Guys, do you prefer experienced or virgin girls, and does it matter?

I'm a 22 years old female and a virgin. I was bullied by a friend for being inexperienced, and it made me feel really insecure. It's not easy for me to lose my virginity because I'm antisocial. I want it to happen out of love, not just for the sake of the experience. But I'm scared guys will find me less attractive for being a virgin. Does it matter to you if your girlfriend is experienced or not?

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  • From someone who lost their virginity later then you age wise all i can say is that it doesn't matter, i waited until i find someone i cared about enough to be with them, it wasn't grand love or anything like that but there was feelings for each others, she was experience and i was a virgin, she didn't mind at all, and neither do i, you should stop belittling yourself and love your self for it, i know its uncomfortable to be virgin at your age or older while everyone else is doing it but so what, i was proud that i was a virgin, i'm not with that girl anymore but i definitely don't regret choosing her as my 1st. Did have casual stuff later on but i strongly believe that i did the right thing and waited for someone dear to me to be with me. Just ignore your friend and tell them to shut up, If they are really your friends than they would never make fun of that or treat you disrespectfully like that. Tell them that if they want to stay in your life then better start acting like a real friend would do. If they don't then move on cuz in my book its a win-win, you either stay friends with someone dear to you and you had the courage the tell them how you feel and how you deserve to be treated (real friend would respect you for that) or you lose a toxic person and have less toxic life cuz of that. win-win so definitely wait for someone you at least like a lot, doesn't have to be love but you both should have some feeling for each other, as time passes by you won't regret it, better than you do it with some random or someone who isn't special to you and regret it for the rest of our life

  • I prefer a virgin, I don't want a ho, I don't want someone experienced with other men's cocks.

    https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

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  • I prefer experienced but I wouldn't reject an inexperienced girl as long as we liked each other. The only drawback would be the fear that she would automatically expect me to marry her just because I was her first.

    I don't think virginity is special. But everyone was a virgin at one time.

  • No, it doesn't matter.

  • that's not a friend. a friend doesn't bully another friend

    as far as guys finding you less attractive, no only horny fuckboys who only want sex will avoid you because they only have one thing on their mind

  • To be fair, you need to work on a lot of things first, and sex is not among them.

    Guys want girls, not mental health projects.

    Get yourself into a good place mentally first, then look for a relationship. As for your "friend" if you want to ditch her, then hit her back with being the "campus hoe" and your pussy is not for rent, like hers.

    If she's a good egg, then tell her she needs to be supporting your mental state, not being your pimp.

  • Imagine a guy who prefers virgin only girls. That is probably already something going wrong with him, right? Creepy, isn't it?

    • Gotta love those double standards lol

  • I would happily work with either. But before we do the deed, please tell me that you are a virgin so I can adjust my approach.

  • Always someone who has experience.
    Everyone has to learn when they start, hopefully they have a good caring partner as a teacher.

  • At my age, prefer experienced. However with that said if I’m really into someone and she happens to be a virgin, I can respect that and would be slow and easy with her and time our time. When she’s ready I would be totally sweet to her and be easy and teach her and take our times.

  • Men 100% prefer virgins and anyone who would bully you for it is a toxic bitch who you need to remove from your life immediately. I seriously wonder how women don't know this.

  • It doesn't matter to me at all.

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