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  • At 18-24, it typically IS very hard for young men. However, the proverbial tide does turn as you get older.

    1. Build up your economic value and maintain / improve your physical shape. Don't compete against others--that will just bring you down and make you miserable--just compete against *yourself*. I hope that makes sense.

    Believe it or not, by the time you are 30, if you:
    --are unmarried without kids,
    --with a stable and reasonably well paying job,
    --in reasonably decent physical shape,
    --with no criminal record, and
    --you own a home of your own, even a modest one,

    You WILL be desirable, as the women start realizing their partying days are over and they need a real guy as spouse material.

    2. Try an older "Cougar" divorcee, who wants to "get her groove back". She might just be the one to break you in. Your initial lack of what they call “game” in such a situation will be non-threatening, and therefore downright appealing, to an older divorcee. And by interactions of this nature, you will get "game". No, the relationship probably will not last, but it will be mutually beneficial at first. And then, by the time you are the age of the Cougars yourself, you may even be trawling for younger babes! Or you may have already found someone and settled in.

    3. As above, Pour yourself into school / work. Make more money and/or build up skills to make more money. Or if you find an academic interest that excites you, go for it. This is always good.

    4. Exercise. You are already doing this, but you say you have no results? Even if utterly non-sporting, it is good just to hike, bike, or lift weights. Don't compete against anyone--that will make you feel worse--just compete against yourself.

    5. Look into antidepressant meds. They can really help in some cases.

    6. Done enough of the above? Then develop an interest that takes you someplace you haven't been. Ever skied down a mountain? Scuba dived under the water? Took up motorcycle riding? Backpacked or camped out in pretty places? It doesn't have to be anything special or even costly, just anything to change things up. And you might even meet someone in the course of that.

    Just remember this old song--time IS on your side. And for the ladies, time starts to go against them after a certain point, which some call "hitting the wall":

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/RduK7mAMTe8

Most Helpful Guy

  • You can't swing a bag of trojans without hitting somebody that wants to use them (just watch out for the spears). It's funny how people talk about how every woman is a slut while simultaneously everybody is saying that nobody will sleep with them. One of these statements is not true.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nope I am in a relationship so not hard at all. Really not hard given she is the submissive one of the two of us. I can pretty much get it as I want it. If I am single I don't really care and take matters into my own hands so to speak because I don't do hookups or one night stands. I am perfectly content taking care of myself if I have to but in a relationship it isn't even a worry. We make sure we have time for sex every week. So not hard.

  • No, it’s fairly easy if I really want it, from people from late teens and up. I don’t however want someone who isn’t in their thirties or forties these days, at my current age (35). It got easier to get sex as I got older, when my looks improved and people got less shallow about dress size.

    • I honestly don't think it's possible for you to have any difficulty whatsoever in finding a suitable guy to enjoy sex with. I'd gladly crawl across a desert, just to kiss your luscious feet ❤️

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  • Not at all, I've always been able to have sex any day I wanted if I'm not being picky. As a woman I am picky though.

  • Stop looking for sex, instead find a nice girl, and treat her right. Then you might get some or a lot.

    You won't get sex, if that's what you are always expecting from girl, they are not sex objects.

  • You can try Tinder lol

  • Nope.

    Not at all.

    I don't recall ever having such a problem.

  • Yes and I’ve been married for three years!

  • I often find it hard to get the sex I want with the girl I want. I have never found it hard to get sex, though. If you want it badly enough, you should be able to get it.

  • if you find it hard... you might as well make the most with it...

  • Fortunately Not... I have the absolute perfect husband.

    • Yes, ma'am. Then again, who wouldn't want to be the perfect husband if they were married to you? ;)

    • @Billlewis OMG... You surely must be able to feel the heat coming from my cheeks through blushing so much! 😊😊😊 Bless You and Thank You so very much indeed.

    • Yes, ma'am, you're quite welcome! I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

  • conventionally? no you can always pay for sex you know.

    normally? kinda, if you know how to play not that much but sometimes it is just too much trouble.

  • Nope don't find it hard

  • Then don't look for sex. Look for what comes with sex. A relationship.

  • You can just pay some money.

  • no, not at all, it never has been

  • No, he's a few footsteps away.

  • Nope I've had many hookup opportunities that just found me, it's not hard, if it's hard to resist the temptation all depends tho

  • Doesn't seem to be particularly difficult to have casual sex, no. But I'm also not basically interested in having casual sex.

  • Not at all

  • Nobody I know seems to have any problem.

  • Depends on the country you live in and the circumstances you live under.

  • It's not hard. If you're talking just plain sex it's easy.

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