Do you feel like you aren’t Woman enough if you can’t fit your partner inside u?

[dovido]

Hey girls so that’s a real question. My girlfriend is petite and mostly she can’t really fit me inside her completely. She feels kinda “ashamed” even tho I try to make her not to, but it does push her to try more and more which is fun and nice for me. But I really don’t want her to feel bad. I’m not that huge either, she is just pretty small down there (and in general) and when I try putting it all in... it hurts her. How do I make her feel better about it? Has anyone here overcome it? Should I just be flattered and move on? We are over 3 years together

[Holisticapproachsara]

Of course. A vagina is capable of having a baby inside so a dick is no biggie. Especially that most guys aren’t that huge. So a girl who can't fit a dick there is really lousy. Like she can even prepare her self before hand but she ain’t putting any effort

[dovido]

What do u mean prepare? And I don’t really like the “having a baby” fact.. We don’t want sex to be hurtful nearly as much as having a baby!! So there’s no real correlation

[EmmaMary]

@holisticapproachsara You've beaten me to it. lol

[Holisticapproachsara]

@EmmaMary 😜

[Holisticapproachsara]

Buddy i am not saying that it should be hurtful. But the vagina have the capacity to stretch and relax. Come on this is common sense. And by preparing i mean foreplay and using sex toys. Has it ever occurred to u she might be... just might be contracting her pussy on purpose to avoid fucking u😅i am just assuming here😏

[dovido]

Haha why would she avoid fucking me? She suggest sex more than I do.. and we do live together and live each other for years now..

[EmmaMary]

@dovido Talk to her and ask her these very same questions, it's called Communication.

[Holisticapproachsara]

😅really i am not sure why this is happening to u buddy, but as a girl i can tell u this is really rare and unusual. Why doesn't she consult with a doctor?

[dovido]

She is going to one, waiting for her appointment for so long bc of covid. Blaming the guy sarcastically isn't that helping u know. I did say we do communicate and that she feels this way, and I wanna comfort her and wanted to know how common this is.

[Holisticapproachsara]

Good that u r taking a doctor appointment for her. Maybe she have a condition or so. But no this is not common if thats what u want to know. Usually the vagina is only that tight before foreplay or if the girl isn't turned on

[Gwenhwyfar]

No. On the rare occasions this has happened I didn’t feel bad about it. But then again it never happened with a steady boyfriend.

She should talk to her doctor. This could be an issue if you guys ever want to have kids.

[Sevenpointfive]

she needs to discover her own sexuality. i don't know why she isn't more willing

[Nazgol]

No lol she shouldn't feel bad it's not her fault it's just the way her body was made maybe the guy is just too big