Guys, do you like “different” girls?

So my guy friend and I were talking. He told me he was shocked that I was as kinky as I turned out to be. He proceeded to say he was shocked because he didn’t think girls thought about sex very often and he thought girls had a lower sex drive than men. I said, “it’s rare for females to have such a high sex drive. I’m different than all my friends” (most of my friends are so innocent). He says “I like different. Normal is boring :)”. Do you guys truly like the “different” girls? The ones who are maybe just as kinky as a guy? Was it a pleasant surprise to him?
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  • I think what guys are attracted to is authentic girls. That's what I feel sexy is and if men think about it most would agree. What I mean is be true to who you are. Be proud of who you are and own it. I know there is a lot of pressure to conform to what is considered normal to some. Trust me you have a much higher chance of having a successful relationship and a happier life if you are not living a lie because you think it makes everyone else happy. Men kind of want to know what we are getting into. It doesn't matter what people think or say how things should be most of them are liars anyway. Besides you are not dating everyone else your with who your with. There is a person out there for everyone no matter how innocent or depraved they think they are.

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  • Some guys definitely do. Remember that almost nothing applies to ALL men, and this is something that is probably true of maybe 30-40% of guys if I had to take a guess. It seems you got lucky with this guy...

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  • "Different" is a pretty wide spectrum. A girl with a high sex drive and kinky fantasies is likely to be more popular than, say, a girl who collects squirrel heads.

  • Yes. Most women don't seem to like sex whatsoever (from a male perspective). It seems like it's just something they do to shut men up. The 5% or so of women who are into it (and not actual sex workers) are rare, and valuable.

  • Normal is fine... Like that pretty standard girl who follows the "how to be a pretty girl". But in intimacy they are a little bit too aware.

    "Different" girls are not afraid of being themselves at any time. It's more fun 🙃

  • It depends on the guy because not every guy is kinky. Guys also have different levels of sex drives and they also differ in their fantasies. I think for him it was a pleasant surprise but that´s not every guys choice.

  • For me, I do like "different" girls. I like girls who know what sex is and they enjoy it and get a lot out of it. Many women don't get it and don't have the sex drive or interest like you. Many men might think about it, but are still stuck in the vanilla kind of sex. Your guy friend might think he is wild in bed, like you, but also might be saying that so that he might have a chance with you. After a couple weeks, you will know for sure if he is wild or not.

  • I love kinky women. The best sex I ever had was with a woman who loved to be tightly bound for sex.

  • if the girl has come to terms with her slutiness then i'm cool with it

  • I love a girl to be kinky and To love sex as much as I do , but only if she is faithful and doesn’t have a track record of screwing a bunch of different guys , then I consider her a whore

  • Well, I only date highly kinky / fetish girls, so yeah.

  • Yeah, we often do

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