Do you find it surprising that some women actually enjoy and want anal sex?

[Anonymous]

I had always assumed anal sex was uncomfortable and not pleasurable for women, and that they only do it to please men. But I was surprised when a girl I was dating actually asked for it. One time when I was giving her oral she asked me to put a finger in her butt, and a few minutes later she got on her knees and asked me to put my dick in there. It caught me offguard, but I realized later she had been hinting at it for a while and I missed the hints. Anyway, we ended up doing anal a lot over the next six months, and she clearly enjoyed it.

Have any of you guys been asked by a woman for anal, or have you dated a woman who enjoyed it and wanted it?

Ladies, do any of you enjoy anal and ask for it?

I'm just curious how many women actually enjoy it.

[PositiveFlight]

A lot less women and even men enjoy it than most people on here think. There are a few women who claim to enjoy it but don’t really. They only say they do in order to be accepted by the perverted men they hang around. Of the rare few women who do enjoy it, they have no self-respect or they are so rewired and mentally conditioned away from what’s healthy and natural that they don’t know any better.

I’ve never asked a woman for anal and I never will! Of the women that I love intimately, they would rightfully tell me to go straight to hell if I asked them for it. They have self-respect enough to know that it’s not natural, healthy, or a good and a loving intimate relationship. And I have respect enough to never ask for it nor even desire it because when I’m with a woman intimately, I naturally want to interface with the part on their body that defines their womanhood, that part being her vagina which is my perfect counterpart and made perfectly for my penis. The anus has no sexual function and it’s not even a sexual organ at all!

[Asker]

Bro, do you spend all day, every day searching GAG for anal questions or what? I mean literally every question I've ever seen on GAG about anal you have posted on. What is up with that?

[PositiveFlight]

Why do you care? You seem to be doing the same. But instead of just following the anal related questions, you stalk me to see if I’ve answered or not! Not sure whether to be creeped out or not! As to why I answer so many anal questions? Well, because every other post on here seems to be about anal it seems. I think it’s nasty and unnatural and so I give my opinion/answer. Perhaps if you don’t like to see me answer them, either block me or redirect your concerns at all those posting anal questions?

[Asker]

Dude, I don't have to stalk you to see your posts about anal. You answer every one of them before I even get to them. I noticed that recently so I did a search on "anal" and you had lieterally responded to EVERY ONE of them. That's just fucking weird bro. You're searching for anal questions every day so you can tell the world how you think those people are disgusting. Honestly, what does that say about you? Have you thought about that? I'm sure psychologiss have an official term for it. But putting asside your mental health issues, it really just makes you a self-righeous, judgmental dick.

[PositiveFlight]

Interesting how you accuse me of the anal stuff when you are the one obsessed enough to repeatedly ask anal questions! Perhaps you are the one who needs to get a life! Why don’t you get some courage and ask all your anal questions under your real user account? Oh, can’t do that or everyone would see that you are anal obsessed!

[Asker]

Um, unlike you, I'm NOT obseessed with anal. And I haven't asked a question about anal here before. Just don't be a self-righeous, judgmental dick man. It makes you a shitty human being. It makes you a worse person than the people you look down on for doing "disgusting" things. Be better. It's a choice.

[Kaneki05]

No don't surprise me at all, one of the things I learnt early on is it's very sensitive and can easily be pleasurable. Just basic biology teaches that.

It's the same with Blowjobs if you look into there is actual reasons why biologically it can turn on women. Though a bad blowjob won't do much it's pretty interesting, a bit like the G-spot for that girl the same thing can be said for a BJ.

The only thing that actually shouldn't be enjoyable is the taste of cum. There is nothing biologically that would give any reason to it tasting nice. So I feel like people lie when they say it does and they truly do that just out of the act than liking it. In fact it's somewhat believe that's it's biologically bad on purpose so that we won't waste it on where's it ain't supposed to go. But I don't know if that stands really.

[Asker]

Interesting, thansk for your response.

[Anonymous]

I'm not completely surprised because I have a friend who loves it. I don't like it myself, not at all.

[Asker]

Interesting. thanks for your comments.

[BlondeGoneWild]

I ask for anal all the time, I love. I wear a buttplug almost every day

[Asker]

Wait, what? Are you serious?

[BlondeGoneWild]

Yeah

[Asker]

Why would you do that though?

[BlondeGoneWild]

Because it feels good…?

[Asker]

Well okay then.

[BlondeGoneWild]

I don’t feel like that’s even uncommon

[Asker]

Interesting, okay.

[BlondeGoneWild]

Do you have a different experience?

[Asker]

I don't have any experience using a butt plug, so yeah.

[Billlewis]

Virtually every sexual relationship I've had with women for most of my lifetime has been an anilingus only arrangement, and I can assure you that quite a few women enjoy being pleasured in this manner. As far as anal intercourse is concerned, I haven't met many women who expressed an interest in that.

[Asker]

So you've only ever had anilingus only arrangements with women your whole life? Sure dude. You post a lot of ridiculous and clearly false stuff on GAG, but this one takes the cake.

[Billlewis]

It's the honest truth.

[Asker]

Bullshit. Come on, "dude". Give people a little credit. No one believes half the things you write here. I mean I seriously doubt you're even a guy. Just be real. Cut the crap.

[Fireguy17]

No, I have had a few that were into it.
Not really my thing, but if that is what they want it's fine with me.

[exitseven]

no, I have heard of lots of girls that like it.

[Asker]

Ok, thanks man.

[Amuere]

Yes, my ex strongly hinted at it. I refused, I'm not into ass stuff.

[jahaims]

Nope

[AngryCarl2]

Yes I do find it surprising and I still believe it's a minority. Maybe the fact they see it in porn all the time has softened their stance. Always practice safe sex. That means wear a condom, dumbass.

[Joker_]

not surprising

[MrCharlie13]

No, sex is pleasurable for all

[Jmmmfi4]

KINDA

[Anonymous]

Not really, or at least not anymore. My ex always came faster and harder when there was something in her ass, whether in was my dick, a toy or just my finger.

[Asker]

Your ex sounds like me ex, lol. She loved any anal stimulation. She said it made her orgams stronger.

[Anonymous]

My ex-wife had never tried anal sex but she was open to trying it and she liked it. From that point forward, she would request anal sex and she seemed to have massive orgasms when I came in her butt. She never made any comment suggesting that it was uncomfortable in any way.

Sex is always a combination of physical and mental stimulation, and I think the taboo nature of the act gets some women very aroused.

[Asker]

Ok, good to know my ex was not a unicorn. Thanks bro.