Don't be. Masturbation is a release. If you don't have sex like every fucking day it builds up so much tension within your daily life. Like after a shitty day having an orgasm feels really good. It makes you relax. Some people feel the need to masturbate in order to relax. It doesn't mean he doesn't find you attractive, It only means that sometimes you need to have an orgasm and even sometimes you prefer it to make it happen by yourself so you can have a quick "gratification" without worrying about someone else. Porn is like the "fast food" of sex. Sometimes you don't want to make diner or waiting to have it.
If you see him doing it don't be embarrassed. Join him!1 0 0 0why should I mastutbate if I want him.
wo/men in relationships all masturbate, and anyone who says otherwise is either repressed, lying, or both.
thing is, we all have needs. and, sometimes, it's nice to take care of those needs without worrying about someone else's.
now, if he's giving his hands more love than he gives you or is skipping work or social events to get down with his bad self, there's an issue.1 0 0 0I masturbatr because I am a virgin but I don't want to touch myself when I get married
well, you don't have to. but that's a decision you make for yourself~ don't force it on others.
what do you mean don't force it to others? did I tell you or others not to masturbate? omg Are you liberal cause you sound dumb
Masturbation is very different from sex. It's absolutely normal and healthy and just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you can't masturbate/if you masturbate you don't love your partner. It's just your own private business and it is still important.
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Hmmm... the younger set seems to think this is okay. Just know that whatever time you spend jerking off or doing yourself is time stolen away from your SO, your time to be intimate together. Why not have your sexual partner me your outlet for sexual pleasure? Or are you gonna turn them down cuz you already got yourself off?
Come on... REALLY?0 0 0 0Not so much, I get it in the sense that sometimes she has the need to "get there" and in all fairness, she can get herself there much faster than I can, which would be almost the same for me if I should happen to take matters into my own hands. ;-)
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14 30I'm I'm around, and he chooses to masturbate instead of having sex with me (especially with porn), then yes, that would bother me. But if I'm not around, it wouldn't bother me at all.
1 0 0 0If I'm around* oops
If we were married and living together and I wanted sex and he said no and then went and masturbated then I'd be offended.
But we are not married and not living together and are, in fact, living in separate states at the moment so I'd much rather he masturbate than seek out some girl for sex... if that makes sense.1 1 0 0I prefer him to mastebate in front of me while I do the same. That's a great part of a sex session, looking each other mastebating for the other one. And then continue fu*king and caressing each other or having oral sex. Very erotic. Lol.
0 2 0 0I don't care, he has needs and I may not always b there to handle it
1 0 0 0Masterbation is both healthy and necessary for a man to produce new healthy high quality sperm.
Even chimps at the zoo masterbate. can't unsee.2 1 0 0😂😂😂😂😂
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