Guys, do you like it when a girl goes on top?

Question

I've had guys who've seemed really uncomfortable when I go on top but also guys who literally ask me to. I just want to know each sides reasons. Why do you enjoy it or why do you not?

JackSmy · Accepted Answer

EQUALITY!! I respect her as my equal, and why shouldn't she like to be on top, when she chooses!! Most of the time, most of the women I have been with have loved being loved in "doggie" (I SOOOO HATE THAT TERM!!!) because it can be so much more fulfilling, and sensual for her!
I am holding her close, from behind, and naturally, not in her bottom!!!
But in that position, I can whisper things, in her ear, or tease her ears (some LOVE that!) or kiss her neck, but my hands are also free, to caress anything that she wants!! Even in that position, she is in control, as she has only to say what she wants, and I am happy to comply! :) :)

Kurαȷ · Accepted Answer

I hate cowgirl, it's my least favorite position.
It's boring, it's cumbersome, it doesn't do enough, it's not intimate enough, the woman can accidentally bend your dick the wrong way and give you penile fracture.
It frankly just sucks all over.

If the woman wants to control the penetration then then lap dance type positions, while sitting down, are the way to go.
The man can do so much more with his hands, you can seamlessly switch roles, it's just far, far superior to cowgirl.

scholastic_vibez · Answer

It feels the most pleasurable for most guys, but there are not a lot of women that think being on top is their favorite position. But, if you get a girl where that’s her favorite position a guy should feel really lucky.

JPrez · Answer

When done right, most guys love cowgirl, especially if they are aggressive at the rowing and up and down aspect of it. We get to look at boobs, watch your reaction and chill a bit while the woman goes to town.

GingerGuy · Answer

I prefer it and it's my favorite. She can control her movements to her liking and not only do I have a great view, but my hands are free as well. But different guys like different things.

LiamSawyer · Answer

I would usually switch it up and use at least three positions during a round of sex. Cowgirl would always be included, that way I can see her beautiful face and easily play with her boobs while supporting her ass so her legs don't get too tired.

Dargil · Answer

I like it the best.

RSav4013 · Answer

I love it. Mostly because I'm a boob guy and watching them bounce when the woman is on top is a huge turn on for me.

Shiver · Answer

Yeah, I like it. I guess some guys don't like it because they can't control the pace, so they can't stop themselves from cumming very well.

bowenw · Answer

It very enjoyable because she often is doing the thrusting or bouncing and controlling the depth. If she's facing me I really enjoy watching her boobs bounce.