Do you masturbate to real life, aka sexual memories you actually have OR fantasy, aka things that never happened, porn, fantasy, etc?

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Do you masturbate to real life, aka sexual memories you actually have OR fantasy, aka things that never happened, porn, fantasy, etc?

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

With the way you've written your poll options I went with "split between both", but I'm never about total fantasy; never a complete strangers, someone I've never met (well, ok, about three famous male actors). I usually go with remembered, or anticipating the next time I will be with them, or someone I know well but will never be with.

I asked this question once before too, and people went a bit more with 'remembered.'
What is more arousing - an imagined sexual experience, or a remembered one?

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I dont really masturbate because i taught my body back in 2019 how to cum from mental/aural stimulation. But yes porn is what i prefer. I dont really fantasize because my sexual imagination isn't that good unless its like phone sex. I could never cum to a still picture. I need something moving like a video. Thats why when guys offer dick pics, its like, um fck no. If i wanted something from you, i’d tell you to send me a clip of you jerkin off 🤣

GoldenAxer · Accepted Answer

Mostly porno if my wife is on her period or I'm away overseas or something. I lack the vivid imagination to be jerking off to just what I'm thinking about unless I don't have access to the internet.

Ld775 · Accepted Answer

Mostly porn, but i still think about real stuff from time to time.  When I started masturbating, it was almost always real but that was 20 years ago.

meetkitty123 · Answer

I blend it up I may start with a real memory then move on thinking about my man in general to perhaps even creating a character who is completely fictional.

CourtneyJane · Answer

I can do both, from memory and fantasy. I've also masturbated while watching two men have sex in the same bedroom as me.

rachel776 · Answer

memories or guys i like or see

VTecumseh · Answer

Whats the point of masturbating if you can just get someone else to do it for you? I don't think I've done it more than once or twice back in my teens, maybe just lazy.