Do you like to have rough sex? Girls what do you do so that you can keep going? Guys what kind of things motivate you to keep going?

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I don't have any good tips to share to "survive" rough sex. I do establish boundaries and a safe word before hand so that way I can fully enjoy the rough sex. But my strategy is to as you can see cry a little and to cover my mouth because I do get really loud during rough sex. I know the tears might make guys worry and stop so I do wrap my legs around the guy to let him know not to stop and once he understands that I let me legs relax and let him have his way with me.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

There are some good resources out there for beginners to BDSM, as this is what you are touching on.

this means some important things are needed.

Its based on Informed Consent, meaning not only are both consenting to it but also that at least one understands what they are doing, the risks around it and the safety needed.

Then you have Trust, Respect, Honesty and Communication.

here it’s about mutual of the above.

anyone doing or thinking of doing rough sex or any kink, needs to have complete trust in the other person. This can be the person doing the rough stuff having trust in the person receiving it being honest about when it’s too much and to communicate this.

As @purplepoppy says it’s very important to agree limits and boundaries before hand.

personally unless going into Consensual Non Consent (CNC) you don’t need safe words (too much porn stuff), a simple ‘Fucking stop’ works, you also need non visual alerts as well, as the person me be gagged.

That all falls under in understanding risks and safety.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

When it doesn't involved sado-masachism, I just call it energetic sex. Even some bondage is normal.

I love fucking a woman hard. Grasping her, positioning her legs, pinning her, lifting and jacking her up and down, gripping her wrists, pulling her hair, hand on throat (not actually choking), slapping her ass, drilling her deep and hard, and pounding her energetically, even binding her wrists, is all good. I'm just not into degradation or causing pain or injury.

A lot of women get off on being helplessly manhandled by a man who's bigger and more powerful than them. They love his dominance and the fact that they can take whatever he dishes out.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Kinda. I was having sex with an ex when he was just about to cum a buddy of his punched him in the face and knocked him out cold and pulled him off me, it was weird because I saw him fall off the bed and ejaculate over himself. This friend of my ex had been secretly jerking off while watching us and despite my protests and screams bent me over and roughly had sex with me. I felt ashamed but I also never came so hard, I was so frightened by this guy and he was bigger than my ex. I actually started dating him for a while. He was certified crazy. He did the exact same with another couple and ended up getting stabbed during when the guy came too. He's in jail now.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't know. Maybe in some ways. I don't want to be chocked or hair pulled, but I do want to be pounded with the dick.

The last guy the only thing he did intensely was eat the pussy, but he still neglected my clit 🤦🏽‍♀️

I think maybe it could've gotten better, but I don't know.

Just everything pretty much was too light. Except for one time I asked him to go harder, then I had an orgasm. Go figure.

laurieluvsit · Answer

It's not me who has to keep going. I am a physical fit nut. It's finding partners who don't exhaust out on me! ... lol Yes, I like it rough

chrissykerdock · Answer

rough sex to me is a facefucking with the guy spitting on your face and in your mouth... i wouldn't do anything else like face slapping or worse.

purplepoppy · Answer

The main thing is for you both to be clear what your limits are before you start. Safewords are ok unless your gagged so an alternative is time limits where you agree to tolerate it for a given period, say the time it takes to play a song. If your willing to continue tell him before the next song starts.

SweedyPie · Answer

I do like it. My facial expressions and the way my body reacts tell my partner not to stop 😁 I also usually end up pulling him into me from enjoying it so much or end up moaning things that make him keep going, so he know it's okay and I'm fine

CindyRuns · Answer

To me, slow, loving and passionate is the only way to go !!!

Taliyaas · Answer

I like rough sex too! The most important tip I could give is make sure you set rules and ease into rough sex. I learned that the hard way (literally lmao)

rachel776 · Answer

i like it

MrTuxedo · Answer

There shouldn't be ''tips'' on how to survive rough sex. You either like it or not. You cannot force yourself to enjoy rough sex. An addition to safe word can be tapping on certain surface or object, as sometimes, at least for me, it can get so rough that she cannot speak.

BlondeGoneWild · Answer

Moaning and dirty talking, pulling him in deeper or bouncing back harder, and of course making sure the guy knows beforehand that I want to be used like a sex doll

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Its like rubbing a stick so hard and fast it starts to burn.

bowenw · Answer

Occasionally. It's fun to mix it up.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

My enormous ego.

loveslongnails · Answer

To answer your question, yes, I like rough sex, but not "only" rough sex. I like all kinds of sex!!

The world as it is today, a girl better be very clear with me about HER idea of where rough sex starts and ends, especially if we don't know each other well enough yet. I don't want a rape accusation thrown at me because a girl said "do whatever you want with me" - she's got to be a lot more specific than that.

AydenHazor · Answer

I like it when the girl I'm with likes it

AustColombiangirl · Answer

I love rough sex. If I can walk afterwards you didn't go rough enough in me

Stevefiveo · Answer

I think the legs wrapped around the guy is good. I think for the first time, you might want to communicate that so he knows it's ok.

Cringe · Answer

Cringe

InvoluntaryCelibate9 · Answer

I love both gentle and rough. I like to switch up speeds now n then. I'm like a washing machine

bamesjond0069 · Answer

I love being rough. My girlfriend gets hurt and scared easily. I mean i know i have a bigger dick but seriously i hurt her bad if i try to be too rough because i accidentally put it all in and it goes too far. she's not the first girl like that. But she also gets scared sometimes when i choke her slap her around stuff like that. I don't know what goes on in her head but she orgasms a lot. I go gentle but i can be very very rough if a girl can handle it.