Do you like to have casual sex?

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  • Voted "Yes." Sex being an instinctive behavior in human evolution. It is healthy and natural and the data are spanking clear that those men and women who have sex on a regular basis are generally happier and healthier.

    One big stipulation, however. Though our sexual instincts are natural and spontaneous, and born of our need to reproduce, we live in a more evolved world. Leaving religious truths to one side, we know that marriage evolved as a social institution in part to protect women and children.

    When it comes to sex, men and women were NOT created equal. The male instinct is to impregnate as many females as possible. The female, by contrast, can typically carry only one child at a time and that requires an enormous expenditure of time and energy.

    Therefore, the female is looking for the alpha male. That one male with healthy sperm who can produce healthy offspring and protect them from dangerous predators and sexual rivals.

    So typically - not always but generally - men will be sexually more aggressive and marriage evolved to regulate that aspect of human behavior. To set rules that protect mother and child. Indeed, it is no coincidence that as marriage has lost its force in the culture, the rate of out of wedlock births - and child abandonment and abortion and such has soared.

    The basic dynamic remains. The male wants to reproduce. The female wants to mate, but must be more careful and selective. Where that breaks down, much misery - especially for mother and child - follows.

    So while sex is perfectly fine, there must be a commitment on the man's part to care for any children he may produce. Here some truth in advertising.

    To my knowledge, I have gotten four women pregnant. The first had a miscarriage and we ended up breaking up. The only one that I truly and deeply regret and that hurts me to this day - indeed causes me more pain than anyone would imagine is the girl who aborted my poor little baby without telling me. I would have been a single father and cared for that little person with all my heart - but she did not care.

    My girlfriend and I have lived together for over a decade and have three children together. We have chosen not to be married because we love what we share and think it is natural and beautiful and we found the idea of a big ceremony and a permission slip from the state to denigrate that. It is, admittedly, a somewhat eccentric view, but we love each other and our children and we ae a happy family.

    However, I about 4 years ago that I am the father to a 16 year old boy. The mother, a woman with whom I had casual sex a few times, had originally opted not to tell me and raised my son on her own. She tracked me down and informed me. I took a test and sure enough - I am very proud of him and although it was awkward to start, we have grown quite close.

    So that is how I view it. Sex is healthy and natural - and honestly it makes me feel my manhood. (My girlfriend jokes that I am controlled by my penis.) That is true, I think, of all humans. However, it does not come without obligations.

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  • Casual sex as sexual interactions that take place outside a committed relationship. Often, these encounters occur between individuals without any expectation of a future romantic relationship. Casual sex may cover a variety of sexual and intimate behaviors, up to and including sexual intercourse. Widespread terminology also refers to casual sexual encounters as hookups, booty calls, or one-night stands. In many cases, casual sex only occurs once between partners. However, other casual sexual encounters may be ongoing. In popular culture, many people refer to a long-term casual sex partner as a “friend with benefits.”There are many reasons why people choose to engage in casual sex. These could range from pressing physical desire to deep-seated insecurity. Evidence indicates that some of the most common reasons for engaging in casual sex include: honing sexual skills, reducing stress, increasing self-confidence, improving social status,
    trying to get over an ex...
    Casual sex is not good or bad in and of itself, and research shows it can carry benefits and risks to health. However, whether the benefits outweigh the risks depends on the context of a sexual encounter.

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  • I am married, so I have no need for it, but any sex is better than no sex at all.

    • Amen to that.

  • Some of the best sex I've had was casual sex.

    • Agreed. Seems like they work harder when they know that they're only get 1 turn.

    • @SarahP080106 Maybe they think that if they prove themselves, they might get another chance. Or maybe they want to make the most of a first impression.

    • You are probably right

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  • If it was the right person a good friend or whatever and somewhere down the road it might lead to something I would absolutely love it right now LOL

    It's a long story but I can't do what I would like to be doing right now with anybody just because of what I'm doing LOL but yes I would love to find a friend like that that I know that it might work into something deeper

  • Sort of? I’m down for it, and in my younger days, there’s probably nothing I enjoyed more than “the hunt.” But the downside is having to be safe, and if I’m being totally honest, I dislike condoms so much that I’d almost rather not get laid at all than use one.

    Maybe I have low sensitivity or something, I don’t know, but I’m more mentally focused on keeping wood when I have to use condoms, lmao, because they take away the physical sensation that would do it for me. It’s the thrill of being in the situation that keeps me rocked up, but honestly, sex feels like 5/10 with a condom, so that’s just such a steep drop-off from the 10/10 raw sex.

    If I want pizza, I go to New York City or New Haven, or maybe a select few spots in the Boston area. If you’re offering me Domino’s from Cleveland, I’d rather just not eat pizza at all, if that makes sense as an analogy.

  • Nah, casual sex isn't really my thing.

    I wouldn't be comfortable with that at all.

  • Before marriage yes. Not every weekend but it was great to let your stress out and enjoy the company of others.

  • Nah. I always preferred exclusive, infatuated relationships with girls who had self-respect, self-esteem, and were choosy about whom they fucked.
    We became familiar with each other. The girls were infatuated, wanted to please me, and gave their all. The sex was phenomenal.
    We could also engage in sexual activity every day, as much as we liked, for as long as we remained a couple.

    I didn't have to go out trolling for chicks or risk disease. And they were on the pill, so I could cum inside them over and over. I hate condoms.

    • Pills are not good for women health

    • Yeah, sure. LOL I'll bet that the millions and millions of women who have used the pill would beg to differ. And condoms are for people who never enjoyed real sex before. But they can help to prevent the transfer of STDs during hook ups. My girlfriends suffered no side effects. Their bodies functioned perfectly normally. Later in life, they got married, had children and lived to be happy grandmas. "The birth control pill is a safe, simple, and convenient way to prevent pregnancy. It also has other benefits like reducing acne, making your periods lighter and more regular, and easing menstrual cramps." I'm wondering how many GMOs and chemicals people eat without a second thought, while talking about the "pill" not being good for women's health. Do they ever take other pharmaceuticals? Did they get jabbed?

  • Well it adds spice to the routine, But also having it planned has its benefits too!

  • No I do not. I read some of the comments and it's the true what one guy said people who have sex are generally happier and healthier than those who don't but a lot of those same studies that show that go on to show people who have only one sexual partner are healthier and happier than those with more than one sexual partner their whole life it gets lower the more you have.

  • No, absolutely not.

  • Sexting yes, but sex for me I prefer it in a relationship. I always feel a bit uncomfortable with the pregnancy risk and I like keeping that part of me for someone special.

  • Yes, why not

  • I don't really care for it, honestly. It's fine.

  • Have never had casual sex.

  • I only did it once. It really was not very good.

  • Thts what I do

  • Nope.

    Never have, never will. Saving myself for marriage.

  • Used too

  • I’m asexual and aromantic i consider the human body to be extremely disgusting. I can’t understand why anyone can find a body appealing enough to stick your dick into it.

  • NSA is fun n so is committed relationship depending on your mood

  • To be honest i experienced the casual sex but after a while i felt emptiness and wasn't feeling the pleasure i have when i do it with my love.. sex in the context of loving your partner is very wild and very pleasurable physically and emotionally.. i had casual sex with that same woman without having feelings toward eachothers.. whenever i finish i don't feel good i feel the desire to leave... But when i had sex inside love i always take her inside my arms and be clingy with her till we sleep together.

    Casual sex is an emotionless thing , without a meaning in my opinion

  • Hell no! Only after marriage...

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