Do you mind date guy who has upskirt fetish?

Many guys have many fetish ask this question I believe.

and I’m wondering if girls would have problem dating guy has upskirt fetish?
That would maybe require you to wear skirts and let your guy look up to get aroused.

Hope that doesn’t sound like a weird fetish.
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  • I don’t mind it. Upskirt fetish is relatively easy to fulfill, I also don’t mind wearing short skirt for him because I like them so much already.
    I had a ex boyfriend who’s into upskirt fetish so I believe I can well handle it.

    • And I will be sure that I will not do it to other poor unsuspecting girls. Your ex is such a lucky guy to once have you fulfilling his fetish. Do you mind if I could know how did he tell you about it? I am too afraid to say it to anyone.

  • I wouldn't but as long as he is doing it with another consenting adult, that's all that matters to me.

    • Yeah, I’ve seen photos that are obviously posed, (usually in a McDonalds or Starbucks, if not a nightclub) but the videos… they are always some creep poking his phone under the back of some poor unsuspecting girl’s skirt! It is such a violation, especially when they show the girls face as well! (Which I absolutely know you’ll agree with me on that).

    • @CrazyGirl2 100% agree with you on it. Consent is always key. If a couple want to stage photos of themselves, that's fine. If they want to target unsuspecting victims, that is definitely NOT fine and should be punished to the fullest extent of the law.

    • Absolutely, I know doing that to unsuspecting girls isn't right and those guys who do those video online are in shame. I would only play this fetish to my loved one.

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  • My answer is all based around one word... consent. If my man wants me to stage an upskirt roleplay and go pantieless in my plaid skirt for an evening so he can be turned on by it then awesome. That turns me on too. If he wants to go sneaking around and trying to sneak a peak at other womens nether regions then hell no.

  • Well, telling them you have a kink and asking them to indulge it (once your relationship has reached that point) is one thing; many girls, probably most, would be willing to play along to some degree. Outright spying on them like that, however, is a different story.

  • Are you sure you mean fetish, and not just a kink? Because a fetish is actually a type of mental disorder where the person cannot get an erection or have an orgasm without the object of their fetish either in their hand, within their sight, or in their imagination! It’s IDC-9 code is 302.81, & it’s IDC-10 code is F65.0.
    That being said, if it was consensual and only ME in PRIVATE, I suppose I wouldn’t mind, if we were at THAT stage of our relationship, but it would seem a rather strange. As, if we have had sex, the man guy has already seen everything down there, he’s likely touched it… a LOT, and hopefully even licked it! So how seeing it partially obscured by thighs, and completely covered by underwear can turn you on, is simply beyond me?
    Unfortunately, from speaking privately to men about this and viewing publicly available videos on this “up skirting”, revealed that, in fact, the overwhelming amount of women and teenage girls being “upskirted” have absolutely NO IDEA that they are the victim of what is now a sex-crime in most, if not ALL US states! I can say anecdotally (as I did not search ALL 50 states) that at a minimum, “most states” now have some form of “anti up-skirt” law on the books, due to the widely publicized 2016 Massachusetts dismissal of a conviction of a man for up-skirting women on public transportation (including an under-cover officer who was there to catch him) because there was actually no specific law against up-skirting, the police police arrested the suspect for photographing women in a “state of undress” however all the women he up-skirted were dressed, and the appeal’s court noted that it would make no difference whatsoever if the women were not wearing underwear! If they are not at least partially undressed, at the time of the offense, then the law he was charged under does not apply to him, because he was taking “up-skirt” photos in public where people are usually fully dressed.
    After that appeals court decision, within just 24 hrs, a new law was drafted, passed by both legislative bodies, and was signed into law by the MA governor! It outlawed taking pictures of women either up their skirt/dress, or down the front of their tops. In fact, I was unable to find any state that doesn’t have some version of the MA anti-upskirting law, banning the photography or videography of women either up their skirts/dresses, or down the front of their tops, without express written permission!
    The men who enjoy looking at these videos, have no idea just how much of a violation of a woman’s right to privacy and bodily autonomy this truly is. Asking one’s girlfriend to pose for a few photos is one thing, but walking behind a woman (or in the case of one video) a girl who is very clearly in high school, and secretly placing your phone under her skirt while video recording is despicable! I’m glad that legislators are wasting no time in codifying this as what it is… a sex crime!

  • I suppose it’s okay for those girl with a fetish for dating guys in prison.

  • I guess ok so long as he is not looking up other girls skirts ….

    • True. I will only do this fetish to my loved one, under her permission.

  • I wouldn’t. I have no idea what guys see in this fetish. And they wonder why women wear trunk bottoms or shorts under skirts and dresses.

    • I don't know, just give me arouse. I guess like some people love ass some people love boobs.

  • Hell would certainly need to freeze over first.

  • This has two meanings which may have confused one to answer correctly.
    You see upskirting random girls is a crime here and other places not a crime but is not accepted good thing to do which one may lead to believe you were saying a guy who does that kinda thing.
    Then there is the other a guy who don't do that, but happily has a upskirt fetish for his girlfriend which is not a crime and a consented thing.

    So one may have been confused since one is really bad, the other is not a problem.

  • If she’s fine I’d let her wear it. Would like to show while eatting my steak.

  • I won't mind really.

  • No, I wouldn't mind

  • As long as I'm the only one he looks at

    • you are so right. I will only do it to my loved one under her permission. I will not do that to other unsuspecting girls.

    • yeah that's the thing. any guy wants to look up our skirt, the fetish guy will want to look up all girls' skirts