Guys, do you prefer blowjobs over sex?

Question

I know several guys who seem to enjoy getting head than the actual sex itself. There was this one guy who went on and on about missing my blowjobs that I was a little offended like am I not good enough to fuck?

Do you think this is lazy/selfish behavior on their part? Or just a matter of preference?

elbicho · Accepted Answer

Go for the gold. I'm like Winnie the Pooh, I want the honey pot. Blowjobs are cool but God Bless you for giving up the real goodies. I get off better when my girl is getting off. Seeing the enjoyment that I'm giving her makes me want to do it till she's did. Knowing that I'm taking care of business makes me feel like a man. Knowing that I can bring her sexual joy is a turn on. Same as when she pleasures me. She's got to be stoked that she can make me lose my mind, just as I am when I can do that for her.
Plus girls don't usually brag to their friends about the blow jobs they've given. They do talk about sex & if & how good they got off. You do that right to your girl, she tells her friends about the great sex she's gotten, her friends wheels start spinning & that can lead to sweet, sweet referral sex. Those are gifts from God.

eruru · Accepted Answer

sex is always better... its not that you're not good enough to fuck but simply cz its easier to get the bj as compared to the sex... some people have the notion that if there's no penis n vagina involved then they haven't had sex... so they see oral sex as an easy n quick fix.

which might probably leads to the sex, so they are hopeful.

personally though sex is way better, don't mind blowjobs too.

Alwaysanswers · Answer

Blowjobs can be amazing, especially if the girl has a good technique, but nothing beats feeling a girls pussy wrapped around your shaft!!!

TheGreatGrantsby · Answer

Personally, I prefer sex, although oral sex does feel great, I've personally never orgasmed from it, so prefer sex. Plus, mutual pleasure is a big turn on, and it feels a lot more intimate.

SpurtLover · Answer

Maybe it is selfish, but if you are asking for honest opinions, then I admit I would rather have a woman suck my penis and make me cum in her mouth. To me that is heaven. If I had to have one or the other, I would choose her mouth.

Dargil · Answer

Which do I prefer? Prime rib or sautéed lobster tails. Both equally good. Depends what im hungry for. No, really. Sex is interactive. Like dancing. A BJ is sexual therapy. I need both.

03FreeBird14 · Answer

I need it all one or the other doesn't do anything for me

FatherJack · Answer

Never liked BJ's when I was sexually active , vagina only !!

dolemite68 · Answer

blowjobs are my favorite because i cum the hardest from them but i like sex almost as much. I wouldn't say i'm lazy its just nice to have something for me

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

OF COURSE I PREFER SEX!

Decentguy · Answer

i prefer sex

TheWombRaider · Answer

I gonna tell u the damn truth... Yes!!! I do more work when Im having sex 99 percent of the time and when im getting head I get to relax.

philipxxxx · Answer

Sex is sex. it can' t be compared with anything else. Penis needs vagina , not tongue and teeth

TotallyAlmost · Answer

Blow jobs are great as foreplay. For me, that's it. Barely any of my penis gets stimulation, so it's almost impossible to cum.

Blitzkrieger · Answer

Its a case if receiving vs giving. If you get a blowjob you are probably receiving because girls like to be in control of your orgasm during a blowjob, if you are fucking its most likely going to be the man being in control. We like to be on the receiving end too sometimes, a blowjob is the typical situation for us to be on the receiving end.