👩‍🦰Do you see why men want virgin/low body count girls?

Men are naturally attracted to innocence and purity in women. If she’s slept around more she’s obviously less marriageable.
Why should I pick up the pieces?

How is it men are insecure for not settling for promiscuous women? How is this a surprise?

Why are women never accountable for their mistakes?

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  • Wait, what mistakes? How does being a virgin and having accountability have to do with each other. Also, what do you mean "pick up the pieces"? What pieces and why? I don't understand this question at all. Perhaps use the update box and update the question with some relevant info you want us to answer.

    Being a virgin has absolutely nothing to do with most of the things you mention in the detail section. Why is she less marriage material if she has been with someone else sexually? You realise that makes no sense.

    Girls (AND GUYS) have sex before marriage. Does that mean the guys are a wreck and not worth marrying? Or... are you applying the flawed logic to just one gender? How would you even know if she was a virgin unless she told you? You realise she could lie about that and you would never know, right?

    I think you need to reevaluate what qualifies as marriage material instead of placing it on all one thing that is inconsequential in the scheme of what makes someone who they are.

    • Just to play devil's advocate here, I understand what he's trying to say but he's not explained it very well. Typically the more sexual partners a girl has, the more emotional baggage there is. These are the "pieces" he's referring to. There's also a higher risk that she will be unfaithful, that's undesirable. The difference being that men can't get pregnant, meaning she may have a child or she's had an abortion before, both undesirable and goes back to that emotional baggage. Not to mention the health risks of being promiscuous in general. I don't think he's suggesting this is the sole thing that determines their marriage eligibility, but it's a part of it. And yes you may not be aware of her body count, but it doesn't change the fact that it matters.

    • "Typically the more sexual partners a girl has, the more emotional baggage there is." Let's see the scientific proof of that from an accredited study that girls that have been intimate with more people have mental health issues.

    • God you women have lost touch with reality. Ever since the rise of promiscuous women marriages have declined. How do you women need evidence to your own wrong doings. Women don’t understand anything. It should be obvious a virgin girl waiting for marriage will have a higher success rate at a long term relationship rather than women that switch dicks and ride the dick carousel

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  • Women do get consequences for it but not verbally. They won't get wifed up. Those type of women either settle for men in their mid-late 30's that are around the same height as them and make the same amount of money or they become sidehoes. (Usually speaking). They don't need to understand it. Its not anyones job to tell them but their parents. The world will show them. Dont waste your valuble energy on it.

    • What does height have to do with it?

    • @pethouse because women ideally will search for men taller and bigger than them to protect them. Its human nature

    • So your trying to say that girls who date guys the same height as them used to be hoes?

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  • I've never been worried at all about "body count". Sure, in the days before dna tests and birth control, maybe men were nervous about raising another man's child - but that thinking is totally obsolete today.

    I wonder if some men who are about this are worried about being compared to other men and that they may look bad in the comparison. Of course any man can be a great lover if he wants to - he just needs to truly want to please his partner and take the time to learn what she likes

    • That's funny because even with DNA tests, a man can be forced to pay child support to a woman even if the child isn't his. What a relief to know that's solved.

    • @Tyrael Does that happen? A man forced to pay child support for another man's child? Could be, I just haven't heard of it. Alimony is a different thing if that is what you are thinking of.

    • @richardcory I do mean child support, a quick Google search will tell you all you need to know. In the US the courts decision is based on the welfare of the child, meaning they'll force you to pay even if it's not yours because that's best for the child. It's not so bad in the UK. You must keep paying child support even if you know the child isn't yours, until you can prove that it isn't yours.

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  • The real issues are whether a high body count indicates psychological problems and a lack of self-control. It also indicates that one particular guy is relatively meaningless to a woman, and who wants to invest a lot in someone who isn't in it for the long haul.

    • I don't get that. How is high body count related to psychological problems? What is wrong with a woman (or man) who enjoys casual dating and sex - as long as no one is being deceived in any way?

    • @richardcory: To give you one example, a woman with bipolar disorder.

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  • You are not the president of men, but yes, most people can see that narrow as shit perspective you keep posting.


    However, most sane people disagree.


    Which of the ancient death cults attached this dinky child-lock to your brain? Christianity?

  • this is just pure ignorance and just goes further into slut shaming culture were if women have multiple partners before dating there "promiscuous" while men are praised and "experienced" i'm tired of this narrative and people like you need to stop spreading it. also what is "why are women never held accountable for their actions" supposed to mean.

    • We’re talking about evolution here

    • Never has a society prospered with promiscuous women. Society is already failing more and more. It’s not the time anymore to be getting married. Marriage was great maybe 50-60 years ago when women could keep their legs closed for a man that treats them well

    • our society is falling for a molitutde of reasons but one of those reasons is not because of "promiscuous women" why is it wrong for women to have relations before marriage but not men? i can't help there's sick bastards like you who are insecure so they need to find women with lack of experince to help them feel better about there shitty dick

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  • Of course I do, it's the same reason men who have sex outside of marriage have no value as a husband.

  • Everyone can have their preferences but some reasons like this seem a little weird like saying y'all want innocence is kind of pedo in a way...

    Like I would only ever be with a guy that was a virgin cuz of my ocd. It's just too much of a ick germ wise knowing that a man's been inside another woman. Other then that I don't judge body count so unless there is a better reason then the innocence thing then I don't get it

    • LOL, you think everyone is a pedophile.

    • @Avicenna it's cuz it's the truth. a lot of men have pedo tendencies and don't even realize it. This guy saying that he wants innocence is creepy. If anything he should be saying that he wants a mature woman that values her virginity. That would be more acceptable

  • Marrying a slutty woman is a divorce wait to happen, those women lost the ability to bond.

    👩‍🦰Do you see why men want virgin/low body count girls?
    • what about marrying a slutty guy?

    • A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, but you have the right to marry a virgin.

    • @pink_blah She is free to care about it as well. No double standard on this... however, it is pretty typical for women to not care about his past as much as guys do. Men and women are different and have different standards. Just as men are less likely to care how much money she makes or how tall she is or how much status her job has.

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  • Because they're insecure about their own.

  • It doesn't really matter if they "see". It doesn't matter if they agree with or like that many guys feel this way. Men will have whatever standards they want. Them agreeing is irrelevant.

  • Everyone that has casual sex is worthless as a long term partner.

  • Lmao ah when you have nothing better to do than troll around again

  • No we aren't, and it's just sex.

    I swear, people are out of their fucking minds.

  • It makes complete sense why men don’t like whores and that is why I refrain from these activities

  • I'm just wondering how, aside from her telling you, will you know how many partners she has had?

  • In the back of my mind, most women have higher amounts of sexual opportunities so it is definitely possible any potential date could have a high body count and could lie about it.

  • But as a man I can fuck until my dick exploded rawww

  • Yea promiscuity and a “healthy sex life” as it’s said in our deplorable modern culture is bad for child rearing and family formation. She is bound to leave when the going gets tough destroying the family.

  • as if you're any more marriageable. good luck staying single for the rest of your life living in your dream land where every girl is perfect and can't make a mistake or get raped or have anything else happen to her that creates her "baggage".

  • No, I see why sex offenders would or people with penile size issues they don't want to be compared against someone bigger because the have small dick energy

  • Its not all about the sex itself. You just can't turn a hoe into a wife. A hoe's brain chemistry doesn't work the same. She's not wired for long-term commitments.

    • Going off by your logic, you can’t turn a hoe into a husband either right?

    • @pink_blah Correct. It has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with brain chemistry. Can you convince them to get married? Sure. But will they FULLY commit to one person for life?

    • why are you saying it has nothing to do with gender when the person who posted there opinion blantly put it towards women who have sex and not men who have sex

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  • Are you accountable for the same mistakes or do you rationalize having a double standard?