Guys, do you like it when a girl flirts with you? Based off my description, do you think I'll get anywhere?

Description of me: 24, I am 5'7", 135lbs with most of my weight in my butt/thighs. I have very small boobs so I never wear a bra. I am half black/half white, currently my hair is short n curly and usually I style it with a bandana but I am getting it professionally done soon. My teeth are eh, I have extra teeth so my top teeth kinda stick out, its not horribly noticeable but they aren't perfect. People always compliment my eyes, say they are big/pretty. I currently don't wear makeup cause I work on a farm and I am trying to keep my skin clear (light acne/dark spots) but I am considering light eye makeup when I am not working

Mostly wear tighter jeans and nice shirts, occasionally dresses

I am nervous cause my ex broke up with me about a year ago so I am definitely off my game... and I feel that I don't receive a lot of attention from guys in general.

I feel I can talk casually and don't rely on cheesy lines and have a decent sense of humor, I have had guy friends all my life and I love hanging out with guys, I do get a little nervous of course when trying to make it look like I am cute and being flirty. Oh and I am recently sober so the bar option is out for me
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  • Yes.

    I'm at a stage of my life whereby I'm comfortable on my own and happy in my own skin.

    I'm confident in talking to women in general as I have to talk to many as part of my work! I'll admit there's one who I flirt with (shh!) just a little because we get on well.

    Interesting fact, she has offered to buy me a coffee when I'm next on site. I'm not expecting anything more than just that but nothing wrong with a little adventure, hehe ;-)

    As for you little one... I'm getting good vibes off you. You're going to be going places so make sure you remember your GAG friends and send us a postcard!

    Based on what you've said, I could easily talk to you/get along. Like I said good vibes radiate off you so be positive and go far. The only limiting factor is you. How far you go depends on how far you want to go.

    You've got this :-)

    • Thank you for MHO :-)

  • You sound pleasantly ordinary. I do not intend to be offensive in the slightest. It sounds like your "look" is sharecropper chic. Kinda the black version of a "horsey" white girl.

    I am taken. If I were not, I would be flattered and attracted to you.
    "Do you think I'll get anywhere?" With me, you would.

    • I feel like this is the most honest answer thank you! So when I get some money saved up first thing is I am getting my teeth fixed. I hate them. Meanwhile, I am trying to style my curls so they pop a little more and my hair at least can always be styled. Not sure about clothes, I pretty much stick to jeans and flattering shirts... i dont have boobs so I am going to the gym and working on my legs. Does all this raise me to at least a girl that guys notice? I just feel I want to trim the edges of my dorky looks... like, I dont blame guys for not flirting with me

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  • Personally i do like it when a girl flirts with a guy, not only because im shy but also due to the fact that it eases the repeating question of "is she even interested"
    Besides many guys Don't even make a move for various reasons.. many of them are being self concious about many aspects. Smell, speech, hobbies, clothing, financial status and such.

    Based on the text/description. I would say you will likely find that one that makes you happy for a very long time if not forever.

  • With me? Nope, not a chance. But that is not to say other guys might not be interested.

    • Just overall not your type, or is it something that I could improve, like how I present myself?

    • Yeah, I do not think there is anything wrong, just not my type at all. My type is ~5'7" girls that weigh more than me, have long blonde or red hair, wear thick framed glasses, and are evenly proportioned.

    • Haha yep not me! I have that weird boxy, ectomorph body. If I dropped a ton of weight I could bring back the heroin chic look. There are lots of cute girls that girls that fit your type!

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  • 135 on a 5'7" frame sounds nice to me! I'm not very big on popsicle sticks!
    Try Senorial Sangria. It's a Mexican soda pop that tastes just like real sangria.
    Flirty is nice, but just asking up front is even nicer- cuts out all that red tape!

  • You can definitely score multiple guys

  • well.. i am wondering how you do look exactly.. do you have a photo of yourself in it?

  • I might date you if you were available when I was single

  • Yea it's cute... come flirt with me... we cud date after

  • That's nice when we should meet LoL 😂

  • Mmm short girls with thick thighs and a butt are sexy as hell

  • Well i dont like a lot of make up and braless is always sexy to me.

    Dating is hard for most people but i dont think you have a reason to be concerned.

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