Do you look down on married women who flirt back when flirted to?

Question

Be it sexual flirting or playful flirting

GordonShumway · Accepted Answer

So many variables to be considered. What's the reason for the flirting? What's the outcome expected? What's the marriage like? (Open marriage? Happily married? On the rocks?)

If it's an open marriage, or one coming to an end, go ahead and flirt. But if it's supposed to be a happy, monogamous marriage, then that may not be okay. Unless she's doing it for a legitimate, non-sexual reason, like doing the flirting to land a new client or further her career, or anything like that. I mean it's clear men have an advantage in the working world, women should be able to use their sexuality to their advantage.

I think all that really matters is what the married couple has agreed to.

Blackmoonsns · Accepted Answer

Well in those situations that's why I remain single cuz if I'm talking to a married woman and she's showing interest in me and I'm showing interest in her then I don't got any shame to my game we both realize what this is. Now let's just say we were being intimate with each other and she has an epiphany and she's realizing what she's doing is wrong and make jeopardize her marriage or her relationship I'm not going to hold it against her for stop seeing me and want to just fix and work on her relationship that's the healthy thing to do.

Nomina · Accepted Answer

Hmmm. The sexual flirting isn't good. Playful flirting as I've seen it hasn't bothered me. in my opinion, there's a distinction.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Why would a guy knowingly flirt wth a married woman just to try to get a response that he will then condemn?

Reece12345 · Answer

Nope. A flirt is just a flirt. We all do it.

SnowedIn · Answer

No. Flirting is flirting. Go for it.

mrmonogamous · Answer

I don’t flirt with married women. Actually, I don’t flirt with anyone. I’m a very happily married man. If there’s any flirtation going on whatsoever, it’s just my wife and I!

20yearsolder · Answer

I don't as long as she doesn't look down on a married man flirting with her

Summeroflove · Answer

If I know someone is married I don’t flirt. If she flirts with me I distance myself if I can and am totally not interested

HighValue · Answer

Yes. Any flirting with others while in a relationship makes them a disloyal bad person.

AnUglyBarnacle · Answer

I look down on both the initiator and the willing respondent in this scenario.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I feel like if your married you shouldn't be flirting with other people regardless and that goes for men and women.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Yeah, I do think less of those women. People like that are precisely why I have no interest in dating and marriage.

Andres77 · Answer

As long as they stay within the limits of respect for their spouse.

Kryzo · Answer

Depends on the context

SlavicThor · Answer

I just wodner if they have any self respect, how'd they react of their husband did the same aha

Rizwan_khan · Answer

I will flirt back and i will first playfull flirt and then sexual flirt if she responses.

TheFlak38 · Answer

It's just indicative how pointless relationships, and marriage in particular, have become. Women are never happy. Why should women enjoy attention from just one man when they can have millions?

HaveNoName · Answer

Let's be honest. When she is doing it with me and if I find her attractive, I will forget everything about my moral rules... At least while being in the moment (... and of course that is all that counts). When the same person does it with another guy, all my moral valies come alive !!