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Do you or did you have a rule, about how long you must wait before having sex the first time with your new partner, or do you not care?

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  • the words not caring is a bit out, on our third date my now husband and I had a lovely night out, when I got home I invited him, with kissing and cuddling, before we knew it we were caressing certain places and yes we progressed to making love, and how nice it was is beyond my writing,

Most Helpful Guys

  • I never had a rule. I left it up to her. That being said, I wouldn't wait too long.

    The longest I ever dated someone before having sex was 3 months. That turned out to be a mistake.

    The thing is, I like women who like sex. If they aren't horny enough to want sex after a few dates, once we decide to be exclusive, we don't have compatible attitudes about sex.

    Sex early on is preferable. It shows how into me she is. It makes me think more of her, not less.

  • nope, never had any rules like that or anything... and it really wasn't a thought to me at the time

    my concerns were about something else not the sex, lol... my "first time" first kiss and first girlfriend all happened in the same night, lol (we had been friends for a good time before that though)

Most Helpful Girl

  • No rules I just go after my gut feeling and how comfortable I feel, mostly tho it takes a longer time for me to be comfortable with someone and built a certain amount of trust

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • At least 6 months of dating and have to be in love with them

    • Bt the 2 i actually slept with… i knew one for a 6 months and fell in love with him, then we dated 3 months and sometime after he pressured me into it. We were on an off for another year and a half after that. The other i tried to wait til marriage with. We lasted a year and a half before we gave in to the tease. Then dated 6 more months after

  • sometimes the same day sometimes 6 months

  • I do you not care as long as she is not asexual, and I respect girls that wait until marriage.

  • Usually about 3 dates,

  • Between 1-6 months. If it's earlier than that, I'd feel uncomfortable and have performance anxiety probably. After 6 months and I know she probably doesn't want me the same way I want her so I'd just break up

  • No rules. We read the room. We both were virgins, we both waited until we were ready. And we still together 😁.

  • No rule but the sooner the better

  • I have only one rule. Have sex when you're both willing and desire it. That could be date #1, date #20, or never. I have dated two women though who had a 3-date rule, which worked both ways... no sex before the 3rd date, and if no chemistry by the 3rd date, break up. Both of those ended up going nowhere.

  • It'll be at least a few months, and they'll have passed std screens at a doctor of my choice

  • No, not at all.
    Sometimes it happens on the first date, other times it can take a month or more.
    Just no rhyme or reason for when it happens, it will happen when the time is right and not before.

  • I never really considered it "waiting" I just do it as in I'll let it happen whenever we both find ourselves both wanting to do it I guess.

  • Whenever the girl is ready for it.

  • First date, every time. No point in waiting.

    • Damn, you are my kind of girl.

    • Does no man ever act like a big enough ass to ruin it?

    • Not my type of girl.

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  • Didn't care. I always tried ASAP

  • If there was chemistry right away.

  • My wife and I both decided to wait to have sex on our wedding night. 👍🙂 (we were both virgins)

  • No real rule. Just when if seems like the riggt time to do so

  • If she tries to bed me on the first date I lose her number. After that, no set rule although since I turned 21 I have always waited at least a month.

  • Yes; I have a rule.

    • (No sex before marriage.)

  • I always wait until at least 7 minutes after I meet them

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