Guys, do you like to be the ones in control during sex or like the woman to take control?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Not into women being in control. I don't like any women on top positions.

ONS/friends with benefits, firm believer it should be done only in doggy style and he should be hard and rough.

In a relationship, a firm believer that she can initiate and he must not say no to her. Likewise she can't say no if he wants it.

Foreplay, everything done and decided by him. Positions he should decide including if it is her on top, she could refuse if she didn't want it though.

Myself, my girlfriend knows every week it would happen at least 5 times, She knows whether we're fighting or upset at each other, Friday 9pm, I will switch off her laptop, tv and phone, then bring her to the bedroom and by 9:30pm she will be in missionary position and I would have pushed hard to insert my penis into her vagina. Then on Sunday evening at around 9pm the same thing would happen but it won't be a hard or rough one though still in missionary. The other 3 times, I generally choose Monday evening, Wednesday morning and either Wednesday evening or Thursday evening. Positions will either be doggy, pronebone or missionary.

Been that way for 4 years now.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

Both. I've never really been the type to get into BDSM-style extremes, but taking control of somebody (or having them take control of you) can be a fun change of pace sometimes. It's a shame how often people forget that sex is supposed to be FUN, and lose that potential in porn-based expectations. Remember that you don't have to go to that extreme.

MrOracle · Answer

I'm a Dominant, so being in control is both all I know and all I'm interested in. No part of me is the least bit submissive - it's just not who I am or who I've ever been.

ImDusty · Answer

Always dominant

Kaneki05 · Answer

I would rather her.

Sixgunsound · Answer

More often than not it’s me, but sometimes we change it up. It’s great either way.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes.

bowenw · Answer

Both options are excellent. It's fun to mix it up.

megabamse · Answer

I don't mind a lady that knows what she wants and go for it. How ever i mostly take control

CloudMassacre · Answer

I would prefer she take most of the lead

kellytheman · Answer

I like her taking control more. I like her to take control cause it does help me know what she wants, how she wants it, and I like the feeling of her taking it anyway means necessary. I just like her seeing on top overpowering me and telling me how to sastify her while I she say how she gonna sastify me.

Wise4myage · Answer

I enjoy both equally.

clampfan101 · Answer

When I marry I’d like us to take turns. Feeling in control sounds fun, though I’m not sure I’d be any good at it. lol Either way, I want her to have the choice too.