Do you prefer Vanilla Sex or Kinky BDSM Sex?

Do you prefer Vanilla Sex or Kinky BDSM Sex?
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A lot of you are saying you'd prefer something besides reggae or bdsm, and that their are more options. What would you consider if open for discussion.
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  • I definitely prefer sprinkles and toppings and a premium waffle cone - no plain vanilla for me.

    Do you prefer Vanilla Sex or Kinky BDSM Sex?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Let's say I like the swirl flavour. The one with chocolate and vanilla mixed in.

    The kinkier stuff is more for when you don't have very deep feelings for the person but you are really comfortable with them. You trust them because the purpose is to satisfy the kink.

    In a romantic relationship where there are real feelings, vanilla sex is so sweet and nice.

    It's more about merging as a couple. But if you are in a committed relationship, for sure exploration needs to happen in order to keep the new interest in sex alive.

    • Re Update: Reggae sex! How is that? Rhythmic I would imagine.

  • I'm very kinky.

    I cannot with vanilla. It's not that it isn't nice occasionally or when I'm feeling overstimulated, but it's not as fun for me or as satisfying or relieving as BDSM and kink play.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I’m old fashioned with good ole romantic missionary vaginal intercourse. Time tested and perfect. Aka “vanilla.” But truthfully there is absolutely nothing vanilla about being deep inside the woman I adore, making sweet romantic love to her, connecting with her soul, giving her my body and my substance, and hearing her cry out my name in pleasure as she climaxes and comes back from heaven with a smile of being loved and cared for on her face. Nothing more beautiful in this universe.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I hate it when doctors hurt me during vaccine injections and I would hate it just as much if a guy hurt me during sex.

  • Given those two choices, vanilla. I find BDSM to be incredibly boring.

  • Everything has a time and place, but my preference would be bdsm/kinky sex.

  • i'm good with vanilla-ish

  • The same way I like my milkshakes as Vanilla Milkshakes. And separately, as I'm a pale white guy, I like my women. 🥛🥛👀👀😋😋 emoji's tell it all. And peace vibes groovy times ☮️☮️✌🏻✌🏻

    • And yes, milkshakes has two meanings. 👀👀🥛🥛😋😋☮️☮️✌🏻✌🏻 as you can see, two's, some may say, twins

  • Vanilla is fine but gets boring in the long run. Prefer to spice it up in some way

  • I went with vanilla. I guess I am boring.

  • I prefer bdsm because I like it rough

  • I Think at BDSM u either need to be good at it or it will suck. Some people r good at it and its cool. But if u suck its just cringy

  • I do prefer rough sex, but bdsm is non-sexual for me, lol.

  • All of it!

  • Kink

  • Kinky, but not BDSM kinky

  • I'm not a kinky person.

  • I like some kinkiness

  • isn't that obvious?

  • It depends on my mood.

  • rough and kinky but not bdsm

  • Both

  • Kinky adds flavor and spice

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