Girls, do you really enjoy one night stands?

[jekprotecc]

I am in a relationship rn but before that I would look for one night stands. Went to the clubs and looked to pick up a girl for sex and nothing else/no strings attached. Its fun sometimes to just get off with someone and be able to say good bye in the morning. Better yet if she leaves before morning so there is no awkwardness. I have been told by a friend that most women dont really enjoy this kind of thing. I disagree so I want to know: how many of you would be happy with just getting boned and getting off, then leaving and knowing I won't be calling you or wanting to date? If not, why not... it's fun!

[Anonymous]

I've done a ton of one night stands, but it's really too much work for what it's worth.
That's why I like to just keep a stable full of fuck buddies. These are guys I know and trust and that can deliver the goods. I understand that they aren't all available at my beckon call, because they're fucking other girls. But I just go down my list and text them when I'm horny, and I almost always hit pay dirt.

[jekprotecc]

awesome!

[morimeme1]

Never done it but I imagine I would feel dirty and cheap, apart from the likely disappointment cause well, even in relationships first sex is usually not too good and it takes time to get to know each others bodies. I have many friends who have done it occasionally and I don't judge anyone, it's just not for me.

[jekprotecc]

really?

[devilish-cutie]

I have too high standards for it, and for sex to be good i gotta be comfortable with the person. Im not really comfortable with someone I just met

[jekprotecc]

even after sharing a long evening of dancing and fun at a club? maybe grabbing a bite to eat on the way to my place or whatever?

[devilish-cutie]

yeah sounds ok in theory, never happened tho

[jekprotecc]

It can work but yea its uncommon I guess. More common is awkward sex then waking up and wondering who the person in the bed with you is.

[SimpleRhubarb]

I don’t. They make me feel bad about myself, and I prefer to feel loved.

[jekprotecc]

well... I mean... I always think the girl I am with feels loved in the moment... while we are doing it. at least I sure hope she does

[courtney06]

I don’t like the aftermath which makes me feel very paranoid and insecure so I just don’t do them anymore.

[jekprotecc]

ok fair enough. I dont really understand why youd feel that way tho, can you explain a bit?

[courtney06]

I worry they’re messing around with other girls and I worry I may have caught something even if we use protection. I get jealous even though I hide it. I tend to get emotionally attached so it’s better I don’t bother.

[jekprotecc]

ok.. thanks... its trucky when feelings develop, I have had some awkward morning afters with girls b/c of that

[purplepoppy]

Yes I do. It's a good way to round off a night out.

[jekprotecc]

I agree 100%!

[Moonchild714]

I use to enjoy ONS. Married now so ONS are a timg of the past... And I'm happy to give them up for what I have now!!!

[jekprotecc]

congrats! I am hoping to get married one day. Until then I will keep looking. ONS are part of the experience I guess

[erandal]

During my late 20's I would look for this roughly once a month. Don't regret it at all.

[jekprotecc]

awesome! Its so easy for women to do, harder for us guys

[mrfoox]

Haven't tried it, and I don't think I want to. I'd be too worried about: the guy being scum, catching some STDs or/and them not even bothered to make the experience good for me too 🤷‍♂️
I got nothing against people who enjoy it, just personally I think it wouldn't be my thing

[jekprotecc]

you got to pick the right guy thats true. avoid scum thats my advice lol

[leafygreen]

I’d love to experience a ONS at some point in my life

[jekprotecc]

they can be a lot of fun. sex with no strings

[jekprotecc]

Now that you are over 40 your sex drive is going to go up like a rocket!! lol

[leafygreen]

Haha it shot up when I turned 30!

[jekprotecc]

awesome. women over 30 are so much more mature and stable. Same with us guys I guess. I enjoy dating women my own age and not 20somethings who are all over the place. A higher sex drive is just the icing on the cake

[mixedforever29]

nope. i too much of an emotional , passionate , sensual lover. i don’t do temporary anything. i’m here for a long time not a good time. 😂 but maybe both every now and then

[jekprotecc]

ONS has its upsides...

[BlondeGoneWild]

I really really do

[jekprotecc]

thats what I like to hear!