

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  • Not at all, lap dances was part of being a exotic dancer.

    • @aerissa_jade I’m referring to your significant other…..

    • Definitely not a problem for him either.

    • @aerissa_jade So you used to be an exotic dancer or you still do it?

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  • Not really awkward. Silly maybe.

    • Why silly?

  • if you and your man like it, hell do it, its fun, I have doe a strip for my husband and one of his mates, sex was great afterwards,

  • It can be, I don’t knwo why, my brain can just freeze, same as before doing a video

    it requires some practice actually otherwise you just don’t know what to do, it’s like seeing people good at dancing, you think it’s completely natural and actually they worked and danced a lot to get to this

  • Not awkward. They don’t let it be awkward though. Guess thinking on it the receiving end plays a big part on confidence.

  • Nah I feel sexy when giving a lap dance

  • I don't really find it awkward if the guy is into it and I haven't had any complaints over the years.

    • I have a feeling you would be a lot of fun to receive a lap dance from!!

  • Extremely awkward! I have no problem dancing with him, him watching me dance, or stripping gif him, but adding them together on his lap feels so awkward to me.

    • @elliegirl exactly! But for some reason it turns him on.

  • Girlll its ur mannn... or maybe u have insecurity?

    • @bubblegunnn of course I have insecurities!!!

    • But if he enjoy it whys thats matter

  • I've done it before... it was awkward AF at first, for both, but she really wanted it and ended up loving it

    it was a dare too, and also a challenge... lol

  • My fat ass isn't very good at giving my guy a lap dance lol FYI don't have a guy. Not interested in a guy either

    • Now to my serious answer, I'm sure lots of women feel awkward giving their guy a lap dance. 99% of us don't give a shit. We're happy that your lap dancing for us. We love you for being yourself. Shake that ass, stick those boobies in his face, show him that coochie and be confident because we love it

  • Yeah, I'd rather just have sex.

    • @jessjj me too, but sometimes it’s fun to spice things up.

  • Nope not one bit. It's fun and he loves it. If you tell him he's not allowed to touch, you can keep teasing him and watch him go crazy.

    • @josyjosy that’s cruel. 🤭

    • If i was married and my wife gave me a lap dance and told me that i'm bot allowed to touch, i'll be laughing hard since i'm a cave man and we do not have this rule of "not allowed" 🤣 I'll turn into a predator and eat her alive 😈 Not allowed, where do they sell that? 😂😂

    • @TonyMetal___86 And that's actually the point :)

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  • I've given my wife a strip show for her birthday and definitely felt awkward doing it. When she does it for me, it's really sexy and a turn on but I'm guessing she feels just as awkward.

  • I can’t dance

    • I don’t expect her to do so either

    • Just rub it on my face and I’ll make it worth her while 😊

  • I'd feel awkward too

  • I've done it but I feel silly. He gets hard just watching me get undressed after I come home from work

  • if you are 40, then I understand why

    • @d3n0939 ouch

  • Why would you feel awkward? A wife should never feel awkward with her husband, everything is normal between a married couple!

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