Do you prefer being Dominant or submissive during sex? Dominant means taking control. Submissive = pleasing your partner and doing what they want?

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Superb Opinion

  • You left out being a switch, where someone is pretty happy in either role and may prefer a different role fairly often. And though it's usually referenced with homosexual male culture, power bottoms absolutely exist and any pairing or grouping. A loooooot of women like to be in control while still being the person being 'fucked'. Not every woman is a fan of going full amazon position haha.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I've always had sex where both partners were taking turns giving oral, pleasing each other, communicating which positions next etc.
    I don't really go for the Dom/Sub one way or the other concept.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I strongly prefer submissive. The feeling of my strong boyfriend controlling my body with so much desire is just so incredibly sexy. There's also something hot about a strong sexy man lusting after you and controlling you sexually.

  • I'm definitely the submissive one in our relationship. But Hubby really only pushes me out of my comfort zone a little bit at times.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I don’t know, as I haven’t told him he can tell me ….

  • But not jus during sex. My bf’s is in charge of my daily life. I’m better 4it.

  • Never had sex, but in theory, I prefer being submissive for the most part.

  • Both? Some partners prefer that I take control so they can stop thinking about what to do. I'm still trying to give them pleasure. But I could go the other way if she were into it.

  • either or, switching rolls can add variety to play time.

  • I want slave of my dick on bed...

  • Totally a sub!

  • Dominant in control my girl likes to be spanked

  • Love being super submissive to my wife

  • Yeah I love being submissive while she takes control telling me what to do to get want she wants or take what she wants.

  • Not really either. I mean I am usually penetrating her (on top or behind), but I don't dominate her sexually

  • Dominant. Since im not a fag ofc.

  • Can be both

  • The "switch" option is missing. :)

  • Submissive

  • I'm always dominate. Been that way since I was 15yo, it habit now.

  • I'm switch I enjoy both. If she likes being dominated then I will have my way with her. If she wants to be dominant then I am fine with submitting to her.

  • Submissive

  • I am short submissive male

  • I like him on top while im touching myself

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