Guys, Do you prefer for someone to be clear in their intentions to sleep with you, or you prefer a more subtle flirting?

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  • I like clear intentions. As I do have ED (Neurological issues), and usually need to pop medication before hand, and if someone's wishy washy with their intentions, I can't prepare and it's not much fun for either party. My wife has learned to prepare me earlier in the day by reminding me. I mean now it's more hints with her since we need to fly under the radar of the children, but it's things that we both understand.

  • Well I don't mind it being subtle at first but as long as they are clear afterwards as if they are subtle then it can be a guessing game where you have to follow the hints which I find tiresome but there could be small build up to the intention however as long as it doesn't last too long.

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  • Why not both?

  • Why copying my questions?

  • Clear is preferred

  • A little subtlety makes it more fun

  • Clear? I don't know...

  • ideally straightforward at least the first few times. we engage in sexual interaction together. after that once we have gone a few rounds together. I am ok with her being a bit more flirty or reserved.

  • A smart guy can tell either way. You'll get there.

  • Why do people say "sleep with" to mean sex?

    Anyway, since it's girls we're talking about here, I prefer some subtlety. I mean I want to know what she's thinking but there is such a thing as being too forward.

  • Clear or not so subtle clear. I don't pick up on subtle at all.

  • I preffered to know their intentions. I mean if I make mine clear I'd expect the same in return.

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