Do you have a rape fantasy?

Do you have fantasize about being rape or raping someone? If so, give details on how you would like it done or how you would like to do it. Don't worry, you can remain anonymous.
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it's a common fantasy that people don't talk open about due to backlash... it's often played out in the bedroom with couples... I knew quite a few women who would love for it to happen but at the same time didn't want it to REALLY happen...
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  • I am sure many will say "rape" is a no, but many of us do have fantasies about being overpowered sexually. This has been studied.

    From 1973 through 2008, nine surveys of women's rape fantasies have been published. They show that about 4/10 women admit having them (31 to 57 percent) with a median frequency of about once a month. Actual prevalence of rape fantasies is probably higher because women may not feel comfortable admitting to them.

    The most resent survey (Bivona, J. and J. Critelli. "The Nature of Women's Rape Fantasies: An Analysis of Prevalence, Frequency, and Contents," Journal of Sex Research 2009 46:33) Found out of 355 women, 62% had such fantasies. But this was in reference to being overpowered by a male. When the word "rape" was used, the responses went down to 32%.

    21% of the 355 said they had been sexually assaulted somehow in real life, yet still had the fantasies. These fantasies included both "I'm being forced and I hate it" and "I'm being forced and I love it"

    www.psychologytoday.com/.../womens-rape-fantasies-how-common-what-do-they-mean

  • *points* The update, exactly. There's a difference between rape fantasies and rape. In fact, role playing out a rape fantasy can be very therapeutic for rape survivors. Not all, of course, just like any other recovery process, there are those who benefit and those who do not respond well at all. A rape fantasy still allows a woman control and the ability to say, 'I'm done, stop.' She knows her 'attacker' and trusts him not to hurt her beyond what he knows she'll enjoy. It's a game instead of an experience in helplessness and abuse.

    Personally, it's not my cup of tea, but I have several friends who have fun with it.

  • I never fantasise about rape, but I do fantasise about very rough sex with my boyfriend...
    In that fantasy I just pretend it is ,, against my will'' and let him do whatever he wants to me, without actual resisting - just pretending I don't want it...

Most Helpful Guys

  • Not a rape fantasy, sometime when horny feel like I would enjoy forced sex, in reality rapes are brutal, it's involves physical attack and physical damage like cuts and Bruises, WHICH IS VERY OFFENSIVE, A LITTLE DOMINATION CAN BE FUN but till the point my gal enjoys not even slight more then that.
    SO IN SHORT AND SWEET WAY, I SAY , No!.. TO RAPES... OR RAPE FANTASY.
    IF MY GAL WANT 's to dominate like me in bed then it's totally different case and for her happiness I will say yes, but only a gal not a guy, not at all homo here.

  • I am an active participant of the bdsm community and a "dom". So I hope you won't think I am wasting your time. The only things I have to say is make sure you set boundaries. You think this would be common sense but NOOO. I have heard countless stories about rape fantasies turning into actual rape because the male or female doesn't know when to stop because YOU NEVER SET BOUNDARIES. That is all

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  • Nahhhh, bruhhhhh... I can't even imagine.

  • Ok, I will answer.
    Me rape a girl? Not a chance. I am to kind hearted to even fantasize about that.
    How ever, to have a girl use me? OH YEA.
    I can so Fantasize about that, even at my age. ( or maby becouse of my age lol )

  • I can honestly say that I don't.

  • Dominance yes. But not rape. :)

  • not for me. Would just feel wrong.

  • Nope nope nope no nein negative nay

  • many people get confused between a "rough sex" fantasy and a "rape" fantasy
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  • I usually have some crazy shit fantasies but a rape... never

  • yyeeeeaaahhhhh... no... I don't lol.

    • Lol.

    • @Genie23 genie is in the house ya'll! :D

    • @Genie23 I think its funny most guys say they wouldn't mind a girl raping them but in my head when they say that they're getting fucked by a girl with a strapon in the ass lol.

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  • Thanks for asking, no I don't.

    • Hahahaha! xD

  • Fuck no, not at all. Sometimes I ponder on what it'd be like to be raped, as in, the trauma & what people have gone through, but I'd never want to be in a situation like that.

  • Can you even imagine what the world would be like if fruits/vegetables became self-aware and started sexually assaulting us?

  • Not at all.

  • Whoever have this fantasy really needs help

  • nah, no way

  • Hot girl raping me? I'll take it... but I'll pretend I don't want to.

  • Why're you asking?

    • it's a common fantasy that people don't talk open about due to backlash... it's often played out in the bedroom with couples... I knew quite a few women who would love for it to happen but at the same time didn't want it to REALLY happen...

    • Do you have a scat fetish?

  • You can't technically have a rape fantasy, fantasy implies that you like it and want it, rape is non-consentual sex therefore you don't want it

  • Someone rape me!

  • nope... why should have dominate feeling? its useless... better with love feeling and everything will be wonderful

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