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  • Nature has designed sex with a purpose of encouraging humans for producing babies, so that Earth never go without humans (and most animal / plants too – because pollination is almost similar thing). That is why nature has designed it most pleasant. P in V is most natural and only effective way and basic need for producing a child. All other acts are not SEX – they are sexual plays or foreplays or negative sides of sex. We have never done anal; my husband has never asked me for it because of this understanding. When it comes to the negative side effects of anal sex, it is hard to get a straight answer from anybody, mainly because the act of anal sex is still relatively taboo. For people who like it, there are some benefits of anal sex, but they should know that there are also dangers of anal sex. For those who love anal sex, are apprehensive about it, or are just plain curious, bottoming is not our natural style.

    The reason anal sex aficionados are so adamant about using lube is not just because it makes feel better, but because anal create tears in their butt hole. Unlike a vagina, it is not self-lubricating. This can increase risk for STI. All STIs are treatable, but having cuts in butthole is a recipe for all sorts of bacteria that can easily make their way into the bloodstream. One of the major dangers of anal sex is how easily it can be to contract and transmit HIV, HPV, and other STIs. Women who enjoy anal sex, rectal chlamydia and gonorrhea are almost as common as UTIs, but these illnesses are often missed because a lot of most sexual health checks for women only involve the front, not the back door. One of the STIs anal sex puts people at risk of is HPV, is linked with oral, cervical, and anal cancers. Not all kinds of HPV are linked to cancer, and many strains are asymptomatic, but HPV and its associated illnesses are one of the risks of anal sex.

    Most infections are more prevalent with anal sex. The anus is a direct path to the bowels, home to poop - a waste product that is bursting at the seams with bacteria and other not so fun stuff. E. coli is one of the main causes of a urinary tract infection in women after anal sex. This also means that going from anal sex to vaginal sex, without properly washing in between, may increase the risk of a partner with a vagina getting a UTI, as well as other possible unpleasant infections. Newton’s third law of motion states, “What comes up must come down.” This applies to both gravity and poop coming out of your butt after anal. Both men and women experience fecal incontinence because of anal sex, it is men who deal with it more. For people who have any sort of gastrointestinal (GI) problems, then the dangers of anal sex become even more complicated. All these things are about being informed and weighing risks, and ultimately doing what is best for you.

  • Why would it be degrading and to whom? Consensual sex acts are not degrading even when one partner participates more to please the other. A non-consensual sex act is degrading in any form. If you’re asking strictly because anal involves the anal cavity (and its contents) that’s undeniably true but that’s something everyone has and there’s no shame about it. I also have a period every month but that doesn’t make vaginal sex degrading. Anal is a form of sex. Some may like it others don’t but it’s not degrading.

    • I suppose I am asking this question because I have met who view it as a degrading act. so I figured id ask girls what they thought

    • Would you be comfortable putting your input in some of my other questions as well? :) I am also looking for some advice, and support if you are up for it?

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  • Typically for submissives, the more degrading, the better :)

    Girls, do you find anal sex degrading?
    • Lmao literally me

  • No, not at all. We have to stop thinking a certain way about how we experience pleasure and what we find pleasurable. Anal is not for everyone, yes, but if you do it right- make the other party horny enough and use lube then it is incredible

  • No it's okay, I'm only worried about the guy doing than the act itself, like the way he treats me during it and after it you know..

    • A great answer/comment!

    • @Erin2003 I agree :) That is a very healthy way to look at it.

  • It doesn't have to be. Actually, no part/form of sex has to be degrading. And, usually it won't be if both parties involved take consideration for their partner.

  • Not by itself. But... It can very easily turn into that. And to be honest, that's possibly the best part of it.

  • We do it occasionally, but no, I don't feel degraded by it in any way.

  • It's not degrading at all. If I allow a boy to get in my ass, it's my own decision.

    • Girl I think you need to think about this a little bit more. Don't make everything about sexual responsibility on the girl or the guy. Guys still need to respect girls and they often lie to us about what they want. And you can ruin your life having casual sex. And there's still a lot of stigma against girls having casual sex or guys having casual sex. Why would you wanna do something that would put your life in jeopardy? Are you tryna be edgy cool girl and prove a point or something?

  • No. But I don't like it. Wouldn't try it. I mean. I have never had it. I have read about it. Pros and cons and limitations..

    If a lady wants that, it's not linked to degrading.

  • Not if it is consensual. And your partner is conscious of your needs

  • No I do not find it degrading... I enjoy it and so does my husband so not sure why it would be degrading for me to get fucked in the ass, much less by my husband

    • I wonder why girls say ass and get a little edgy if they don't find it degrading. Why curse if your not irritated or edgy in some way.

    • Butt and ass are the same thing, I prefer to call it my ass

    • Why? It sounds like ur upset or confused or jaded or angry

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