Do you have any tips for someone giving a blowjob for the first time?

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  • Don't worry if he will like it or not. He will love it, unless he's a jackass. In that case, bite him. Seriously, keep your teeth off his shaft as much as possible. Teeth can hurt. Unless he is small, don't take all of him in your mouth, because if if you do, you may gag and choke, maybe even vomit. You don't have to swallow. You don't even have to take his cum in your mouth. Just before cumming, he can tell you he's about to explode, and you can pull your head back and let him cum in the open, or on a tissue. If you let him cum in your mouth, you can hold it in your mouth, and spit it out on a tissue. Or you can swallow, if you choose. But do it your way, not his way. You are the one doing him a favor, and you can do it your way. Hold his shaft with one hand, and run your lips up and down the shaft, mostly at the last three inches from the end. The head is where almost all of the feeling is, and is where the action will feel best for him. This doesn't need to be a guessing game. Ask him what he likes. Ask specifically. You will have his dick in your mouth, you are already intimate, and you can ask intimate questions. If he doesn't happen to like how you gave the bj, it's his fault. Any guy with common sense likes a girls mouth on his dick. It's wonderful, even when done poorly. Play with his balls a little too, if you think of it. But do it gently, as balls easily hurt is pressure is put on them.

Most Helpful Guy

  • You will do a great job. Have fun. Everyone is different. Some guys like deep throat if you can do it, some prefer you focus on the first few inches. Communication is key. Tell him what you're going to do and ask him what he likes. Ask him if what you're doing feels good during the blowjob. Use a lot of tongue especially on the frenulum. Keep your lips tight. Avoid contact with your teeth. Hold the skin tight at the base of the shaft with one hand and use a twisting action on the shaft with the other. Also lick the balls and perineum. If you want to try making him cum in your mouth and swallowing, tell him so he's not worried about it or having to pull out. He may be hesitant to cum in your mouth, so you may need to give him a lot of reassurance that you want it. Increase the sucking, stroking, and tightness. Don't stop until he finishes completely unless he tells you his dick is too sensitive to continue. If you don't want to deal with the taste of his cum, swallow quickly as it's squirting. If you don't want cum in your mouth tell him beforehand to pull out. After he desensitizes, pull on the shaft from the base to the tip a couple of times to squeeze out any remaining cum. Clean it with a tissue or lick it off. Do this a couple of times more after his dick goes soft.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Relax and have fun with it... you have all the control over him. Look him in the eyes as you lick him up and down his shaft, taking time to twirl your tongue around the head before wrapping your lips around it and starting to bob your head up amd down on him. Make sure you moan a little while you do it and always remember to look at his eyes. Also tell him how much you love his cock and how you love licking and sucking it... this helps boost his ego and makes it more enjoyable for him knowing that you crave his package. Alternate between bobbing your head up and down on him and licking him up and down while also puckering up your lips and running them up and down his shaft kinda sideways. You should also lick and suck his balls while you stroke his cock... and then when ready to suck it run your tongue from his balls up his shaft, twirl it around his head and then start sucking him more. You can go deep and gag a bit and then spit on his cock to make it slippery wet and stroke him.

    Just mix up these different styles but always look in his eyes, giggle a bit and verbally let him know that you love his package and want to suck it.

    • My foreskin is tight... How is can do

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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

  • Take your time and relax. The more you seem to enjoy it, the more he’ll enjoy it. And use your tongue. If you approach it like you’re a sex goddess who’s about to make him feel better than anyone’s ever made him feel before, be enthusiastic, and have fun with it, you’ll be fine.

    • That’s the truth!

  • Roll the tongue, use a lot of suction, go deep. Go soft at first

  • First off, actually try to give a good one. Dont be timid about it. Make sure to put as much of his cock down your throat as you can.. if not he will likely force your head down. And the most important thing is to let him cum in your mouth. Dont stop as soon as he starts. Keep going until it's not cumming out anymore

  • Here a little trick that another girl told me. If your going to let him cum in your mouth, but the taste of cum is nasty. Then have him tell you before he cums, then deep throat it. So that way it'll just go down your throat, and tou won't taste it.

    • @kwinevine taht sounds like a tip a guy would give a girl to make her deepthroat lmao. have u tried that?

    • Yes, I tried it after the girl told me and it worked. I couldn't believe it, but it worked.

    • @kwinevine lmao omg. do u like deepthroating a guys penis or is it not fun?

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  • Yeah, don't forget to lick his balls. It feels amazing.

  • Mind the teeth. Stroke it if you need a break from it. Don't force yourself too much. Use that tongue. Focus on the tip. But use your lips more than your tongue.

  • Don't forget the balls.

  • wow congrats! did you do it yet? how did it go?

  • Try to keep your lips away from his penis head, it will help last longer

    • @kelly6 never heard that one before. how do u do that if ur sucking him tho/?

  • No special tip only avoid touching your teeth on his cock

  • Tongue focused on the tip.

  • Lick and suck the head, fondle his balls, and try to moan.

  • lick the head lots

  • Don't bite :)

  • Use your tongue, a lot. Lol

  • no teeth, watch his face, his reaction will yell you or tell him it is your first and would he guide you

  • Dont use the teeth. Try get it all inside. Use your tongue and hands. You learn easy what hi like

  • Focus a lot on the tip

  • Don't just eat pussy instead. It usually tastes better.

    • I'd say the two are different. But both are good.

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