In media we are thought that tight is better.. but I dont think thats always true.. I struggle with being really tight to the point its off putting for both me and the other person.. So I wonder what most women have and what men prefer. And pleace feel free to say if you have had a lot of sexual experiences or not. :)
I prefer wet warm tight vaginas.
But as a gal pal said to me 'Its not a perfect world. If we are are not so turned on we are tight and its good for the guy. If we are really turned on we are looser and it is good for us but not so good for the guy'. Another girl boasted to me that her boyfriend got her so aroused she wouldn't have be able to keep a tampon in.
I've been with girls became much looser than normal when really aroused and it became hard to get much friction. But it's a compliment I think that you got her so aroused she became quite loose.
There are techniques to deal with that looseness.
Are you getting thoroughly aroused? When I was younger I just wanted to get in ASAP and as soon as the girl had a wet I was penetrating. Is your partner just being too quick for you? Have you tried lubing up?
Thankyou for sharing! I'm allergic to lube but I haven't tried coconut oil.. Will do that with my next partner. And yeah my ex was too quick for me but he still took his time.
I mean he would eat me for like 5 minutes and then try to hurry lol but he was careful.
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I took liberty to look at some of your replies it seems you are talking more on the extreme end of tight maybe even trauma causing it that way? Which yes that would be turn off.
The guy of course wants it to go in easy but be tight as the same time. That's what we want. So just normally tight. Because what you are talking about is practically and that always wins when it comes to in that moment doing it. And in many cases looser will be better for the guy if it gets him quicker to the action.
I see the logic in your question. And other guys may not realise this logic while making their opinion but we know they feel the same way really.
Thankyou! Thats what I thought. Because in media its all about being super tight but most men prefer avarage tight (it seams like)
Huh? …? I promise you no dick wants a poontang with too many miles on it, causing it to be so cavernous that you could drive a truck through.
What? I think you answered the wrong question lol.. thats not what I asked
Let me rephrase that then: Tighter, …. duh!
I've heard some prefer looser. And some have really tight with experince. But good for you that you have what you want!:) Thanks for sharing!
Somewhere between tight and looser :P
Then normal?😊 thats perfect!! I wish I had that!!
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I'm on the bigger side, so I've never enountered what I would consider a "loose" vagina. They are all pretty tight, regardless, but too tight can be a struggle for both me, and my partner.
With enough preparation, and taking our time, it can still work, but if it lasts for any length of time, the girl will start to get sore pretty quickly.
Yeah thats true. So you'd prefer a normal/looser vagina?
Yeah, I would say so. It's just more comfortable for both of us.
Thats cool! Pleace vote in the poll
The vagina is muscle. It can be loose enough to pass a baby through, but it can be tightened by exercising it (kegels). And it feels better for the guy to be tight, and the gal can give that feeling by tightening it while having sex.
Yes thats true. So you prefer tight? Could she be too tight to the point you won't like it?
Never run into that! Like I said, it can pass a bay through, so to be that tight she would have to be squeezing it (unless she is still a virgin).
Alright I see. Thanks for sharing
I have been lucky enough o have had sex with 30 to 35 wonderful girls (yes I used a condom every time) some were tighter and some were a little looser... but they all felt great and gave me tons of great orgasms!
Thats great to hear!:) so all of them are good!
Of course they all are good. They all feel great and have given me thousands of great orgasms every time!
😊👍🏻
If a girl is extremely tight it means she isn't turned on yet and needs more foreplay
Yeah it usually is that. Sometimes endrometriouses, vaginamus and some other disorder that causes heavy bleeding during periods can cause it to be too tight too but I dont remember the name of it. Anyways I guess most of those could be solved with better/longer foreplay like you said.:)
I'd prefer it on the tighter side because it makes me feel like my dick is bigger
Make sense!
I have had both, and as long as I have a very hard penis, I prefer tight, the tighter the better.
Okay but there's a limit to it? Like you dont want her to be in pain?
Of course not, my current girlfriend was as tight as my middle finger, and when I told her that my penis was very thick, she said "Well, it will stretch, I've had two boys, remember" As luck would have it, I was so nervous, with her being that tight, I could not get a hard on, and was REALLY FRUSTRATED, I went down on her instead.
Alright I see! So she is that tight even tho she has given birth?
If she's tight she won't cheat as it takes a lot of time for her to do it.
True! Then she would problaby not be able to cause it would be too painful and she wouldn't be comfortble enough to relax enough
I'm extremely tight but it doesn't hurt.
Then its problaby normal/tight. Extremmy tight is like you can't fit a penis in even if you've tried for 5 h.
*extremely tight (Extremely tight is usually caused by trauma or disorder. Most men find it unattractive)
I don't know! I don't think I've ever had a tight one!
Alright well I guess the future will tell
Whose? The way it's looking, I'll be lucky if I EVER get another USED one!! I don't think any virgins will ever wanna fuck me. I seriously doubt anyone else will!
They dont need to be virgins to be that tight. Usually vaginamus could cause it too. But I'm sure you'll find her:)
all other things being equal, tightness means more sensation. Not so tight that its uncomfortable but close as poassible. One reason that I enjoy anal sex is because your asshole is ao much tighter and feeling your sphinxtr milk my cock os a huge turn on. You don't get a loose pussy from fucking too much. The rare cases I've seen them have been with women who have given birth to a couple of children. That amount of distension can't happen during sex. How wide (girth) is his cock? Does it make you uncomfortablw when he's in you? If ao find alternate ways to dum, there are plenty and ask your ob-ym when yoou see her next. The only way to give you a completely accurate assessment would be for my cock to be in you. If you'dlike to try this I can do so w/o violaing hippocratic oath
Tighter? Looser?
How about ANY?
Same here!! They're ALL spoken for!
Generally the tighter the better (but that's what anal is for), but I also understand that it causes pain for the woman. My wife can only have once every other day or so before getting sore because of this.
Yeah! I guess there's a limit to it. You think too tight is bad then but normal tight is good?
Hard to say. Even the tightest girl I've been with felt really good and she was TINY (and I know that doesn't necessarily mean she's tight but I had a lot of trouble getting it in). For me? It's good. For her? Eh... if they like pain, sure.
Alright.. okay. then I guess if you like seeing them in pain its good:)
People were created with different sizes (both male and female) because we were designed to be monogamous. One woman with one man. You have to find the person that fits you. If you have a "tight" vagina, geta dude with a smaller penis. If you have a "loose" vagina, get a dude with a bigger penis. Common sense, folks.
Yeah I guess it is about genetics then. But nature says men should sleep around but for the female side you are correct:)
Thank you. But No, nature doesn't say men should sleep around. That's an excuse that cheaters use for their bad behavior.
But didn't men inpregnent a lot of women before marrige existed?
Sometimes it really depends also how wet she is which makes it easier to slide in and not hurt her. I have above average size and I had some girls who was really tight and is hurt her and a little to tight on be. I also had a girl who was too tight I couldn't even go inside her. I also have some loose girls or not as tight and I do admit it was a little easier to slide in but sometimes I wanted to feel the tightness or pressure to make it better.
Alright I see. So normal-looser is problaby a better fit for you?
Yeah I guess so but it nice to have tight one once and awhile. I might have to go tight to normal is my liking but with my size maybe normal to loose might be normal might be tight to me while loose is normal.
Yeah that make sense
Guys told me I am tight and like it but I don't know overall
Cool:)
If they so, its probably so.
I went form my longest ex who was tight as hell forever to a lose girl. Tight it nice but sometimes work. When I started seeing a lose girl, i was like, this is pretty nice. I like switching it up. Both are good to me. But I feel that lose girls are under rated. Just getting in there and going quick feels pretty good.
Yeah it seams like they really are underrated! Great that you like both
Yeah, I mean. My longest ex was so tight all the time. It’s like what everyone says they want. But like, I’d give her head to get it wet, which I loved. And then I’d press my dick into her hole until it opens up. Which was pretty awesome. I’d feel it eventually relax and it would go in. But the lost girl I kinda see now. It just goes right in and it just feels pretty good. Like wet.
Yeah! No need to do the extra work. Thats nice!
Loose just looks weird.
I mean vagina (inside the body)
Vagina as in the part of the female body that grows no hair, or the part that does grow hair and is really called vulva, or informally/vulgarly pussy/cunt/twat?
I mean the pussy. (Inside) not where hair grows:)
I like it as tight as it can be because that just feels way better. And I like it when it hurts the girl because a) sex is better when it does and b) it makes me feel like I got a big cock
So you want her to be in pain?
Not like a huge amount. But yeah, a little.
Okay..🤔😶:)
I voted for really tight I love tight it's the best, but I like a normal tight too with those you can have a great sex.
Cool
Ghee let me think. Would you rather have a tight or loose pussy?
I'm asking you not the other way around.. but men with bigger penises tend to prefer normal-a bit looser and men with avarage/smaller tend to prefer tighter according to the comments and what people have said:) But ofcorse its different for everyone.
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