Do you get irritable if you haven't done anything sexually for a while?

Either with your s. o or alone... if you haven't done anything do you get annoyed and how long does it take to affect your mood.

My boyfriend is away this week and I decided to not do anything at all.. like an experiment. It has been more than a week and I am feeling some effects of it. Which started after about 4 days of nothing happening. Is this the same as most people? Or do you not feel anything and its no big deal? Or does it drive you crazy and you need to take care of things?

It doesn't bother me at all, I can wait a long time with no effect
Vote A
It starts to get annoying after more than a week
Vote B
It starts to bother me after about a week.
Vote C
less than a week and I am irritated
Vote D
only a few days.
Vote E
more than a day without and I am bothered.
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  • Orange,
    Good question. As you know we all are different. That said when I was a teenager and in my early 20's I had to have either sex (or a hj/bj) or jerkoff at least once a day. Now (I'm 31) after a day or two I start to feel weird (or the urge more likely) to either masturbate or have sex. How often do you and ur boyfriend have sex? Do u live together? Do either of you masturbate when the other is not around... I know most guys do!

    • he does I don't very often. sometimes but not a lot. we live together but he is away for work.

    • Well don't feel like you have to pass up a bunch of great orgasms just to wait! As you know masturbation is normal, safe & healthy. As you know all younger guys jerk off frequently but most will not admit it. How is your sex life otherwise?

    • its great when he is here. I know masturbation is normal and healthy I just would prefer he takes care of it for me. but after a long time it gets tempting.

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  • It starts to get annoying pretty quick. And you can only take care of yourself so many times before it gets old.

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  • No, I've not had sex since before I split with my ex in 2016 and I don't self service. I've no interest in throwing myself at some randomer or ruining a friendship with so called benefits when I can quite happily get by without feeling the need to hump inanimate objects or jump the male species, I'd rather wait until the time and man are right.

    • I have to self service after a long time. I get on edge and bratty

    • @orangecherry the idea of self service grosses me out slightly, I can see how it can be fine for a man as it's all external but for females it just screams unhygienic and risks of bacterial infections

    • I don't touch inside. I agree with you

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  • I think lack of sexual release is a leading factor in many of the problems we see today. The world would be a nicer better place if people just put a little more effort into getting sex.

    • I agree with you purple... sex and masturbation is normal healthy, releases tension and it feels fantastic! I'd love to talk with u more about it if you ever want to chat!

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  • I do not get irritable but I will find it harder to focus and start to think of nothing but sexual acts after awhile and what to do or try.

  • I enjoy sex. I have sex once a day and sometimes more than once. Going without sex for more than a few day makes me feel uncomfortable more than irritable.

  • If you're used to having sex regularly it starts becoming a real need pretty quickly. For me being a guy I start getting boners at the least possible stimulation including what's visual such a chick with great legs or nice boobs half exposed.

  • If that happens, you won't see me on here. It's a bad idea with all the sex topics.

  • Oh yess definitely n within a week

  • I never wait too long. Solo works just fine too

  • Yes I do get sexually frustrated but still I cannot connect with someone until I'm emotionally pair.

  • To say the least I actually get hyper like I have taken speed from the 70s

  • How would you define "for a while"? Seven days? Two days? An hour? For me, I would become "irritable" if I didn't have my needs met every day.

    • I don't know why I wrote this comment. I'm just too tired.

  • Yeap very sadly, because I wanted to do that no fap thing

    • lol guys prob shouldn't try to go a whole month

    • It is already two so yeah..

    • you must be going crazy?

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  • I can last a couple of days at the most.