Do you masturbate while you are in a relationship?

even if she stays with you and you do sex with her / him

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Superb Opinion

  • Even married couples masturbate.

    An obvious reason is imbalance libido and the one higher needs it to get the release.

    Another reason is alternate need. Sex is there, but masturbation give a different pleasure.

    One more reason is mutual masturbation. A form of foreplay / bedroom fun.

    Finally, along with porn, some masturbate with personal reasons that can't get answer here or in other forums.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Of course. Why wouldn't I?

    And for those who say "why not just have sex with your partner?" - wait until you are in a long term relationship. There are things to be done, there is an element of tiredness, conflicting schedules etc. It is really not so easy to find time each day when you are both in the right mood for sex.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Of course. We both need to get off at least once a day and we don't live together so we both masturbate quite abit.

    • watching porn or thinking of your partner?

    • Both

  • Yeah I masturbate a lot cuz I'm not gonna expect my husband to keep up with my urges

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • These days I almost do not, except rarely, as my girlfriend takes all my energy.

    It was not always that way. In the last years of my marriage, masturbation was the only sex I had.

  • Sometimes during the week because boyfriend has to work at 5:30 AM and he goes to bed early.

    • both of you?

    • Nope

  • Yup, she lives with me and i get enough sex. I still like to masturbate however and I do in bed or in the shower

  • i don't

  • Yes. So does she.

    • and you don't? your partner only

    • My first "yes" meant that I do. She also does. We both do. Sometimes alone and sometimes mutual masturbation.

  • Yes, masturbation is a good tension releaser, and sometimes we're apart. We both occasionally masturbate.,

  • Yes..

    • both of you?

    • Yes..

  • Of course. My wife is on menopause but I masturbate her and I masturbate if not everyday, I try for every other day 👍🙂

  • We've masturbated a few times together

    • but why would do this then doing sex

    • Sex requires more energy. We get tired if the day was taxing.

  • I mean in an LDR it us common also in relations where the couple cannot frequently meet.

  • I don't understand why being in a relationship would mean you or your partner wouldn't masturbate. Seems to me it's a normal human activity. My partner and I sometimes do it together, in fact. Mutual masturbation can be a very satisfying sexual activity.

  • Depends how often I’m getting sex so if I’m not getting it every other day then yeah most likely I would

  • Of course. In a relationship women reduce sex to a reward system, so unless you get it elsewhere, jerking off is the most you are gonna get.