Guys, Do you prefer a woman that’s naturally submissive or dominant?

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  • I prefer submissive women, I'm the man in the relationship I'd like to keep it that way. My role is to be assertive and in control, to be protector and provider. Her role is to nurture and maintain. So I prefer submissive women, they are far more nurturing and they give a man something to strive for. On his own he doesn't really have much of a reason to do more (men generally don't want as much as women do) but a woman who needs him? Well he has every reason to be the best him he can be and to be that for her.

    If she is dominant all she does is try to be a man but she will neve be able to be a man better then a man can. It simply doesn't work. I mean women are attractive to assertive men but you can't have an assertive man who is in control and an assertive woman who is also in control, one must become subserviant to the other and if its the man that relationship is not going to last (because when put in that situation his natural instinct is to push his way to the top, her is to respect a mans earned authority which in this situation he won't have so both will be miserable).

    • Thank you for this great explanation

    • Your welcome!

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  • Submissive. I love a woman who acts feminine, who will slip her little hand trustingly into mine or wrap her arm through mine and snuggle close as if I make her feel safe and secure. She doesn't mind having doors opened for her or being treated like a lady, as if she is a small, delicate treasure. She seems demure even though she is perfectly capable of taking care of herself.

    At the same time, I don't want someone who is a door mat. I want her to have her own mind and know what she wants and doesn't want. I like her to be bright, playful, adventurous and communicative, not passive.

    When it comes to sex, I don't like a dominatrix. I prefer a woman who loves being thoroughly fucked by a man who is bigger and stronger than herself. But she participates fully. Her body responds spontaneously. She also knows how and when to move her body in order to maximize her own, as well as her partner's pleasure. She is uninhibited and can communicate both in words and actions. She is playful and enthusiastic.

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  • Submisisve. I just feel that submissive women are more attractive. Maybe it’s in my unconcious that i like to be in control and be able to take care of her and such.

  • Submissive with some masochist thrown in.

  • In bed? Naturally submissive, because I’m naturally dominant. But maybe not 100% of the time. She should be confident enough to have her way with me every once in a while. There is pleasure to be had on both sides of the equation, so why limit yourself?

    In life generally? Mutual decisions are usually better. Prefer to be equal partners striving for the same life goals. We can each take the lead in areas where one of us knows better.

  • In general, I prefer a woman who is normal. I don't want to be her slave, but I also don't want her to be looking for a man to tell her what to do. In the bedroom, I prefer her to be submissive, but that's a whole different story

  • I can be mostly dominant, but I want her to take control every so often or occasionally. So a switch would be nice

  • I NEED an EQUAL!! If she wants to play the submissive, feeling that, on a certain day, PERFECT!! If she wants to be the Dominant, and tell me where we are going to eat, and then she has a plan, for after, that is AMAZING TOO!!
    But where can I find one, that actually BELIEVES she is an EQUAL, and wants THAT relationship?

  • naturally submissive, i have been in relationships where personalities colide and if you are both dominant it can get more argumentitive and messy and not in a good way... my relationships seem to work out better when they are submissive, but only during sex... anywhere else i prefer them to be able to be who they want and have a mind of their own

  • Her been dominant is the way i prefer in bed. Then outside of that it should be equal.

  • Submissive

    Because duh

  • Dominant.

    The why is simple- I'm successful, even powerful to a point. I work almost 24/7 and have an incredible amount of responsibility in both my professional and home life. To be able to let go of all of that, and let the woman take control of me allows me to focus on the moment and my only job is to do what I'm told.

    This type of play is the only escape I have from the crushing responsibilities of my life, and at the same time, it's one of the few activities in my life that seems to help recharge my batteries.

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