Do you prefer to take the lead during sex?

Question

Do you prefer to take the lead or have the other person take the lead during sex? Why?

ohshee · Accepted Answer

For yes. As an Empath I ha gotten the chance to feel a lot of negative emotions and energy. And it's the same time I have been filled the most beautiful feelings ever that I've ever felt in this world. There is an energy that we all have within us.
The next time that you make love pay attention to one minute before you going to come becoming moment where are you both just looking at each other you will know what each other's thinking you know what each other is going to do without saying one word one minute before you going to come you actually connect Energies and it is at most beautiful feeling in the world and then you come. Or that one minute before your partner is going to come you will feel that feeling coming from them and that's when that will turn you on even more the only sad part is like I said pay attention because everybody seems to wait until that one minute before they come why not fill that out the hole making love moment. If you understand how to use energy who started foreplay until the very end you can feel this and you can give this feeling. I like to make it all about her so I'm going to give her that feeling from start to finish and I can only do that by controlling the situation and making it all about her it is a beautiful total workout and it is well worth it when you can make your partner experience something she is never ever experienced before it's one of the best feelings ever added to the feelings of energy
So if you want to please your partner either do research on Body Energy pay attention to the next time you have sex and what happens to minute or two minutes before you're going to come are you Partners going to come learn everything you possibly can on what happens in that 1 to 2 minutes. It will change the way you have sex it will change your life you will change how you see things

PenkWing · Accepted Answer

I prefer to take the lead. I have domination fantasies and I play a dominant role in BDSM contexts, so that’s what turns me on. I didn’t realize what these fantasies were about the first few years I was sexually active, because I didn’t know anything about BDSM; but I was still positively leading, because that’s what felt natural. I would feel completely out of place in a following position.

MissStrawberry912 · Accepted Answer

Have him take the lead because I love being dominant over

MrOracle · Answer

I'm a Dominant, so, yes, I definitely take the lead during sex - and pretty much every other time.

MrKinktastic · Answer

I almost always take the lead

DonkeyDan · Answer

80% of the time I'll lead.

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

"another girl. Another question on sex" Cunt don't you have life beyond sex?  The girl who talk more about sex in Social media are the one who get very less sex in real life.

Roah_Boat · Answer

Nope. I'd rather be submissive.

KatherineJ · Answer

I am more comfortable letting him lead.

Slayerrrrrrr · Answer

Hell yea, if zaddy bends ya over you're gonna like it 😁

Stevefiveo · Answer

I usually take the lead when he comes to sex because I'm the guy. I do try to get feedback from the girl and see if she is liking it then I will do it some more. After a while, I usually ask her what her favorite position. Or maybe a question or two more. Just depends on the chemistry that we have.