Do you think a 4 year age difference is too big?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend will be turning 21 this year and I will be turning 25.

[Reece12345]

Absolutely not. 40 years maybe! But not 4.

And I don't think anyone should be influenced on what is "normal" in other relationships. I don't think there is such a think as completely "normal".

[Ill_made_Knight]

4 might seem like a lot at your young age but in a few short years 4 years will be nothing... not even close to too big.

[Angel_ica]

No no this is no problem it does not matter that much

[Elliegirl]

It’s no big deal. Especially for your ages it’s fine.

[surebruh]

A few years apart from your age "range" is entirely normal.

[integrale77]

No my girlfriend I'd 37 I'm 45 and it works

[Berethor]

I don't think that is a big age gap, but yea usually it the guy who is older than the girl.

[SnowedIn]

That is not too big at all!

[Astarlessnightsky]

Thats nothing.

[Summeroflove]

Not if you’re both happy together

[Dargil]

No I do not. Especially in 20's age really is just an umber.

[DavidRaul]

I think thats normal. As long you love each other age shouldn't be a concern

[DavidRaul]

Well that doesn't matter. If a man can marry someone younger then why can't a woman do the same?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.

[Luopio27]

You are dating him for you, not for anyone's aproval. You are both adults so age dont matter.

[Sparkie460]

No that age gap is fine. My wife is 6 1/2 years older than me. We get along great.

[BJP21]

+- 5 years is about the norm at your age.

[AimeeKyle]

No, not a big deal at all.

[Mangospacho]

It’s not a big deal and it’ll become even lesser of a deal when you’re 30 and he’s 26 or 36 and 32. Nobody’s gonna even notice the age difference.

[Twalli]

I don't see a problem with it. My girlfriend is almost 5.5 years older than me and I fully intend to marry her.

[bamesjond0069]

It's too big a gap for the woman to be older. The woman should never be older. It will lead to problems for both parties.

[Pudsmucker]

My friend from the military he's 5 years younger than his wife. There's nothing wrong with it. They have a good relationship with each other. When you get older nobody knows nobody cares. The question I have is you both look good together?

[Passing_by]

No, it's all good.

[In_Trance]

Nope

[driven159]

Age is just a number my wife is 25 years younger than me, and we have been married a long time