Guys, do you like girls who easily put out sex or girls who take time?

[Anonymous]

[MrOracle]

Guys who are just looking for casual sex (or are only interested in a given girl for casual sex) are going to prefer girls who gives it up quickly.

Guys looking for a serious, long-term relationship are going to be looking for girls who take some time and work on getting to know the guy first.

[TruthBringer]

I was just about to comment this, but you already beat me to it lol

[TheorionMage]

Employing the proper safeguards regarding conception and diseases
WHY SHOULD FEMALES NOT BE ENTITLED TO ENJOY AND EXPLOIT
THE FLEETING YEARS OF THEIR CONCUPISCENCE AS MEN DO?

As Maurice Chevalier crooned in 'Gigi': "Sank Heaven for little girls..."

[Lazi-boi]

Depends on what the goal is and her history.

[TheBootyChest]

That's a hard choice. I don't want her to wait for marriage to even have foreplay between us.

But I won't ask her for sex on the first date. That's just my rule to show her respect.

[normalice]

If they put out easy because the like to get off, that's ideal. But if they put out easy because they want attention, that's largely undesirable.

[Asker]

Makes sense. Can you tell when a woman is just doing it for attention?

[normalice]

Not always. Its one of those "absence of evidence" things. I can usually tell when a girl just plain loves dick. But a girl who doesn't seem to be that way isn't necissarily doing it for attention - they could just be shy about their noises or something.

[Asker]

I see. To put it plainly, men generally prefer a woman who seems to enjoy sex than one who simply gives it when asked or when expected to?

[Asker]

*rather than

[normalice]

I prefer this and suspect other men do as well, but can't technically speak for them.

[Mofunfour20]

Its because after women put out its easier to figure out if she has anything valuable to offer the relationship other than sex and her emotions

[Almost10inch4funlol]

i respect a woman who fucks if the vibe is right i lose attraction for women who hold out when they want to have sex. but if the vibe wasn’t there i don’t mind giving it another chance or 2 if she is worth it.

[Username371]

if its way too easy, for example she shows you a nude before even saying much, or if one of her first facial expression is that porno tongue, then its a turn off, because you can guarantee she will be making fake sounds in bed, be talking a lot of crap, like in porn movies, etc, thinking that's sexy.

[SomeThrowAway]

Some guys like an easy fuck, and I can appreciate it too, but if she'll have sex with me really quickly, It seems like she does it for any guy she develops even mild feelings or attraction for. It would make me concerned about the staying power of a potential relationship.

[rcljr]

I have a need… a need to breed.

[Pj1981]

I like a girl that completely intends to wait but just can't help but give in after a little touching and making out

[Hairylegs222]

The ones that took me seriously have done both. So I'd say it doesn't matter to me. We're gonna have sex eventually in a relationship so a time limit when it doesn't matter.