Do you think a guy is a virgin if he broke up with you for another girl?

[fancan]

your boyfriend took your virginity and claims he was a virgin before y’all did it…now he broke your heart but claims he never had sex before you and he isn’t having sex w the new girl.. but he’s very good at hiding certain things..

[ohshee]

Well all I know is I was a virgin one time and the girl wasn't the first three times totally sucked the fourth time was absolutely beautiful and it's been beautiful ever since because I learned something very very good but it took the first three times to learn it so I'm so glad that it was with that girl because she was patient and she allowed me to do what I did to learn when I thought what's the best

[fancan]

oh that’s good for you!! happy for you

[ohshee]

So do you feel he was not Virgin

[fancan]

i’m still not sure. But i feel like he might have messed around w other girls but might not gone all the way.. i’ll never know

[ohshee]

I think the best thing is to do is just let it go other wise your just going to make yourself sick thinking a out it and even if he did it doesn't matter because he's gone and if he did it yo you he's doing it with others you dont want a guy like that anyway br happy that has gone

[fancan]

you’re right! i’m sick as we speak!.. it’s gonna hurt because we were together for a while and he lied…but yes i’m happy that there is a weight off my shoulders!! thank you☺️

[ohshee]

Yes I hear you the positive is it's better that he showed you who he is now then later the other positive is your not pregnant with his kid because then you would have his kid and he would still be gone so don't make yourself too sick there's a lot of positives we came out of this probably

[fancan]

omg you’re right!! just gonna try to focus on the positive! and thank goodness i’m not pregnant.. thank you

[ohshee]

Yes because 1 day there not found to be a girl that is lucky like you. he's going to end up making that Girl's Life not very happy not very good because the moment he finds out she's pregnant he's gone she's on her own so you got to like I said find the positives

[Berethor]

He likely lied to you, virgins tend to feel more connected after sex.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

[Gwenhwyfar]

Maybe. Most guys don’t lie and say they’re virgins when they’re not. But impossible to tell for sure from these facts.

[fancan]

yea.. but a lot of his exes were long relationships and girls that were going through a lot.. he could’ve said that to mess around but ig i’ll never know…

[Gwenhwyfar]

They might have still just messed around. Not gone all the way.

[boggboss]

Its impossible to know as only he has that answer hun

[fancan]

that’s the sad thing

[boggboss]

Why would u focus in it tho hun

[fancan]

bc he took my virginity…

[boggboss]

I get that but you allowed him to do so there is no point trying to pick out if he lied as its nor somthing you are even able to find out just got to move on

[Citizenkirk]

He is not a virgin 😜🤣

[Wise4myage]

Not necessarily, but he sounds like a real clown.

[fancan]

definitely!

[In_Trance]

no..

[Anonymous]

Sounds like a few ex girlfriend's daughters. They are mad at their mom's, or want attention so they sleep with their new step daddy.

[Anonymous]

It is a complicated situation. I'm locked.