Do you feel sorry for guys who would love to experience waking up with two sexy babes next to him, but can't because no girl wants to sleep with him?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

As an ugly guy, I'm aware that a few men are born with amazing looks and that gives them a big advantage over most men. Some other guys may be born into a wealthy family and can afford anything the like without having to work a day in their life. Those guys typically can get girls easily. You can either decide to spend your life moping about that, and nothing will ever change for you, OR you can accept that you are on a more difficult path and decide you're still going to get where you want to go, even though it will be harder for you to get there.

Want to improve your outcomes? Take responsibility for your own life, and bust your ass to improve every aspect that matters. And start with the attributes you are weakest at. If you are out of shape, start working out and eating better. If your wardrobe is all jeans and t-shirts, go to discount stores and buy some slacks, button-down shirts, and a couple of blazers. If you are poor, figure out how to move up in your industry (do you need additional training, or education?) and pursue that, OR change careers to something else you can do that has better pay potential. If you are still living at home, figure out a path towards moving out. Whatever is the biggest thing holding you back, fix that first. Once that problem is reasonably solved, move on to the next most serious problem.

In the meantime, don't stop talking to girls. Don't focus on sleeping with them - just get really comfortable initiating conversations with them - the more different women, the better. This alone is likely to result in a girl showing interest in you, because lots of conversation with different women will put you at ease around them, and women find that attractive. But keep working on yourself.

Yes, this is a lot of work and effort, but it will improve your outcomes tremendously.

If you choose not to do this, no one is going to feel sorry for you, because they all understand that you made a choice, and that your poor outcomes were a result of that choice.

megabamse · Accepted Answer

If a guys dreams is to wake up with two girls next to him, then i don't think it's a big surprise that no one wants. Because that tells me a lot about his personality, i bet this guy can't dress in a nice way. Have conversations about stuff ladies don't find interesting. And have other personality traits that is not appealing.

summiter · Answer

Sure it would be a bummer... but hopefully he could be happy with waking up with at least one girl next to him!

BungusHighFivePizza · Answer

Depends on what he's doing to step things up. It's similar for me if someone can't read. If they're trying and learning things like the alphabet and showing progress, then I feel more invested and might wanna help out. If they're not and just like, "I can't read!" then not so much. The dumbest guys buy into women's advice here, and that's usually the worst advice ever with these goals.

Sunkissd · Answer

hahahaha, no

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Nope

LiamJHayden · Answer

Nope. Having more than one woman at a time is one of those things that sounds good in theory but is weird in practice, especially is all of the women are straight.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

No because those men are losers. Since I have two girlfriends, I'm actively contributing to the skewed dating pool and certainly not helping them on their behalf. But maybe they shouldn't play video games, smoke weed, , be couch potatoes, masterbate and be brokies. I don't do any of that shit and I earned the right to have two girlfriends.