Do you find it strange that a guy always wants to please a girl?

[Anonymous]

The guy I’ve been seeing calls himself my lover and he says all he wants to do is please me.
He loves everything I do. Every picture I sent him is amazing.
He doesn’t ask me directly to do anything special for him. He just tells me how much he loves what I do.
He even tells me how much I love everything. I find that kind of strange tbh.
Do you find it odd that he literally loves everything?

[broken_heart_at_48]

It's possibly new to him so you probably haven't been annoying enough yet. Just give it time. Just playing he might have you built up a little too much in his mind. Which is probably gonna wear off but it can make for problems later. Not saying he's dangerous or anything. Just if he has you all built up or put to much of who he is into you and it doesn't work out his self worth can leave if you leave and put him in a depression. It's important for a person to know that they can and will survive as long as they don't defeat themselves also this can create a needy type relationship and most don't last

[MrOracle]

I don't find it particularly remarkable - I very much enjoy pleasing my girl too - it makes the sex much better for me, and makes her much more likely to want more, so everybody wins.

I honestly have no idea why some guys can't seem to grasp that concept, but I've definitely known guys who clearly don't care at all if she enjoys sex - as long as he gets what he wants, that's all he cares about. But that has to be some boring, lame sex.

[Asker]

I guess they’re emotionally undeveloped or pure selfish. They can’t grasp it because their Emotional IQs are too low.

[J3nny]

He probably loves you

[Rixon]

Not strange at all. Been there, done that all and lost too.. If he truly loves you for what you are then I would request you to never leave him.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Trust me when i have a girlfriend , i am the same exact way i want
please the girl i am with , i want make her Happy cause i Love her
i miss having a Special Lady in my Life.

[Davidstang]

Sounds like he loves you.

[outside_Toronto]

not strange

[thewiggles]

Its... a bit much, possibly immature. Like infatuation. I've done it before. I like being more realistic with these things now though.

[Twalli]

Not at all. Some guys love girls as a gender.

[rockrewls]

Wait for a while and see if that changes, Im not saying that he's not for real but one never knows, give it time and watch if things change. JMO

[Anonymous]

No he just likes everything about you and is probably infatuated with you

[Anonymous]

He sounds a bit desperate.
It's not a bad thing, but you have to be careful that you don't break his heart.
He sounds obsessed.

[Anonymous]

Women just can’t be happy, can’t they?

[Asker]

I’m not complaining. He’s the first guy I met who’s like that so I’m wondering. That’s all.

[Opinion Owner]

They’re not too many guys like that out there. be happy.