I am not asking from the moral viewpoint. I am asking for your own happiness which one is better?
Now that I talked with my married cousin, she asked me why the hell do I want a serious relationship when I can sleep with literally anyone I want.
I asked why did she marry if she gives me the suggestion of being promiscuous?
And she said, looking back she’d enjoy life more… So… Is that what everyone thinks?
I started wanting only one. She didn’t (repeatedly). I tried again wanting only one, turns out she was psychotic. Then I kinda lost my mind and did some stupid stuff for a while. Stuff that could have killed me. Then I found “the one” and we were awesome for about 18 years. Then she changed her mind and did more damage than I can recover from. So we’re done. Now I’m just getting used to the idea that I’ll be alone. And that is okay.
so, I think promiscuity is a phase that some go through. It’s a learning process that some figure out and some don’t. Some very faithful people used to be promiscuous and realized that they were wrong. Some very faithful people have never been tempted. So are they REALLY faithful? Or have they just not had the opportunity yet?
people come in all shapes and sizes and are at differing places in their journey through life. Some have been tempted greatly, and some have never been tempted at all. For those who have never been tempted to judge those who have gone through trauma and betrayal and misery, and of made poor choices as a result are the same kinds of people that reported somebody for not wearing a mask or would’ve reported to the Nazis were the Jews lived.
You don’t know what is going on inside the heart of another. If your answer is to judge them because you think you’re better than them, then fuck you. Karma is a storm from which you will never recover.
For me speaking honestly I loved both , but in vastly different ways , and as an example to be promiscuous here ( Thailand ) would be easy , but would bring me no joy at all , there is so many reasons for all this..
But , is essence in Australia , it was very different the promiscuous period , everyone knew where they stood , all good fun , and I could do whatever I wanted , no one was hurt..
As , I get older , and you may think Sht - how old you want to get? But , I think Id be happier with something stable , so long as the sex remained good , I would never just do for companionship , now all this stuff is good in the beginning , and I've just commenced a new serious relationship with a stunning girl , so lets see how that goes..
Honestly , if I were 25/26 again , and I was always very selective , even then , it would come down to the individual. back then , by many and have been told again since , they all thought I was a player , wayyyyyy beyond what I was , I was actually pretty serious , just for whatever reason , for the most part it didn't work out , but I never had to worry about girlfriends or the like , there were always many that really liked me sexually , sometimes it was they who wanted to " keep it simple " I remember one saying.
I've never been promiscuous and never had to deal with any of the problems that go with being promiscuous that most people have to deal with.
No question about it, with one partner is the happiest
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I prefer a relationship before sex. Always have, and always will. The more I see and hear from both my guy and female friends, the more glad I did. If you don't care for love and just want sex with whoever you can get it with whenever you can get it, sure, do that. But I enjoy the relationship, and for me, both have a purpose together. Sex is a tool in my eyes to be used to become closer with your partner, not meant for what has become recreation activities for the joy of ones self. Rather, I believe sex is a tool to bring two together to become as close as possible. Without the relationship aspect, it will inevitable leave one feeling hollow. Not at first, but certainly over time. I've watch a number of friends and family fall prey to that and seen how its effected them. I just think most people don't think about the long term consequences when the idea of having X amount of sex partners at once is immediately more thrilling to them. Rather then the long journey of a life partner. I think it's romanticized more then anything else and I think the majority buy into it without a second thought.
I am quite content with my wife and have no need for any other woman. It's as simple as that.
I am the same. Haven’t had sex for a very long time because I am single. I was just wondering what everyone else thinks.
I never felt like I had to be in love to be in a relationship. But I always did prefer being in a monogamous relationship with a girlfriend as opposed to having sex with anyone who came along. Things like one night stands and friends with benefits didn't appeal to me.
I liked being in an infatuated relationship with a girlfriend who I could trust. A best friend to hang out, chat, go places and do things with, hold hands and walk with our arms around each other, hug, kiss, and have fun.
I think sex is better in such relationships. You get to know each others likes and dislikes and want to please each other. It's intimate and passionate.
The only difference between that and love is, at some point one of us might decide that we didn't want to spend the rest of our lives together. I always thought that marriage was a once in a lifetime thing.
But that's just my personal attitude.
i definitely feel happier with one partner. sleeping with people i don't have a deep connection with leaves me feeling empty and pretty unfulfilled.
happy with one right now
It seems like men prefer having one partner so they can get steady sex. Women not so much we'd rather go get sex when we are feeling like it.
For me, it's been a combination. While single, after my divorce, I enjoyed the company of several women. Once I found the woman for me, she became my SO, and one is more than enough.
One partner of course
Never understood how someone can love more than one person at a time.!
Of course women giving other women bad advice! Your cousin probably married a loser since she probably couldn’t offer nothing but sex. As for the question I’ll say a partner! I had lots of sex with one night stands and the best time I had was with girl I was dating
Nope, my cousin married a wonderful man. Not a loser at all.
She was virgin before marriage, I think maybe she feels like she missed on something. I don’t know.
I dont mean a loser like a loser loser I mean like a guy she’s probably doesn’t respect or wasn’t her first option or was broke. Because it’s really weird for her to say that most people say the opposite.
I’m single and definitely not unattractive. If I really wanted to I could sleep around. I just don’t want to. Unless there is some sort of emotional connection I feel it’s a waste of time, money and energy.
I was never promiscuous. For a brief period I dated two girls at the same time. I was a little full if myself and thought I was a real stud. I realize now I was just being a jerk
I don't do boyfriends. I might settle down eventually but I'm far happier playing the field hard at the moment.
I think a promiscuous lifestyle stems from insecurity, wounds from the past, heartbreak, or selfishness. It sounds like she is the latter
When I have one partner. I am a better person wanting to love them and being accountable
I much rather have just one partner. I'd rather give one woman all my love instead of dividing it up between different women
With partner...
Many many positive in life.
Just be in an open relationship 🤷🏻♀️
I want one partner as well… Open relationship is not for me.
One partner you can trust and enjoy being with is my preference. As for your cousin, like a lot of people, they either want what they don't have, or they think the grass is always greener on the other side
One. Being promiscuous was the most empty time of my life.
Cool. Happy birthday by the way
Nope that's not what everyone thinks or at least that's not what i think, one woman is always enough for me, if i want to enjoy, she will be more than enough to only enjoy with her...
I'm a one woman man, glad that i'm not an animal or have animalistic traits like your cousin!
promiscuity is like candy. Great at first but it rots your insides
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