Girls, Do you find it gross or a turn on if your man is willing to have sex with you during your period?

[Anonymous]

[unknownforever]

Yes and no. From my perspective, being on your period is just gross enough as it is. So I would feel pretty uneasy with myself. Secondly, how does the guy feel? Even if he says he's okay with it, I would feel like it's so wrong to put him through that. Lastly, it is kind of a vulnerable thing, if that makes sense? I can't explain it, but you literally have blood coming out of you (and a lot of women have been made fun of at schools and workplaces by men who makes disgusting jokes about it), so it will make the situation a little scary. But, maybe after knowing the guy for a long time, and bring with him for a long time, then maybe.

[Asker]

He wants to make love to you and pleasure you for the sake of seeing you in pleasure and he's not upset about a little blood. He would be reassuring you and be gentle and slow and just ease into it at her pace.

[unknownforever]

Whoops, don't see your reply earlier. But sometimes it's not a little blood. Some people actually have pretty big flows so the guy might not enjoy it

[zzombie]

I don't find it gross, If im down and he's down then why not? :)

[Asker]

great minds think alike ;)

[kyleelyn199723]

I didn’t mind it in the past but honestly now that me and my boyfriend just wait until the week is over is actually grosses me out now because it just shows the guy has no self control , only cares about sex and is just honestly gross

[Asker]

But what if he was doing it to satisfy your needs though?

[kyleelyn199723]

My needs during my period is my bed , a heating pad, my boyfriends cuddling and food. That’s about it. Self control. Sex is way better when you have a reason to wait for it.

[Asker]

thanks for the insight!

[Apple1996]

It is a turn on. I need sex during my period to feel normal. Luckily my hubby doesn't mind it at all

[Asker]

I wish every girl was like this :((((

[Apple1996]

I think a lot of girls feel uncomfortable doing it cause it can get messy. The trick is to orgasm a few times before sex so that the bleeding can stop and then there is no mess

[Asker]

thanks for the tip!

[Apple1996]

There are also flex cups that can be used to avoid messy period sex. I've never personally tried them but they apparently work well

[Asker]

I'll keep that in mind!

[Dinklex3]

I bleed a lot and am usually uncomfortable.
Although I don't find it "gross" I definitely wouldn't like it.

[DarkLillysub]

I don’t find it gross, I just don’t really feel up to sex while on my period

[Anonymous]

Depends on heavy flow days and if sore. It’s not really something you’re up for every day of your period. Some days heavily turned on, others you want a hot water bottle, chocolate and the world to disappear. It’s not a bother. Just a few extra steps. Sex can be messy anyway.

[Anonymous]

I never tried it before so I’d be curious bout it and want to try it but my boyfriend would never have sex with me during my period he refuses period sex

[Asker]

Awww well I get it.

[Anonymous]

I have mixed feelings about it. I mean I usually feel gross within myself during my period.

[Asker]

do you think he could reassure you if it didn't bother him?

[Opinion Owner]

I really don’t know. I guess it would depend on my mood at the time. I’m usually too exhausted and just want to sleep and be left alone during it so probably not.

[Asker]

excellent! Ty for the input!

[Opinion Owner]

No problem