Guys, do you really think girls must use penetration to masturbate?

Also does the idea of somewhat close females like coworkers or neighbors masturbating weirds you out or do you just never think about it but assume that they all do?
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  • Its incredibly erotic to find out someone in your social world masturbates. I typically dont have sexual thoughts about most people, even if i may check them out or find them attractive. But the girls I've been close to platonically, then had conversations with of a sexual nature, I've always been incredibly turned on when the idea then the convo went to masturbation. The fact any lady does it is really sexy, and I've been lucky to masturbate with a few lady friends to things we both found hot, no different than what many guys do with other guys, watch porn and get off together, whether they do anything or not is not the point here. But i dont think most women need penetration to reach climax, as I've read articles on both bullshit polls as well as clinical studies taken about the subject. The vast majourity of ladies preferred or required clitoral stimulation, not penetration, but something like 10 to 15 % i think said needed to be fucked or use a toy or their fingers internally to get off. Guys have no clue that solely because it feels good to them, that it isn't necessarily good for the ladies, and most often not like it is for the guy. But you ladies need to assert yourselves and make it known, not because guys are too dull to understand and too self centered, but for your sakes. Pleasure isn't shameful. And your desires and wants and needs are not slutty or whorish or whatever, they are simply that in which they are. Women are the most beautiful of all creatures, femininity is sacred*HISTORICALLY, CULTURALLY, SOCIETALLY*, and any guy threatned by that is speaking his own insecurities, and is a little boy, not to be taken seriously, but pittied, and god willing educated and enlightened. He obviously has mommy issues, which is a social epidemic, and needs to be treated with a return to community and the end of the hegemony of the age.

    But yes, i wish i was both woman me and current me, being a girl and feminine and enjoying it how modern western girls do, not as a perv or insensitive jerk wishes he could be the hottest girl in his class kinda experience, although i certainly would explore my body like they would, but also i see girls as they really are, mothers just as the earth is, nurturers, wise, the true master race of humanity is the indigenous tribal woman, a matriarch, not a slave or property or dehumanized

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  • My experience, based on watching girlfriend's masturbate, says that penetration is not at all necessary for them to masturbate and orgasm. One girlfriend, when I was 25, used her right middle finger to rub her clitoris, and sometimes placed her left fingertips (tips only) just at the opening of her vagina (reaching under her left leg to do it) Sometimes, she would use her left hand to roll her nipples.

    Bottom line to all this is how 'idiot porn' shows women using dildoes etc., screaming like crazy, just pisses me off with the fakery of it.

    Second part, having been with many women, and had many intimate conversations with others, my sense tells me that most women/girls, do masturbate, but just are openly talking about it.

    EXAMPLE: In college, after a particularly hot conversation with a classmate, in her parents apartment, we discussed mutual masturbation with our 'partners' (she brought up the subject, it got hot, and her mother was dur home from work, she rushed me out. I asked her when she was going to masturbate again? She said, "Probably as soon as you leave". AFTER ALL THIS? I think most of us do 'jerk off'/ 'rub one out" more than is talked about

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  • I simply assume everyone masturbates and that means every person I know.

    no girls do not all use penetration for masturbation.

    Do you always need to? ..

    • I actually never used penetration and I feel like most girls my age probably don't as it's best with a dildo but owning a sextoy in a family home is a hassle. I asked this question because I feel like some guys still don't understand that stimulating the vulva is what really makes us come harder than with penetration alone. When we try to please ourselves that really is what we focus on more coz that's what really feels good and guys should learn that to please their girl correctly.

    • Agreed, however girls should also tell guys what to do and teach them. Pillows were invented so you can hide sex toys in plain sight 😂😂

  • No. Obviously penetration is not needed to masturbate and not needed to achieve orgasm. And I never think about whether females I know masturbate. I figure most of them do, and that does not weird be out at all.

  • It does not weird me out at all. I think it is hot whether a girl uses penetration or just clit stimulation to have a great orgasm.

  • In my experience, most don't, or at least not exclusively. No, it doesn't weird me out, I assume most people do.

  • At least some girls don't have to penetrate in order to come to orgasm. On rare occasions I have thought about female coworkers or neighbors masturbating. It doesn't weird me out, as it's normal sexual behavior, just as if I sometimes have thought about them having sex. I do assume that most women have masturbated at least some, but I don't assume that all have.

  • Absolutely NOT the clit and lips are the most sensitive! When we are being formed the clit becomes the penis.

  • "Guys, do you really think girls must use penetration to masturbate?" Nope. Stimulation at the clitoris can be very effective. "Also does the idea of somewhat close females like coworkers or neighbors masturbating weirds you out or do you just never think about it but assume that they all do?" I never think about it.

  • No, I don't! It may help, but I doubt it's mandatory.

  • Many just focus on their button.
    Penetration is a different type of orgasm.

  • Nope. To each their own. Men and women like to explore different alternatives. I never really had the hankering to jerk some guy off, even as a youth. It just never even occurred to me. I wonder what I may have missed, besides a handful of cum.

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