Do you think a porn addiction can ruin a relationship?

[TouchMyKitty]

I believe it could

[JackSmy]

Seems that almost EVERY woman judges, but a lot of them like, and masturbate to gay porn! Statistics!! Online, Google it!!
I want to know what she watches to get off, and Yeah, it is TOTALLY NORMAL for women to just love masturbating! Some even do it more than guys!! LOL!!
If you just accept, and share what they love, maybe you can share those things together, and really have a lot of great times!!
You can get so close, when you both are trusting, enough, and sharing things, and maybe she likes and wants to do things he likes, in his fantasy play, and maybe he wants to role play something, for her fantasy!!

[TouchMyKitty]

It’s not me who suffers from porn addiction. It’s my boyfriend who does and he is destroying our relationship

[jasco]

Yes it has and i have lived threw it cause i used to be a porn addict, i have gotten over it but its difficult staying in a relationship. It can be difficult not asking for nudes or constantly wanting to jerk off to something. Its difficult to have a high tolerance to saying no to sex. I have gotten over it and i have been in a relationships where i haven't ask for nudes at all and just loved her but something else happen that had nothing to do with porn so yea it didn't go well

[TouchMyKitty]

I’m going through this now with my boyfriend. Our relationship is suffering drastically. I don't know what to do. I don’t know if I can help him. He needs to want to make the change to stop watching. Makes me feel dispensable, insecure, alone and ugly.

[jasco]

Yes i understand how you feel and honestly the way i did it was simply blocking it out, tell him to block every porn site he goes onto and then you should fine him something to do that will take his mind of it

[chrissykerdock]

it may influence me to do certain things... i don't think if it wasn't for porn i could give a blowjob to a guy i just met... so often i'm in a mini skirt and i just want to suck somebody... it sounds sick but it's true... i want to get back from someone on how they see me... meaning if they're excited for me i want to suck a man's penis who's excited for me like that... yes i dress sexy and revealing... and i enjoy sucking a man's penis anytime... or most times... is that porn drving me? probably.

[TouchMyKitty]

Possibly

[Quackthulu]

Any addiction can ruin a relationship. Porn isn’t special.

[caring__1]

Any addiction can ruin a relationship. One is no better than another.

[AmandaYVR]

Absolutely. Not 'it absolutely will', but 'it absolutely could.'

[AmandaYVR]

Your boyfriend's going through it eh.
Here, read some of the comments on my q. Maybe you can pass some along to him. (Notice the male one about being suicidal.)
It's extremely common to have an addiction to it. Some people say porn is innocuous, and it is for some, and for others it eventually has a hugely negative impact on their life. So I understand your concern, Kitty.
Have You Ever Been Addicted To Porn? ↗

[Flower7]

Yes, absolutely! It leads to unrealistic expectations, among many other problems.

[tenukitanuki]

I believe anything can do whatever you want to intangible concepts like a relationship. What is that? It's whatever you've agreed upon. Can that agreement die? Surenough. Is it porn or the constant dismissal of the other person in casual life? Who is to say? Probably not the porn addict, right? They're invalid, step 1.

[Lov2PlezUgurl]

yes a porn addiction can most certainly ruin a relationship
on the other hand it can also enhance a relationship because let's face it porn is just sex education right

[itsme1509]

Yeah of course it could. Best to talk about it.

[igaveyouanickname]

Not unless it were used as a direct attention replacement or as a weapon.

[Brian___1731]

Of course it does. All an SO can do is help them to get rid of it but if they don't succeed then it can be quite menacing

[SandandWaves]

um... it will most deff mess with her/ or his head!

[LiamSawyer]

Yes it definitely could!

[LiamSawyer]

Porn addiction can make a person not know the difference between reality and fantasy. There are many things done in porn that are not generally pleasurable in reality such as making your woman gag by choking her with your dick. How can anyone find this pleasurable.

[Dargil]

Very much so,

[lanadelrey25]

Of course it can.

[ArSwSw]

Yes definitely.. it will desensitize towards the passion with your partner.

[Phoenix98]

For sure it definitely can.

[Makeushiver]

I think you write wonderful poetry

[dutch69lover]

Not unless both partners like to watch it together and are very sexually adventurous

[AmeerX]

It could if the man or woman start to act and think like pornstars

[RosePrincess]

Yes, why watch too much porn when you have the real thing to enjoy it? Are you a pig to enjoy watching a fake scene for a guy fucking a girl when you can make the same thing in real and enjoy? Never understand those people.

[johnsmall23]

you can relax easier when watching porn and masturbating and you don't have to be under pressure to be great in bed so your girlfriend doesn't leave you and so on

[Jamie05rhs]

@johnsmall23. You have to man up, though. That's one of the responsibilities of having a girlfriend: fucking her.

[johnsmall23]

@Jamie05rhs there are no responsibilities wtf are you talking about? it's your choice

[Jamie05rhs]

Unless you both agree to be asexual, then having sex with your partner is one of the responsibilities of being in a relationship. That's just how it works, dude.

[johnsmall23]

@Jamie05rhs no it isn't. Sex should be something you love doing not a responsibility. If it's a responsibility you should break up

[Jamie05rhs]

Well, I agree with you on that. And I didn't mean it that way.

[Wise4myage]

Yep. That's been proven long ago.

[jahaims]

Duh.