Do you masterbate before dates?

[thewanderingme]

[steveguitar]

I've never dated, but I think for a guy and likely for a woman it would be pretty useless. If you masturbate or don't, it's likely that if the date goes positively it will last a long time maybe 3 hours I guess? and by that time your body is pretty well right back to where it would be if you didn't masturbate before. I think the only time you will see any difference in your body's response to stimulation and quickness of release is if you have not masturbated and had an orgasm in a few days or longer

[thewanderingme]

I'm just curious, just saw it in a movie, wondered if many people actually do. that's really only an issue for a guy.

[zorro8888]

I didn't know that was a thing lol
Nonetheless, I don't think I'd want to do it, the testosterone build up can help my confidence/drive oddly enough haha

[thewanderingme]

maybe it isn't. saw it in a movie, I wanted to see if people actually do that.

[zorro8888]

What movie were you watching? What was his reason?

[thewanderingme]

her reason.. wasn't given.

[zorro8888]

At least I can see why a guy would do it lol in his case if he's planning on having sex later, him masturbating would make him last longer. Maybe she was horny and if she masturbated, she wouldn't end up sleeping with him?

[thewanderingme]

yea, everyone keeps saying that. this is the first I'm seeing about it. (I did a little google search too. haha)

[Anonymous]

I answered that I have a few times, but I have technically done it during dates too, but it's a mutual "watch each other masturbate" thing.

[thewanderingme]

ooooh, ok! ;)

[wankiam]

sounds like the perfect date to me

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah it is pretty great @wankiam Thanks for MHO :)

[alicewhite]

Yes! Before I meet my boyfriend I masterbate... If not I will beg him to have sex with me so many times.

[thewanderingme]

he's your boyfriend. why wouldn't you want to have plenty of sex with him?

[alicewhite]

I haven't actually dated anyone else though... So the answer is no I guess. I just do it before I meet my boyfriend to calm down my urges..

[thewanderingme]

why though? just have sex with him.

[existing_not_living]

That would require me to have a date in the first place.

[thewanderingme]

what about in the past?

[TheGreenRanger]

Last date I went on, I didn't (masturbate).

I might have to for the next girl I'm eyeballing.

[thewanderingme]

do you usually?

[TheGreenRanger]

No, when I start seeing a girl I kind of stop jerking it since I'm expecting something down the line here, haha.

[Kinstrome]

I don't think I have, although it's probably a good idea.

[Kinstrome]

I'm kind of curious about the movie now, though.

[thewanderingme]

it was ok.

[Iwjwamo]

Was the movie there's something about Mary? 😂😂

[thewanderingme]

no. I forgot it does it in that. I haven't seen that in forever! (:

[wankiam]

i just masturbate all the time lol

[thewanderingme]

that's fantastic, but it doesn't answer the question. ;)

[wankiam]

when i was dating i did masturbate before a date so if i did get to fuck the girl, it would last longer

[thewanderingme]

I didn't know it lasts longer the second time around for guys. I thought it only makes less sperm come out.

[wankiam]

no... its like now im just into masturbation i often have a quick wank before enjoying an extended masturbation session and when i eventually cum again its more intense and i shoot more sperm

[thewanderingme]

even if you came the first time?

[wankiam]

yeah

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Never masturbated before dates

[JackKerouac77]

No, do you?

[thewanderingme]

did you read the details?

[JackKerouac77]

I did, but now I want to know. Have you?

[thewanderingme]

you don't seem to understand the rules of gag.

[thewanderingme]

oh. wait. I didn't notice you said "no" whoops!

[thewanderingme]

no. I have not. ::hug::

[JackKerouac77]

The rules of GaG don't apply to me! I'm Jack! Anarchy! Back in high school I used to, otherwise you were more likely to act like a fool. Now, not so much. But I date mostly books these days. Now YOU can answer!

[JackKerouac77]

So you've masturbated DURING a date? *gasp gasp gasp* IN THE KITCHEN? *gasp gasp gasp*

[thewanderingme]

I said no.

[JackKerouac77]

I read that as "on." Classic mistake.

[thewanderingme]

what are you talking about?

[JackKerouac77]

YOU! ;)

[JackKerouac77]

Ok, I lied. I just went on a date with this 63-year-old woman and could not keep myself together

[sealfin]

Yes. Why? Because i cum if a fly lands in my lap. If it goes down after the date, i want it to last a long 5 seconds instead of a measly 2 seconds.

[thewanderingme]

you might want to get that checked out.

[sealfin]

Why the hell would i get checked out?

[TurtleRace101]

If i did masturbate before a date, it would just be purely cause i was bored or trying to pass time. It would have nothing to do with the date, because i personally never have sex on a first date. (If that is the reason the character did it) =]

[thewanderingme]

I don't know why she did, she wasn't attracted to him. maybe just bored

[muspelhem_5]

"sometimes during" LOL

[thewanderingme]

in a restaurant bathroom?

[muspelhem_5]

I sense personal experience?

[thewanderingme]

hahaha, no!

[muspelhem_5]

Okay. Not that there would be any shame in it. :)

[Meowsers]

I have. Almost everytime

[thewanderingme]

haha, awesome! ;)

[Meowsers]

Yeaa lol.

[akadatank44]

The thought has never crossed my mind lol

[thewanderingme]

well, now next time you have a date.. it will! ;p

[akadatank44]

Hahah I may have one Friday so it will thanks to you! ;p

[thewanderingme]

you're welcome! ;)

[akadatank44]

Wasn't sincere ;)

[Despondency]

No. It never occurred to me to try.

[thewanderingme]

to try? haha. just a movie thing, I guess.

[Despondency]

I will try next time anyway.

[Ihav2fart]

Never! Why would I do that! ?
That would mean I lose 1 round if it were to happen.

[thewanderingme]

how many rounds do you have?

[Ihav2fart]

Depends on how hungry I am. ;P

[Kshppatel]

I have once. I don't want to be popping wood the whole time during the date

[Bi_Guy]

And sometimes afterwards too.

If I cum before the date, I last longer and taste better during the date.

[thewanderingme]

so, you're always expecting sex during the date then?

[Bi_Guy]

No, but like a Boy Scout, I am always prepared.

[MrTexan37]

I did a couple of times it really helped calm my nerves down

[thewanderingme]

general nerves?

[Goodguy420420]

I've done it before... not every time.

[thewanderingme]

to avoid getting horny or to last longer?

[Goodguy420420]

To last longer. But as I got a little older and more experienced it is less of an issue.

[Anonymous]

Only when I started dating, in case it came down to it and I had to last longer

[Anonymous]

If I did, I'd have to take a shower before I went on the date.

[thewanderingme]

you should shower before a date anyway.

[JackKerouac77]

Shower in butter!

[Opinion Owner]

I meant showering a second extra time.

[thewanderingme]

wank in the shower. 2 birds! ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, I've done that. Too bad water costs too much.

[Anonymous]

No I usually let them masturbate first.

[Anonymous]

No, not really

[thewanderingme]

no? or not really? ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Both

[Anonymous]

Is that like SOP or something? lol

[thewanderingme]

no idea what that means

[Opinion Owner]

Even with the marvelous wonder of Google at your fingertips?

[thewanderingme]

yes. even with that.

[Opinion Owner]

That's unfortunate. Less fortunate people than you would be disappointed

[thewanderingme]

you have no idea how "fortunate" I am.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't have to in order to know less fortunate people would be disappointed at your lack of resourcefulness

[thewanderingme]

you're a douchebag. I really don't care.

[Anonymous]

I did for the first couple dates I went on because I was worried about getting an erection during the date.

[thewanderingme]

when you were younger?

[Opinion Owner]

A bit younger, but adult.

[Opinion Owner]

What was the movie? I think I've seen it but I can't remember the name.

[thewanderingme]

the invention of lying

[Anonymous]

it has happened basically... not always... but yeah

[thewanderingme]

I thought you don't do dates?

[Opinion Owner]

i mean meetings basically... u know

[Anonymous]

I never have.