Do you talk during sex?

[Anonymous]

Do you talk to or with your partner during the sexual act? Why or why not? Me and my guy never talk while having sex, we're very aligned with each other anyway. :)

[ThomasTKay]

I love to talk during sex. I love to discuss the sensations we are both feeling and how our bodies are doing, is she close? I think it makes the whole thing more educational and connecting. There are moments when you both have to get quiet for a moment when the pleasure is intense so you can close your eyes and focus on breathing but the communication is welcome and very much a big part for me.

[Dobbiboy]

Only when trying something new or a bit different from what we're used to and even then it's usually no more than a few words. We might occasionally suggest a new position when pushing prodding and body language doesn't get the message across.
Dirty talk is almost impossible for me as it seems my mind goes blank and I lose my voice in the heat of the moment lol.

[Tamera952]

Yes probably too much... once I got a "shhhhh..." (shushed during sex)

[summiter]

Sure I like hearing what pleases her and vice versa.

[Asker]

Sure, but that could be talked about before and after the act, right?

[nile92]

I used to talk to my girlfriend (now ex) quite a lot during sex... It was the only time I felt comfortable telling her what I liked and what I wanted her to do

[Asker]

Interesting, we usually talk about sex when cuddling afterwards. I'm afraid to sound like a soccer coach.

[nile92]

Haha true but I was talking more along the lines of fantasies that we weren't actually doing

[Asker]

We talk about thing we would like to try and such also.

[nile92]

Ever end up doing any of it?

[Asker]

Sure we do

[nile92]

That's good

[jahaims]

Depends on the mood

[Tomsta]

I want to but i dont like doing it. I dont like the way my voice sounds and strangely it takes me out of the moment. Im more concentrating on not letting my mind wonder which is what it does when it doesn't have anything to focus on

By that i mean sex isn't really that "complicated" unlike trying to figure out how something works for example or learning a new language or skill

[jasco]

yea i do

[In_Trance]

Yeah, it's great

[Anonymous]

Yes, it gets her aroused when I tell her how good it feels or that I am about to cum. When she moans, I know that what I am doing is working.