Do you like it slow and steady during sex or fat and rough?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I've asked girls this question and it's kind of funny because they all say rough they want it fast and rough and I would always shake my head okay

We start foreplay making out just very slow motion and probably 10 to 15 minutes into it start making love having sex f****** whatever and the girl would always say you can pick up the speed now

And I would say okay and I would still just go slow motion and deep just so very slow motion and deep

And most girls start to get pissed off a little bit they have like anxiety or something I don't know but I would just keep going slow motion and deep and then there'd be a moment where I've been looking to their

Reach color of their cheeks listen to their moan and I could tell that she loved it so

I would start picking up speed and start getting a little bit rougher and every girl I've done that with will grab a hold of me like with a bear hug and squeeze me and say stop do not go fast keep going slow oh my God just keep going slow because they've never had love made to them before going fast and deep and hard and rough that's all fine I like that too but there's a time and a place in a moment for it first get her off on something that I believe girls don't even know what making love is anymore at least that's what it seems like but each girls different so but for me I like it slow and deep I mean so slow motion and deep until I can make her come like crazy

havingfun2023 · Accepted Answer

*Fast or fat was the typo huh. We've all been there eventually lol. Anyways, back to the question at hand. I'd say, if I was sexually active, I'd prefer to sometimes be slow and steady, and other times be (consensually) rough and fat.
Provided there's no injuries, external or internal, of either one, and it's not regretted later by me or her, and since I'd be the guy who'd only stick to vanilla 🥛🥛 sex, there's few injuries to get from "vaginal sex only" just different positionings and judging those carefully.

I'm not a fan at all of oral and definitely not of anal (I did have an anal phase in my earlier 20s to mid 20s). I couldn't date a woman who wanted anything than foreplay, kissing, breast milking or vaginal sex. No oral, no anal, on neither one of us, and hell no to toys, hell no to not using condoms and birth control, I'd insist and hopefully medically approved by her doctor for her, birth control plus condoms, every time. Every time 👀👀🥛🥛😋😋 damn i am awesome with my strictness 😜🙄

HitsyHonesty · Accepted Answer

I begin slow but that pace goes up quick, because I looked forward to it and couldn't help myself. Slow and steady isn't for me. I can try but I fail.

lovinglymind69 · Accepted Answer

Usually slow, and deep. Same when he's eating me out, nice and slow! 🤤

Adventurer23 · Answer

What is "fat and rough"? lol I like my sex "portly and turbulent"! 😆

In all seriousness though, it really just depends. It depends on the kind of sex the girl I'm with likes, as well as my own mood as well. I enjoy both slow and soft sex, as well as harder, rougher sex, and both can be awesome in their own ways. Oftentimes though, starting off slow and gradually speeding up toward the end is how things end up, but again, it all just depends on the person, the moment and the mood. Regardless, it pays to know her preferences, her overall mood, and be able to read her body in the moment. It all just depends.

katiesmuff · Answer

Slow and steady is so much better as it is loving and sensual.

Zenpanda · Answer

Depends on the mood of the moment

Anemone978 · Answer

Depends on the mood..

ArrowheadSW · Answer

68 miles per hour. Because if you're going 69, you're eatin' it! LOL...

mandyfire98 · Answer

Both. I like a mixture.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some say slow & steady wins the race but on the other hand sometimes all that love & lust builds up & like the energizer bunny you have to pound your partner good.

Mamaliv · Answer

Fast and rough!!!

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I like the slow and steady approach at first with a crescendo finish.

EmmaMary · Answer

Variety is the spice of life!

A_Bell · Answer

Well not rough, but maybe forceful and agressive? Firm? Building from gentle to assertive?

WhereIsMyMind · Answer

I'm partial to being grabbed by the hair and spanked, so I'd say that I usually like it hard and fast.

AviatorTom · Answer

A mix of the two for me is best. Start slow and steady, build up a nice rhythm, add some hard pounding, and finish both of us off with what we like best.