Do you get bothered by older men having sex with young girls?

Question

I find some men use young women/girls for sex, I think it's extremely common, I think it's wrong

Bricealan · Accepted Answer

Well, Sunny, when I was in my early 30's in Ohio in a large corporation (Firestone Tire) I had an older woman, (friend) that was in her early 60's, I think she was 61-62, or near that. We talked about sex a lot, and we even discussed my sex life with my, then, current, girlfriend, and she was not jealous or envious of that.

One day walking with her in the hallway, she remarked to me: "You'd probably do it to me if I would let you"? I replied: "If you mean 'fuck', yes, I have wanted to fuck you since we began talking". That night after work, we walked to her car in our HUGE parking lot, (in the summer) and I began undressing her, taking off her hose, girdle et cetera. I will say this, her skin was not the same as my girlfriend, and her pubic hair was a mixture of gray/ and black/brown, but the sex was wonderful. I never regretted it.

I left the company shortly after that and moved here (California) and lost touch with her.

As far as huge age differences, I understand what occurs between older men/younger women, and it usually amounts to $$$$$$ as the common denominator when it comes to sex. I really liked "HELEN" (her real name) and have had the same relationship once here in California with a woman I met who invited me to Seattle to visit.

I would not balk at having sex with an older woman and HAVE been in the company of much younger women.

For your edification.

Luopio27 · Accepted Answer

I understand both sides of the coin. Society does not easily accept girls who have just turned adults by legal age of 18, to hang around, sleep around and or live around guys decade (s) older than them.

But as I got older, who am I to judge anyones freedoms of choice when those choices are legal and full of their own will.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

One of those situations where more info is needed. If everyone is an adult and legal age then it doesn't bother me. I was 22 and had a friend with benefits that was 45. I've also been with a 42 year old guy and a 37 year old guy. I never once felt I was being taken advantage of. It was my decision everytime.

White_Widow · Accepted Answer

Yes I've noticed, it happens a lot in my country. I always wonder what they get out of it. But it's usually about money. She gets to spend and he gets to screw around with a younger woman or she becomes a trophy. Even more remarkable is that, to keep the woman satisfied, the relationship is often "open".

Red_Arrow · Answer

Lots of men use women for sex. Lots of women use men for sex. So What? As long as both are old enough (legally, morally, etc.) and it is consensual, then it is fine. Sometimes I see a young woman with a guy that could almost be her grandfather and I silently chuckle. She is using him for his money. But again, so what? She is getting his money and he is getting sex with a beautiful (usually) woman.

JamesDiaz11 · Answer

All men want to have sex with young women (18-25), including older men. If they have the game, the looks, or the means to get sex from these women WHY is it wrong?

Are women glorified children who must be protected from anything that could be perceived as being taken advantage of, when they're legally adults?

rtj1211 · Answer

If the girls are enthusiastic participants and not deluded innocents about to get humped and dumped, then what's the problem?

You get just as much bad sex with young guys as older ones, after all. No-one says that young men and young women should stop having sex just because occasionally it's a totally crap experience.

lightbulb27 · Answer

using/abusing girls is wrong, especially when one has power and position to do so, so yes.

includes psycos like hugh hefner. but they understand women and were able to manipulate them to meet their ends.

summiter · Answer

Why do you think it is common Sunny? I think it is better to stay with someone close to ones own age. But as long as the girls are over 18 they are adults and can make their own decisions... I guess.

rachel776 · Answer

i have always been with older guys

dustybiker · Answer

Those young girls want money or illusional stability. Those men want the lack of experience, wisdom and judgement. Temporary fulfillment.

Berethor · Answer

It would likely bother me if it was my daughter.

Bratsondanielle · Answer

Sounds like my husband. But then again... he has a lot of money so it's ok...

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

Some girls appreciate a guy with greater patience and experience. I think I am probably more respectful than the young guys who are trying to use them for sex.

OlderThanILook · Answer

Nope. If it's consensual and both are over 18, it isn't my business to stop it from happening.

SphynxUK · Answer

Young women like sleeping with older more experienced men, simple. If they are both attracted to each other, what’s the problem?

slatyb · Answer

Not if the women are adults.

jshm2 · Answer

You are probably more concerned that neither wants to have sex with you, is all.  Get some better things to think about, deary. You really are sexually frustrated, this is not the way to go about it.

GenaBaby1995 · Answer

Just jump on Webcam it's crazy what goes on there.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, what consenting adults do is their business. By now, everyone knows people use other people for sex and usually don't care because they're enjoying it too. I got "used" for sex by some older women when I was a young adult, but I sure didn't see it that way- I was having sex too.

HighValue · Answer

Just because there is an age difference, that doesn't mean they are "using" the person or don't care about her and want an exclusive LTR with her. Many more young people have casual sex than older people.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

There are very few situations in which only one person is using another. It’s almost always mutual. There’s an exchange taking place, and as long as everyone is consenting adults, it’s all fine and dandy.