Do you prefer a Man or a Woman giving you a Massage?

Don't give me that Happy Ending BS, and use your fantasies to answer the question, but do you prefer a Male or Fale Masseuse?

I prefer it be a guy but not picky, my bestie won't ever let a guy give her a massage
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I have never had a guy give me a massage but I've met lazy women who don't do their job properly cause they want to save energy. They work hard if you are a repeat customer in the same city as them, but if you are on vacation in another country and they know they will never see you again, they slack their work ethic and give a half hearted effort.

  • someone who knows how to break down the tight muscle knots in my upper back and shoulders

Most Helpful Guys

  • As I man I like the soft touch of a female but women lack the strength of a man. Sometimes more force is required. The best massage I ever got was from a gay man. His touch was soft and he had strength but he was drifting elsewhere and it was nit pleasent for a heteo man. In all, depending on what you are looking you can choose.

  • I have no preference. I don't see massages as a sexual thing unless you do it a certain way. Odds are, mainly because I screwed my back up years ago, if I am getting a massage, it's to ease my back pain, and I don't care if it's a man or a woman as long they can help the pain stop.

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  • Woman! I’ll never let a man massage me again! I used to do “spa days” with my mom all the time. Especially on days where I had a first date, or for a prom or something. then after I moved away for college, I scheduled a massage, and heard that it was going to be with “Rene”, so I was fine w/ that. After I undressed, and covered myself w/ the sheet, there was a knock and I said come in. Turns out that “Rene" was a French Canadian guy. I was a bit uncomfortable with the situation, but I figured that he is a medical professional, and that I was being ridiculous!

    This guy really spent way too much time on my upper thighs! (front and back). I also counted at least four times when I felt a pinky “accidentally” touching my vulva! Obviously I’d jump, and I remember saying something like “Woah, WAY too high Rene!” but he did it again and again, and again…. Also, he did this thing where he used both hands on my thigh, pushed my skin towards my buttock, then rolled it inwards, towards the middle, then down, and then repeat that quickly. It felt like he was masturbating me w/out touching me, it made me feel extremely uncomfortable to say the least! bear in mind I was still a minor at this point! So... now it’s women only!

    Great question, Sarah.
    Laura. 🤗 🥰

  • Wait a minute wait a minute if we can't use the happy ending BS then you shouldn't be able to use the happy ending BS either LOL..

    No I prefer a woman's touch over a man's touch any day so I have to go with a woman

  • I prefer it when a guy does it.

  • As long as I feel safe and it's a professional environment, I would say I prefer a man to massage me.

    Usually they have bigger hands, and that feels better when getting a massage.

    But I've also been massaged by a woman and it felt good too.

  • I would have no preference and I love a good massage every once in awhile.

  • I would prefer a girl honestly, I would feel really weird letting a guy give me a massage.

  • If they give a good massage, I don't care who's covering my naked ass with a towel. I'm there to loosen up and feel more relaxed.

  • Doesn’t matter to me.

    • Me neither 😊

    • @abbycado how have you been? I left here for awhile and we were messaging but now I can’t message you anymore for whatever reason. Hope you’re doing well. Great pic.

    • @NewUser22 I’m good, thanks. Welcome back.

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  • What's the point of replying to someone who is absent from their own question?

  • I prefer the person that can give the best massage, I have had from both guys n girls and tbh I don’t care. We have a girl sports therapist at our rugby club, she’s brilliant and for injuries I would always go to her. On the hole I really don’t care.

  • Men, they have stronger hands normally.

  • I'd prefer a man, I guess

  • Female ! The touch of girls hands & fingertips are so much nicer somehow !

  • I always get a male to do it

  • As a woman , I’d prefer a man.

  • I don't get massages, but if I did:
    I don't like being touched by men, not even my MD. If
    I could "order" a masseuse, it would be a middle age East Asian Lesbian with really strong hands for my sports injuries. No shenanigans. Just relief.

  • I only ever have back, shoulder and neck massage and I definitely prefer a female massage therapist. Smaller hands means more precise pressure, nothing more.

  • A man's.

  • Would rather have a girl give me a massage.

  • Woman

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