Do you feel sexy?

[itsmyownname]

Simple question.
If yes, why? If no why not?

[theCobbler]

Yes I do! Why? Because I believe being Sexy is a state of mind , not a physical feeling! How? Because I get a lit if Double takes and big devilish grins !

[itsmyownname]

I love that answer!

[theCobbler]

Thank you! 🙏💋🎩

[whitehide]

Honestly; my ass looks amazing in my work clothes, so yes.

[itsmyownname]

That's great 😁

[whitehide]

What about you?

[itsmyownname]

Me, too. But not all the time tho

[nightdrot]

Voted "Yes," but I owe it to my girlfriend and not to me. Left to myself, I don't give it much thought one way or the other. I am as God made me, so to speak. However, my girlfriend makes me feel warm and attractive and sexy and that makes a big difference.

When we are laying together in bed and she rubs her hands against my bare chest and her fingers through my chest hair, I feel sexy. I realize that there is something about me that turns her on and it makes me feel sexy - and frankly, makes me want sex.

Ditto if she gives me a hug and presses herself against me, that also makes me feel sexy. It is like she is telling me she loves me but more than that that she wants my body pressed against her. That just leads to feeling wanted and sexy.

Beyond that, I try to look my best. Certainly when I am walking around our house in my underwear or in the nude - we tend to be pretty casual in our house about nudity. Not to the level of a lifestyle, but we tend to be fairly casual, even with three children in the house. For the most part it is just a certain comfort level, but I will admit that when I can display - so to speak - it can make me feel sexy.

Ditto - ten times over - when I have an erection. That definitely makes me feel very sexy. That male instinct, rooted in evolution, for the male to display to attract the female.

Of course, that is probably obvious - there even being a chicken or the egg aspect to it. Does feeling sexy give me an erection or does an erection make me feel sexy? Difficult to say on that one - a little of both, I guess.

Bottom line, on any given day in any given moment, it is not a question foremost in my mind. However, I suppose that my default position is to think of myself as sexy. I am in reasonably good shape, a fair amount of chest hair, a penis that is uncircumcised and is actually average length and girth - though a bit more grower than shower. Dark brown hair and blue eyes - best I can do.

Besides, my girlfriend says that I am sexy. It is her vote that really counts. That is one very big yes vote - I will, in the democratic tradition, accept the verdict.

[potatoiswhoiam]

No 😂 cuz I'm just not

[susie22]

Not to sound conceited, but I always feel sexy, lol. I'm tall, long sexy legs and gym-toned figure and I dress in nice, sexy clothes, and I see guys checking me out constantly, so I must be doing something right.

[Crowejerms]

Long legs huh? Mmm I bet you be turn heads

[susie22]

@Crowejerms I'm 5'9", lol.

[skullwulf]

I fiil sexy but I've been having some insecure issues here lately. It's a newish filling to me. But yes I fill good with myself on most levels

[Apple1996]

I always feel sexy😝

[itsmyownname]

Yes girl :))

[Crowejerms]

What makes you feel sezy?

[I-am-a-nobody]

It might be because my wife tells me I am, but I think it also has to do with how I feel about myself as a man. A sense of humor is sexy and I think I have a good one.

I'd say I'm a 10 among guys in their late 50's, which might be a 2 for men in general.
(ha ha)

[EmbraceThePain]

Sometimes.

[FictionalCharacter]

No I do not.

[itsmyownname]

But you are sexy

[mattmanyah2]

I've been working out a lot here recently training for the national guard but I don't think I could get with a girl if I wanted I'm too dorky

[ShadowofRegret]

Not really, I look too boyish for that!

[itsmyownname]

Is that a bad thing?

[ShadowofRegret]

Not to me personally, but usually what seems to be considered sexually appealing for a guy is when he looks tall and rugged with chiseled features and scruff, not really the boyish looking ones...😅

[itsmyownname]

For me that's not the definition of sexy. I also feel like personality is sexy.

[ShadowofRegret]

I see, I really can't say I actually know what's sexy for a guy since I am one, that's just what I often hear. Just out of curiosity, what kind of personality do you consider sexy?

[itsmyownname]

Well it depends on the person. But humor and confidence is always atractive/sexy

[ShadowofRegret]

Hmm, I make people laugh sometimes, but I tend to be shy, so the confident one is probably a miss.

[sluttyboy2000]

I feel your pain so much. My body looks 25 and my face 15. But hey, at least I'll age well I guess. My dad looks like he's 30 when he's almost 50.

[ShadowofRegret]

That's true, my father looks younger than he actually is as well, so it does have it's perks.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Sometimes

[Crowejerms]

Why not all the time?

[Gwenhwyfar]

@Crowejerms depression. Anxiety.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Nobady who i meet and i aproce say that i look ugly, olso i have in the past 3 girlfriend and some other night stand, all mi friend girl/guy say that i look good. Olso some other strangers has tolld me that i look good. And olso i'm become a little narcisist in front of a mirror. :)

[NewZion]

(Southern accent): Hell yes! Got damn! Homeboy you so handsome!

[chriscdi]

yea cause i just shaved, besides im papi chris the majestic king dulce de leche rey de culos, im always sexy 🙂

[letssee89]

No, I have mirrors. I'm not what I'd consider a handsome guy. Add in being 80 pounds overweight for my height, I'm definitely not sexy.

[itsmyownname]

I believe there's something sexy about everyone! You don't have to be typical handsome to feel sexy!

[sluttyboy2000]

I love it when girls stare at my body and can't take their eyes off of me. I feel pretty sexy when girls have a hard time not looking at me, ehe.

[Mr_Peterson]

Well I don't think this is too bad, what do you think?

[imredheaded]

Sometimes I feel sexy. Usually when I'm horny I feel pretty good lol. When I'm not horny I sometimes feel kinda fat and ugly even though I know objectively I am not fat.

[itsmyownname]

I know exactly what you mean. Thanks God I'm almost always horny hahaha

[Crowejerms]

M always horny 2

[bklynbadboy1]

I always sexy lol

[7771999]

Rarely

[itsmyownname]

But you have every right to feel sexy.

[7771999]

Yeah, we all do. It's just that I'm pretty insecure

[itsmyownname]

Most people are insecure for no reason. :/

[7771999]

I guess. And some are for a reason 😅😂😂