Do you stand out in a crowd?

[bigpauly]

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Honestly, l don’t know and probably not.


If I were in a crowd full of a million other girls from different states that are my age, I would probably be overlooked and everyone would focus on the other girls. I mean, I’m just a girl who dresses casually and is a big time introvert, and other women with bigger outgoing personalities and better outfits would get the most attention lol. Just being realistic.


However, I have never met anyone who looks like me, so I know that I do stand out because I look “unique” in my town. Not even my twin sister (fraternal) looks like me. The only person who looks like me is my birth mother, but even then she probably wouldn’t stand out. She’s much taller, broader, and has more wavy hair and less freckles. She looks like an ordinary European woman.


I have extremely long curly brown hair, I have fair skin, freckles all over, I have hazel eyes, dimples, and a petite figure. Those are pretty basic physical qualities that would get overlooked in a crowd, but I’ve been told that my hair makes me stand out from a lot of people. I don’t know. I think it just depends on what type of crowd.

[bigpauly]

Ah that makes a lot of sense. Well I think it’s a good thing to stand out for the reasons you would. Way better than being loud and in peoples face

[Genie23]

A skinny tall girl who usually has a pale skin and has a cat like eyes and a weird manner of walking among the people who have round/almond shaped eyes and beautiful olive/brown skin and walk like a normal person, yup. I do stand out..🙄😂😂

[bigpauly]

Your quirky ways are what make you so awesome though 😎

[Genie23]

I forgot to add Among people who are short especially girls* I can't be invisible even though I really want to sometimes. It's not a good thing to stand out especially when you wake up looking like a zombie who's about to eat people's brain. 😐

[Genie23]

@BigPauly Awww! Maybe you're right, lol 😁

[bigpauly]

Awww Wel at least you can reach stuff! They’re probably jealous of you I’m sure you don’t look like a zombie haha. But if you do at least people won’t mess with you.

[Genie23]

I don't know maybe they are or maybe they aren't. Most of them don't exactly think I live here. They think I came from some other city or even country unless I wear typical ethnic clothing, lol. But thank you. ☺️ Trust me, if I get less than 8 hours of sleep, I look like one and about to destroy the world 😂😂😂

[bigpauly]

Ha I know that feeling. I think it’s cool to look out though. Well I’m sure you’re a cute zombie 🧟‍♀️

[Genie23]

I guess. 😅 Yeah, I'd look cuter if I eat your brain, for sure 😜😂

[bigpauly]

😂😂 wait no not my brain!

[Genie23]

Then your eyes? Fine by me 🧐🤔😂

[bigpauly]

😂 I need those too

[Slingblade1126]

Not really. I'm kinda tall but not to the point of freakishly tall. Once in a while I do have to go to casual places while wearing a suit. I do feel like I stand out in those instances.

[bigpauly]

At least least it’s in a good way then.

[RobT312]

I’d say only sometimes... when I stay reserved and go with the flow I don’t stand out.
if my goofy fun personality or clothing choices show through... then I stand out

[bigpauly]

Yea that makes sense. Only stand out when you want to. Nice

[RobT312]

👍👍 It is important to have a voice and stand out at least on occasion. I do it when I have an opinion that I want to be heard.. otherwise I guess I’m reserved

[PrettyPriya]

Did you mean to ask get lost in a crowd?

[bigpauly]

You’ll stand out at our grocery store though!

[PrettyPriya]

@bigpauly That's my flex. 💪

[bigpauly]

You know it! 😎💪

[England4eva]

I’m six feet. I quiet literally have no choice

[bigpauly]

Aww well tall is beautiful! I stand out for the exact opposite reason lol

[England4eva]

No one sees themselves correctly these days, your probably nice looking guy who needs building on confidence 👍💪

[bigpauly]

Thank you very much for that

[England4eva]

Your welcome. Internet has encouraged us to become so toxic to ourselves

[ChrisMaster69]

Yeah soon as I open my mouth lol.

yeah I tend to stand out at times

[ilovenipclamps]

Yes I do, my big boobs, but usually wearing a hoodie helps me not to stand out

[dustybiker]

With helmet head? Yes.

[bigpauly]

I didn’t think of that. Does it mess up your hair?

[dustybiker]

Yes.

[bigpauly]

I’m sure it’s still cute

[dustybiker]

I can make it work… even with the wavy long imprint lines across my forehead and cheeks from my balaclava liner. 😁

[bigpauly]

Heck yea 😎

[Apple1996]

Always cause of my red hair

[bigpauly]

Nice!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Nope. Nor do I have any desire to. I'm just a regular guy

[NathanDavis]

yes, and no...

that really depends on the crowd... lol

I might stand out sometimes... other times I'm just another one

[DonkeyDan]

Yep pretty much like a sore thumb.

[bigpauly]

Me too

[kuladiamond]

i prefer not to stand out, so i try not to.

[bigpauly]

I try my best not too as well

[JoyGirl]

No…lol
I am too quiet and reserved to. 😂

[bigpauly]

Quiet people are underrated

[JoyGirl]

😂😂😂

[FunkyMonkee]

I have to!! I'm 6' 9"!!

[bigpauly]

Woah! yea I guess you would then haha

[douride2]

Big blonde. Yea I kind of stand out.

[bigpauly]

Big blind and beautiful

[PrettyPriya]

@douride2 is blind? Oh no!

[bigpauly]

@PrettyPriya 😂 or I just have fat thumbs

[PrettyPriya]

@bigpauly Thank goodness. I was worried for her.

[nannnnssss]

Ok you guess

[bigpauly]

You want me to guess if you stand out in a crowd? Umm you seem normal to me look and personality wise so I would guess no lol

[nannnnssss]

Bingo but i always get attention from boys for my looks otherwise I don't differ from group and don't talk much except with friends

[bigpauly]

At least it’s good attention, assuming they aren’t weird or aggressive about it anyway.

[nannnnssss]

Nope some are creepy who just stare

[bigpauly]

Ah I could see that being awkward to downright scary

[nannnnssss]

Yeah

[Kristenxoxo]

People tend to say I do because of my butt

[Iron_Man]

Yeah

[AustColombiangirl]

of course

[bigpauly]

Nice do you’re thing

[Nagatoro]

Probably not
I only really do if my social awkwardness shows

[brezzybaby]

Yes I do, I turn heads !

[endoftheline]

I don't think so but maybe?

[bigpauly]

Yea you might not even lnow