Do you prefer to have a fuck buddy or one night stands?

Question

I used to be a fan of just having one or two fuck buddies instead of having many changing partners but nowadays I prefer having a one night stand. There's just something special about the first time having sex with someone, you never really know where it goes and finding out what someone likes is a lot of fun.

Getting to know someone really well and trying new things together is great too but I prefer to leave that for when I'm in a relationship with someone I care about

JamesMI616 · Accepted Answer

Both have pros and cons. A one night stand can be mind blowing or awkward. Depends where you meet too. I've been both impressed and disappointed with my performance during a one nighter. Plus I'm an overthinker and I always wonder why they don't come back for seconds, especially when I know it was hot AF. A fuck buddy sounds great in theory but in practice it's not the simple arrangement it's advertised to be. Usually someone isn't being honest with themselves and one person catching feelings is a setup for failure

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

I can confidently say the vast majority of people would prefer a fuck buddy they can always have on speed dial. As opposed to going out hoping or looking for a one-night stand that could end up being deadly or contagious.

Angxl3120 · Accepted Answer

Having one or two guys to go on with is much better as I know them and they do take care of their personal hygiene which I like about them.

I tried one nightstands but it didn't work for me personally because im more into hygiene and stuffs.

And there are many concerns about stds too

PositiveFlight · Answer

Neither! Didn’t vote

RobT312 · Answer

When I was single I enjoyed a FB over a ONS

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm not in the running for either one... I have an SO and am happy with that.

If I was in the running, I'd want a fuck buddy. Why? ... it's too hard to find someone new all the time, easier to just call up the same person and meet them.

Dargil · Answer

A friend with benefits. It's not a side chick. She's exclusive. I just couldn't manage a dating relationship.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Fuck buddy, assuming that the person doesn't "protect" themselves from catching feelings by treating me like a turd salad.

CoolCatMar1 · Answer

I prefer to have a normal relationship

kellytheman · Answer

Well with a fuck buddy ir friends with benefits I call it you both you know what you like and you always kinda have a sure thing your gonna get laid. One night stands are okay to but sometimes the sex is always not that great especially if the girl is drunk and can’t move it the guy is to drunk and can’t get it up and if he can he might cum to fast or it just be bad and sloppy.

LavLavLuv · Answer

Fuck buddy

swettannie · Answer

why not both?

shades777 · Answer

a fuck buddy is convienent

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

I would prefer a Fuck Buddy because you get to know what they like and dislike.

Jerre · Answer

I prefer fuck buddies or as I call them friends with benefits. I GET TO KNOW WHAT THEY LIKE,, what makes them cum the hardest, and I can trust them.

Mcluven08 · Answer

Fuck buddy. I do like the idea of having comfert in trusting someone.

Guido · Answer

I am into neither but I don't judge others preferences for what they want. Everybody marches to the beat of their own drummer. Just be safe with whatever your choices are.