Do you get a sudden, exotic feeling when you see someone physically attractive for the first time?

EnglishArtsteacher Editor

If it's a girl I find somewhat attractive, I don't get a special feeling.

But if it's a girl I find exceptionally attractive, and she has an amazing body, I get this sudden feeling, so exotic, I can't explain it. It's almost like a severe adrenaline rush.

For instance, I saw a girl the other day with an amazing butt, and I got this feeling. It's a feeling I love, and hate at the same time.

Can anyone else relate to me?

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@Leos123 I'm happy to see their is a term for this! Thanks! @_Brownie_ Interesting to see this happens to some girls as well.

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Anonymous
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I get that but only when there is like this connection. But that connection is all thunder and lightening... they have deep eyes full of pain, and love and desire and hope and desperation and there is just a spark when it's the perfect combo wit hthe perfect posture and my whole body tingles and I feel like I glow and I'm on just a whole new level.
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- Opinion Owner
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  That erotic, fated, disastrous chemistry is soooooo rare though.
- Faarhaaan
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  Connection means? Emotional attachment?
- Opinion Owner
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  connection... that chemistry, that attraction that just defies all logic and reason. The second your eyes meet... flames...
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- Faarhaaan
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  So, You don't feel attraction when you see random guys?
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan Very very rarely... expressive eyes tat bore into your soul, nice gait- quit stride, good stance & eye contact, posture that usually has them bent in ever so slightly at the shoulders. A chemistry that has the hairs on your body stand on end :D
- Opinion Owner
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  like I said an attraction that defies logic and a chemistry that is just on fire... a heat that's instant and hott. I didn't say anything about knowing them... it's all visual and so very rarely happens when you first see them and you just can't sop looking... & soaking up more. It's all so very hott and incredible and makes your body feel alive
- Faarhaaan
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  Then how did you find out that you were straight, Bi, Gay or whatever? If you aren't feel attraction towards guys without connection? You see a attractive guys but you feel neutral? What is the difference do you feel when you see sexy women and sexy men? Can you determine which one is sexy or which one not (without connection)
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan When I see an attractive guy in person it's different. I just don't get anything from a picture...
- Faarhaaan
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  LOL... picture? My comments was not about picture... please read it...
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan sorry confused another post with this one.
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan A woman isn't sexy to me... she may be pretty, I may admire her dress and built and hope to look like that or ask where she got something. A guy I find attractive if he finds the traits I find attractive. But he was talking about that exotic instant attraction and that is soooooo very rare.
- Opinion Owner
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  can be sparked in passing but needs eye contact to completely ignite... chemistry... soemthing that just works even with no words or knowing anythign other then what you can possibily deduct from sight. It just is.
- Faarhaaan
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  So, it's a neutral attraction? It's not about sexual, it's non sexual same as when we see attractive car, flower? Don't you feel butterflies or tingle when you see got guys...
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan For my skin to catch fire... it's chemstry so yeah generally it's neutral. I get butterflies when I start to fall for someone... that's different and comes from knowing or watching someone and feeling like I know them a little bit.
- Opinion Owner
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  Getting butterflies for me meaning I am falling for them and I want to know more abotu them an get short of breath when they are near and hang on their every word and think abotu what it will be like to kiss their lips and feel them brush against me.
- Faarhaaan
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  So, you are demisexual not straight. right? Too complicated... You don't feel (sexual) urge for guys... when you are single, no connection, before start to fall for someone... before knowing them a little bit. You don't get sexual attraction when you see random hot guys... it's just neutral same as when we see our mother.
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan If they are my type it's not like my mother... I want to get to know them. I feel a pull, a need to see what's there. That's not how I make friends... it happens more normally. When I find what I am into with a guy there is more of a pull. I get interested when I see a guy that has what I am interested. A longing to be near him, bump into him before we even speak... it usually was the reason for our first conversation as I go to see how attracted I really am :D
- Opinion Owner
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  I consider myself straight but you can call me whatever you want I suppose. Like I said I do get the random (albeit extremely rare) exotic tension but it normally is a chemical reaction and not one sided. All the air becomes thick and your chest OD's on it... it's enough for random people walking by to pick up on. It's hott... if that's demi then maybe... who knows! But yeah I don't have to know the guy for that... in fact it's usually hotter and stronger when you don't, but something clicks :D
- Faarhaaan
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  Suppose you see this kind of sexy guys first time in the street...
  Do you feel attraction?
  And what does attraction feel like for you?
  Do you feel any change in your body?
  
  It's seems like you never ever aroused before an emotional attachment...
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan For me it comes in stages. I have a desire to kiss soemone before i have a desire to have sex with them... but yes I have wanted to kiss a guy I have just met on the street... feel his lips and his touch. Share a sexy moment. But yeah no desire to shag randos if that's your question.
- Opinion Owner
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  I love all of the stages of attraction and I usually tend to work in order and not jump over any. My body slowly learns to crave soemone I am attracted to normally. My breath may catch alittle if I'm really attracted and I may feel like my heart is in my throat occationally depending on how attracted but when it comes to sexual kiss is always my first thought and it grows from there :D
- Faarhaaan
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  I have last question... "Attraction" what does it feel like? Any psychological or physiological feelings? How can you determine which one is attraction and which one not?
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan Like what do you mean? Give me an example.
- Faarhaaan
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  I had asked a girl (my class mate) When you see attractive women and men what is the difference do you feel? How do you feel? What about random attractive/sexy persons? She said - i don't feel a sexual flutter when i look at women i think are attractive. not even when i had an experience with one. the sexual urges weren't there at all. when i see men i think are attractive i feel a physical sensation. Sexual attraction to me is when I get a fluttering stomach feeling. If I see someone attraction I feel my body change. I'll most likely think about that person for a little bit. Attraction means my body gets warm, and it reacts in ways that aren't appropriate to mention. If the guy is hot and I guess hormones are released. Don't want to stop looking at him. Maybe a little warm. It's the feelings of attraction. Physical and psychological. What does it feel for you?
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan WIthout knowing him? Just a guy I am seeing but has all the traits I am interested in? A pull like I said. I watch him and maybe blush alittle, sometimes the air gets alittle thicker... alittle harder to breathe. I wonder what he's like, what he's into, believes in
- Opinion Owner
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  I'll want to bump into him... brush against him and see if there is a spark... if there is then I stop and say something-lol. I don't beat around the bush. If I was was interested initially we didn't stay strangers for long. I like to get to know the people I am attracted to and see how far that attraction goes.
- Faarhaaan
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  I'm talking about random guys. Yes without knowing him, and a guys you first see in the street or malls anywhere... What does it feel... Why do you ask me "Without knowing him?" you don't attract to guys without knowing him?
- Opinion Owner
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  @Faarhaaan Yes, but that attraction usually mostly just comes with a desire to get closer to them and get to know them. If I watch a guy for ahile (no interaction) and their movements convey the kind of person they are and that is the type I am into it kind of feels like a tightening of teh chest, catch of the breathe if they look my way, heat if we make eye contact.
- Opinion Owner
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  it's hard to answer cause I don't think about it, it just happens in a split second without me thinking about it.
- Opinion Owner
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  I'll start imagining his hand in mine, his lips on mine with in the first few minutes if the attraction is there. those kind of feelings normally come the first tiem we talk, if everything lines up right... soemtimes once a guy opens his mouth the attraction kind of disappears and he's really not all that attractive.
- Faarhaaan
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  Ok I got it... Thanks. It was a nice conversation.
electrikrainb0w Xper 5
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Tbh.. Large-chested women do it for me every time. But men can sometimes do it if they're hot enough.
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- Faarhaaan
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  Bisexual?
- electrikrainb0w
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  Yup!! I can't help but stare at beautiful women. I've told my boyfriend it's okay if he looks at other girls too because I will always be looking at girls at least twice as much as any boyfriend I've ever had.
writing_essays Yoda
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No I don't. Not unless the guy is also intelligent and very religious and very moral too.
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- Faarhaaan
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  So, you are not heterosexual. You are spiosexual?
- writing_essays
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  @Faarhaaan I have no idea what spiosexual means.
- Faarhaaan
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  One who finds intelligence the most sexually attractive feature; behaviour of becoming attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use. So, you can also be aroused by women if she is also intelligent and very religious and very moral?
_Brownie_ Xper 3
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Yes, when I see extremely attractive guy or beautiful
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ak666 Editor
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Afraid not. I get kind of excited like, "Woo, nice ass!" but not this kind of adrenaline rush. Maybe it's because I'm in an urban area and surrounded by pretty girls. I've gotten kind of used to it.

What happens if you go to a strip club with very good-looking girls?
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- ak666
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  Or even like Hooters?
- EnglishArtsteacher
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  I live in a suburban area, and I'm surrounded by pretty girls as well. It's not happening to me because I never see it, it's just the feeling occurs for some reason. I've never been to a strip club before actually. The closest one to my house is about 50 miles, and I don't feel like driving that far just to ogle at women.
- ak666
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  Ah damn, that's pretty far (strip club). In very urban areas like Tokyo here, I think I got a sensory overload when I first came. It's nice, "Wow, hot girl.. another... another! Nice ass! Another! Legs! Ass! Another hot one! A Russian one! Wow wow wow!" Then that excitement dies down after some time. Also went to strip clubs when I was younger and I feel like I got something out of my system after going a few times and just being surrounded by naked ladies left and right. I've become more drawn to girls somehow by sense of smell. Like I got lucky one time and dated a swimsuit model, and visually she might be as close to a 10 in my eyes as I would have ever gotten. But she smelled so bad down there, like 1/10 in terms of V smell. After that, I think I get that adrenaline rush more when I'm with a pretty enough girl and her V smells nice.
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- ak666
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  I think I got traumatized by that experience of dating the model a bit.. now it's like if I see a really hot girl, I need to smell her V to make sure she's not just visually stunning but also nice on the nose. Then I get the super excited adrenaline rush.
Leos123 Xper 5
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We have a word for that. "Kilig". It's a sudden rush of feelings when you are attracted to someone like a combination of excitement, shyness, trembling

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- Leos123
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  P. S. I don't know how to attach an image. Still figuring it. Turned out I pasted the whole site.
- Leos123
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  @EnglishArtsteacher Haha. Thanks for the MHO It's also attributed when you see something soooo romantic (perhaps cheesy) that you want to cheer for them. And even thinking of that, makes you smile. Aieeee! <3

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AustinMan Influencer
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Sure. I think that's common for the passionate among us.
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BuchitaBuchys Guru
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Exotic or erotic?
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- EnglishArtsteacher
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  Both!
Nicole9356 Xper 6
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I get that feeling when I look at my husband..
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- Faarhaaan
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  When you were single or not married? Don't you experience this feelings?
- Nicole9356
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  While I was single and dating my husband and even now that I'm married. It's an electric feeling. Call it pheromones call it chemistry call it love. I'm not going to question it as long as those feelings continue to be with my husband and not with anyone else.
- Faarhaaan
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  I'm asking about when you were single, have no lover, not dating, have no emotional connection with a guy then didn't you feel attraction? Don't you feel attraction when you see random hot guys? When you were single you were asexual?
likitb4istickit Xper 6
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Not really anymore. Just a hard-on and mentally picturing her naked.
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NerdInDenial Master
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I just stare and forget I'm staring.
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someindianguycringe Xper 3
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dopamine rush
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lareina05 Xper 6
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if there is something about a man that makes me say dayummmmm then yea. for example seen a hispanic guy nice build and his eyes were sky blue. :0
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Nobodycares Xper 6
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Yeah, the love comes from imagining what you'd do, and the hate comes from probably being unworthy for such a fine ass.
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ASEXY Editor
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Nope, I never got that feeling from looking at anyone. Another person's attractiveness doesn't affect me in anyway...
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- frozenhorizon
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  Because you're asexual?
- ASEXY
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  @frozenhorizon yes and I'm aromantic.
KnightCross Xper 7
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lol no... i don't feel anything like that unless when i am deeply in love with someone... seeing an amazing butt or pair of tits doesn't cause me a feeling like that
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John_Doesnt Master
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Only if I meet her in person real close. Not just spotting her in public.
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Decentguy Master
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naaah, not really
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vinnie_vinci Xper 3
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I get that too. Didn't think it was common. Guess i was right
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DudeManBro_20 Xper 7
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Yep, I know what you mean. There's like a rush of blood and loss of breathe for a second. It's rare.
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- DudeManBro_20
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  *rare for me Not sure about others...
- flypaper
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  very very very rare.
- EnglishArtsteacher
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  YES! You lose your breath as well.
Anonymous
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I have the terrible habit to start fantasize about marrying and having kids with a woman I find funny and attractive.
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Anonymous
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No I don't.
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- Faarhaaan
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  why don't? are you asexual?
Anonymous
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it's called a boner dude. even i know that cmon
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- EnglishArtsteacher
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  Yes, I know what a boner is. That's not what I'm talking about.