Do you tell your boyfriend about their size?

My boyfriend thinks his manhood is a good decent size. He thinks he's average but he's the shortest penis I have been with and it's less than average and it's hard to cum with it so I got a toy. He's offended and always wants me to hop on him instead but I can't cum that way I have to fake it to make him feel better. I've been coming up with ways to tell him we won't work out but he doesn't get it he keeps asking for more information as to way we should break up and I don't have the heart to tell him the truth that I won't be satisfied forever with his penis. Do I just tell him? .. we are still dating and Trying to make sure I can be happy as he's got a good head game to make me cum but I don't know.
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Also, I my boyfriend is paralyzed just to mention so I feel bad to say anything.
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He used to be a bigger size but because of inability to work muscles around that area it has gotten less
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ok. Imagine you had an "A" cup size, and your SO tells you something like, "sorry, they are too small, I can't do this". Imagine he rejects you for that, how would you feel? Yes, you would feel like crap. If the guy is really a good man and you feel happy with him, despite your turn off, why don't try to make it work?

    There are penis sleeves he can use (not kidding), and several sexual angles you can enjoy together. It's just a matter of detaching from your mind that a penis will give you pleasure. Is not really the genitals that gives us pleasure, it's our mind.

    • I wouldn't care as I have been told by a boyfriend he wishes I had bigger boobs. It's not the same thing lol. Also it's hard because he's paralyzed. He can't move it and I have to do all the work...

  • Oki.

    1. Look up sex positions that have deep penetration and make you tighter.
    2. Suggest to him you want to do those.
    3. Do it and see if he feels bigger.

    If it doesn’t work you could mention his size as the main reason but it must be done well. Tell him you’re just not a good physical match up but there’s other girls that could be.

    • I have said this thank you

    • No prob!

Most Helpful Girls

  • If you’re absolutely sure you won’t be satisfied by him, it’s better to end things now rather than string him along. It’s not fair to prolong a relationship doomed to failure. You can tell him the truth but I’d probably spare his feelings by not mentioning his penis size. You could always give a more generalized reason... you don’t see a future together, you’re not compatible physically or emotionally, you want to date other people, etc. You can let him down without crushing him.

    • Yea thank you

  • Yes you should tell him
    You will be unhappy otherwise

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  • Please don't tell him. That will crush him

  • Make sure you are not a hypocrite. If you choose to not be honest with him, then make sure he knows he can lie to you without penalty.

    • What do you mean?

    • I mean so far you are not telling him the truth and in fact by faking it you are lying to him. If you are still in the relationship then it’s fair if he lies to you as well.

    • Gotchya

  • Don’t have that problem my hubby is big and he knows it

  • If a man doesn't satisfy u sexually move on... This happened to me its not selfish to wanna be satisfied in bed girl.

  • You could stick a pillow under your butt which would make
    you higher up and see if that works for you both I've heard
    that this works for smaller guys?

  • His size isn't the issue. You are. Stop making excuses. If you want to be with him, communicate how you feel and do your best to make it work. If not then leave. He doesn't deserve to live in a false relationship that are putting him in and you clearly aren't happy.

    • Excuse me? Thanks for assuming he's smaller than 5 inches and he can't work it at all because he's paralyzed so f u

    • With that knowledge, Same response. You withheld information and that's your problem, not mine, because your the one posting this in the first place. I didn't assume anything. You are the one talking about size and how it's an issue for you. Now it's the he's paralyzed like that's supposed to make a difference. You either want to be with him or you don't. If you do, then talk to him and trying and try to come up with some sort of solution, and if you don't then leave because you're the one complaining like a little bitch to everyone here when you already know what you can do about it.

    • Thank you

  • he's smaller than 5 inches?

    • He says he's 5 inches but he's less

    • I don't know what to say about that 😂

    • Yea...

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  • did you take a ruler to his penis and found out he's significantly below 5-6 inches?

    • He's around 4

    • eve if he "was" 4 inches, that's not the "shortest penis". that's "slightly below average".

    • i mean what i'm really trying to say is: his dick may be short or not. i don't know. BUT i think if you told him that he's short, that could SERIOUSLY mentally cripple him. maybe he will be totally adequate for the next girl no reason to do that sort of damage. get over it. and by that i mean, cope with him being small or leave him. but don't crush his ego.

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  • 16 cm? is it normal? 🤔🙄

  • It is better to consult some doctor who deals in sex related issues. I have heard from people that some medicines are available in market which can bigger the dick.

  • You madam need to be more wholesome than that because no good gentleman will want you if you breakup with him for that reason. Does he at least have hand game to make up for it?

  • how small is he and is he able to get hard and perform well?

  • Have you tried doggy or wheelbarrow?

    • We can't do those positions 😣

    • Generally deeper penetration.

    • I get it but he's paralyzed so he can't do those

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