Do you have to experiment sexually to know what you enjoy, or can you know your preferences beforehand?

[CrisFantazyNFury]

[ShellyB]

I think it can be either, in my case what I actually like is opposite what I wanted to like (basically I wanted to be dominant but I like being submissive) I could not see it bc I did not want to see it, until it was unavoidable. But less emotional things like how you like to be touched you prob. know at least somewhat in advance.

[vanshh]

@ShellyB if you get a chance to be dom in bed, what would you do to him?

[ShellyB]

@vanshh Nothing, I would not take the chance, it doesn't work for me.

[vanshh]

@ShellyB but why? Have you ever even tried?

[ShellyB]

@vanshh Yes kind of, with my HS boyfriend, he would do anything I wanted and I only allowed a very limited set of things, like I would allow him to masturbate while I was in the room but I wouldn't necessarily even pay attention and I would tell him to hurry up. It was just really boring for me. I am not really looking for any big change I found what I like and that is what we do every time now.

[LazerBean]

Both to some extent, but mainly I knew before hand.

[bananathunder]

depends... I always thought feet were gross but I had a girl give me a footjob and I thought it was fun. Not something I would do all the time but I would do it again even though it was something I thought I would never want to do ever

[bananathunder]

thanks for the MHO

[loveslongnails]

How can you possibly know what you're going to like or dislike until you try it? Of course, I'm talking about doing things within reason at first.

[Knoxmandz19]

I was masturbating at least 2 or 5 years before I lost my virginity, so I used to rubb my clit to orgasm or i'd just put a finger tip inside my pussy.

[Dargil]

I do physical research to develop technique.

[DiegoO]

You can't say a dish taste good, with only seen how it looks. Same goes for sex.

[msc545]

Experimentation is better because it really gives you a first-hand knowledge of the sensations associated with certain acts.

[EaterPeter]

I know my preferences

[panamared1]

Sometimes in our mind we think we like something, we never really know till we try